Jim Stump - The Power of One-on-One: Discovering the Joy and Satisfaction of Mentoring Others

2014 by Jim Stump

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Would You Like to Know God Personally? , a version of Have You Heard of the Four Spiritual Laws? 19652010. Written by Bill Bright. Campus Crusade for Christ International and Bright Media Foundation. Used by permission.

Jim Stump, in The Power of One-on-One , demonstrates the simplicity and surprising influence of a personal conversation. Sharing the faith and providing mentorship, it seems, does not require the pomp and circumstance of a vast arenaa cup of coffee and an open ear will do the trick.

Pat Williams , cofounder and senior vice president of the Orlando Magic; author of Coach Wooden s Greatest Secret

I met Jim during my first year of college. He was and is someone I look up to. There is something about his walk with Jesus that is infectious. Joy overflows in his life. He is uniquely wired to connect men twice his size to the Creator and Savior of the world. Jims discipleship ministry is amazing. He has loved people into a life-changing relationship with his Savior by spending time with them and speaking into their lives in ways that are Spirit-empowered. You will be encouraged and challenged by his story. Perhaps, like me, you will see God calling you to invest more deeply in the lives of others as you read this book.

Jay Barnes , president, Bethel University, St. Paul, Minnesota

The Bible tells us that a wise man wins souls (Prov. 11:30). Jim Stump is a wise man. He walks the walk of a lifestyle evangelist and has done so for more than thirty years. His platform for sharing hasnt been a street corner or a church building; it has been a table in the athletic dorm of Stanford University. He sets up shop and takes appointments with the athletes to talk with them about the issues of life. He shares the Bible one-on-one as he points these athletes in the right direction for living, and through his work he has led many to a relationship with Christ. No telling how many men he has mentored over the years and how many more he has influenced with his one-on-one mentoring life and message. In this book Jim encourages and inspires all of us to share our faith in a practical, conversational way through imparting the skills and insight he has developed over more than three decades of ministry. I encourage everyone who wants to live wisely to read this book!

Tom Lane , executive senior pastor, Gateway Church, Southlake, Texas

Jim Stump has been practicing for years what many desire to dobuild disciples one-on-one in small, intimate settings. Learn from the one who mastered Jesus command to go and make disciples.

Josh D . McDowell , author and speaker

Jim Stump lives what he preachesthe power of God to change lives through relationship, one person at a time. I grew up with Stumper, have known him since high school, and this I know: Jim loves God; Jim lets Gods love spill over to those around him; Jim listens and laughs and prays, letting the truth about Jesus shine through. Walk with Jim through these pages as he shares what God has taught him about the power of one-on-one mentoring, and discover that God can use you too.

Neta Jackson , author of t he Yada Yada Prayer Group series

One of the primary roles of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes is to reach coaches, who are so much more to athletes than just a person who draws up the plays. The best coaches are great mentors who invest in the lives of their athletes. In The Power of One - on - One , Jim Stump shows us why it is so important to be a mentor and how to mentor as Jesus did. The Power of One - on - One can be taken to heart as we sow into the lives of others in order to reap a harvest of salvation.

Les Steckel , veteran NFL coach; president/CEO of Fellowship of Christian Athletes

We live in such an age of hyperbole, false advertising, and untruths that it is so refreshing to read of the life of Jim Stump and his mission. Jim does not embellish or try to sell a view of the truth; his book is an authentic extension and explanation of his life. What an inspiring and clear articulation of what it means to follow Jesus and to simply be instructed in the expression of daily walking the talk. Everyone who is involved in caring for others , whether in a formal ministry or like most of us attempting to follow Jesus and his teachings, will find not only an interesting story but a life-challenging and helpful expression of the practical living out of ones faith in Jesus. This extends into mentoring and equipping others. We dont need more how-to books and programs; we need more authentic people who model what it means to walk the talk and who express it as Jesus didnonjudgmentally and in ways that are helpful for equipping the church for the work of ministry. Jim lives out the new commandment in John 13:3435. Be encouraged by a true follower of Jesus who is faithful to his calling!

Milt Richards , associate, International Foundation, Pacific Rim

To my wife, Lindathank you for loving me and traveling with me through life.

To my children, Ashley, Mike, and JasonI am so proud of who you are becoming as you faithfully continue to walk with Jesus. Thank you for being willing to adjust your lives to Gods agenda to achieve his purposes.

To my father and mother, Don and Lorene Stumpthank you for modeling Gods love, faithfulness, and heart for those who have yet to find a relationship with Jesus. Your rewards are many in heaven!

To my siblings, Dave, Don, John, Priscilla Judge, Mary Lou Elliott, and Zona Wilsonthose sibling reunions are a delicious taste of what awaits us when we leave this earth.

And finally to Bud Hinksonit took the uniqueness of who you were and your amazing vision to attract me to explore what this journey entailed. And what a journey it has been! The principles you taught me are being passed on through generations of men I have mentored. Our loss is heavens gain!