2014 by Katariina Rosenblatt and Cecil Murphey
Published by Revell
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P.O. Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
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Ebook edition created 2014
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To protect the privacy of individuals who are still living, some names and details have been changed. The following is the authors personal recollection of the events of her life.
Katariina Rosenblatt recounts her childhood story of suffering what no human being should ever be exposed to. It takes great courage to embrace the pain after so many years and to use it toward healing domestic minor sex trafficking survivors as well as toward raising awareness about this horrendous problem in our communities.
Dr. Roza Pati , professor of law and executive director, graduate program in intercultural human rights, St. Thomas University School of Law; director, Human Trafficking Academy; member, Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace, The Vatican
Katariina Rosenblatt is one of a multitude of children who have been and are being trafficked in our backyards every day. Her story is compelling and difficult to put down and at times may seem unbelievable, but the heinous things she endured are typical of the atrocity of trafficking that happens even in our country. Katariinas story is riveting, her healing is miraculous, and her courage to grasp her own recovery and help others is indescribable. Her faith is evident and elicits faith in the reader about Gods love and commitment to us, even when we are not on the right path. She is a living testimony of the love of God. I highly recommend Stolen . Katariinas story is a shining example of one who has come out of darkness and steps into that darkness to rescue others and bring them light and love.
Nita Belles , author of In Our Backyard ; founder and director of In Our Backyard 365; Central Oregon regional director of Oregonians against Trafficking Humans
Rosenblatt invites us to join her in a harrowing journey as a vulnerable and abused child who was intentionally groomed and then sexually exploited. Her book is a disturbing portrayal of the situations that put our children at risk and enable traffickers to exploit their vulnerability. Katariina escaped a life of abuse and has gone on to complete graduate training in law, receive a PhD, and found a faith-based organization to assist young women who are trapped in a world she experienced firsthand. She now dedicates her life to intervention, advocacy, and serving those at risk of exploitation. Her book offers hope and concrete guidance for action. Katariinas life story challenges us to deeper vigilance, prayer, compassion, and courage on behalf of children and other vulnerable people in our society.
Bill Prevette, PhD , research professor at Oxford Centre for Mission Studies, and Ky Prevette , spiritual director, OCMS
In Stolen , Kat clearly articulates details about something that most of us find hard to conceive. She shines light, both through her words and her faith, upon an industry that thrives in darkness. I would recommend this book to all parents no matter how secure they are in the belief that their children are immune to this crime. As frightening as it is to admit, theyre not immune at all. And aside from helping readers understand better ways to protect their own children, Stolen can open discussions about opportunities for cleansing our communities of this corrosive industry. I would also recommend this book for teenagers because parents cant always be there to protect their children. Being able to learn from Kats mistakes and identify the techniques of traffickers should help children steer clear of danger. Its a very important read.
Robert J. Benz , founder and executive vice president, Frederick Douglass Family Initiatives
Dedicated to all survivors of abuse and sex trafficking.
May God fill you with hope and set you free forever.
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
Endorsements
Dedication
1. Why Was I a Victim of Human Trafficking?
2. My New Friend
3. You Can Call Me Daddy
4. The Bridal Game
5. You Have to Make It Right
6. Left to Die
7. My Vulnerability
8. Enduring Rage
9. From Bullying to Cocaine
10. Another Escape
11. Enslaved... Again
12. Unsuspected Predators
13. Fearing Paco
14. Almost Busted
16. A Modeling Career
17. Wedded Bliss?
18. Learning about Boundaries
19. Lessons from Law School
20. Making the Break
21. Living Alone
22. My Emancipation Proclamation
23. Changed
24. Rescue Ministry
25. Survivor Stories
26. Setting the Captives Free
About There Is H.O.P.E For Me, Inc.
Acknowledgments
About the Authors
Back Ads
Back Cover
Why Was I a Victim of Human Trafficking?
S ex trafficking doesnt happen here, people often say, especially those from small towns. If it doesnt happen where they live, theyre not personally affected. Its a terrible thing, they admit, but its also removed from them.
Or so they want to believe. And yet, sex trafficking happens everywhere, and no city or small town is immune. It happens to victim-prone children. For me it occurred in Miami, but it could have happened to any girl or boy in Cub Run, Kentucky, or Cedar Falls, Iowa.
My cowriter, Cecil Murphey, wasnt caught in human traffickingbut even in Iowa where he grew up, he easily could have been lured into the sex trade. He had many of the same problems and conflicts as I did.
He also fit the profile. Every story is different; each victim and survivor has a distinctive experience, but most of us can be profiled easily enough. And its not a gender issue. The problems and needs of me (a female) and Cec (a male) werent much different. Our dissimilarities revolve around what happened after our early molestation.
I tell a little of Cecs history because too many people assume that in human or sex trafficking, predators want only girls. Thats not true. In my organization (There Is H.O.P.E. For Me, Inc.) I have seen firsthand that at least one-third of sex slaves are boys.
Who are we? Why us?
We who were victimized didnt know healthy ways to cope with others. Usually, we were the loners, the outcasts, the shy, the overweight, or the smaller kids. Because we were needy children, perpetrators sensed that vulnerability. Most of us didnt meet some evil person lurking in the park, and we werent accosted by a stranger on a dark street.
If those who lured us were strangers, they groomed us by winning our trust before they took advantage of our vulnerability. The point is that we knew our perpetrators and they taught us to trust them.
As youll read in this book, my horrific childhood made me an excellent candidate. A woman named Mary groomed meand grooming is the correct word. It means the perpetrator won my trust, showered me with attention, and made me feel important and special. That misplaced trust lured me into sex trafficking.
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