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Dedicated to
My dear brother, Aalok
For all we share
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I am grateful to my Great Big Indian Family spread across the cities and small towns of India whose path to progress inspired me to write this book.
My childhood memories with: Manish, Rakesh, Yogesh(Ujjain), Rakesh (Ratlam), Rekha (Ratlam), Amit, Dipti, Rohit (Indore), Shweta (Ratlam), Aneeta didi (Dhar), Sanju The Terror (Dhar), Sharad, Amit, Dhiren, Mona, Seepi (Jaipur), Ashok, Arvind bhaiyya (Banaras), Meeta, Reetu (Kanpur), Ankit, Akanksha (Nagpur) + The Delhi Gang (Rahul, Rajat, Gaurav, Swati, Mili, Pinky, Preeti).
My family post-marriage: Yatin (Ludhiana), Reeta, Mukul (Ludhiana), Pinky didi, Brij jijaji, Anshu, Akhil (Simla), Vibha didi (Hoshiarpur), Rakesh, Kavita (Chandigarh), Ashwini bhai, Kalpana bhabhi, Vepan, Neera and everyone else.
To the many institutions who invited me to their campuses from Kakinada to Kanpur, helping me travel across India and collect the material for this book. In particular, IIT Kanpur, IIM Lucknow, IIM Raipur, IIT Jodhpur, IIT Guwahati, XIM Bhubaneshwar, MIT Manipal, BET Global Business School Belgaum, KIET Kakinada, College of Engineering, Chengannur and TIE Nagpur.
To Mr Roshan Babu and his driver, Nisufan, for taking wonderful care of me in Kerala.
To my friend, Madhuri, and driver, Jeetubhai, for a memorable day in Rajkot.
To Sudhanva Jategaonkar of Network 18 for introducing me to Parakrambhai through the LEAP conference, Goa.
Nikhil Manchanda in Kanpur, for his kind assistance with interviews.
To Sunil Handa, who has always encouraged me to be my best. And Divya Handa, for her serenity and hospitality.
My friend, Ravish Kumar, for his online and offline support in everything I do.
My colleague, Niyati Patel, and my cousin, Akanksha, for their help with proofreading.
My transcription team: John B K, Vikash Bakrewal, Dr Athishaya Mamatha, Jagjit Singh, Shweta Gadkari Joshi and Priyanka (Writersmelon). Also Jyoti Arya, Pooja Chakrapani, Priya Naveen and Anchal Patil.
Saurav Roy and Sajith Ansar of Idea Spice Design, for the brilliant new-look cover.
Durgeshbhai at Core House for his help in DTP.
Rupesh Shah for generously lending his Macbook Pro as well as getting my machine repaired.
To Delna and her wonderful staff at The Teapot Caf, where I spent many happy days writing on their blue sofa.
My editor, Aradhana Bisht, for bearing with all my quirks and demands. My ever-supportive publishers, Gautam Padmanabhan and Paul Kumar of Westland.
To my dearest daughter, Nivedita, whose presence makes the house a home.
Last but not the least, YB, Mom, Dad and Lata, who all know I go a bit crazy when working on a deadline.
The calm countenance of Swami Vivekananda at my desk gives me strength at such times.
Country Roads, take me home
To the place I belong
John Denver
AUTHORS NOTE
There are some things you can never change in life. One of them is your place of birth. I was born in Ratlam and this was what I had to write on my biodata, on my passport, on the very first page of my school diary.
Why had my parents been so thoughtless?
My brother had the good fortune of being born in Bombay. He would never have to answer the question, Where is Ratlam? Uh, its in Madhya Pradesh. Really never heard of it! And there I would squirm, feel a bit ashamed.
The citizens of Ratlam are proud of two things: their town is an important railway junction, and makes the worlds best namkeen sev .
To me, it is what we call the native place. Its where I spent summer vacations, with a houseful of aunts, uncles and cousins. Each a colourful character, indelibly etched in my mind.
Like my chachaji, Shyam Sunder Agrawal, who never sat at a table, or wore shirt and pant. Dressed in white kurta and pyjama, he cycled to work. There he sat on a thick mattress, with his bahikhata , conducting the business of the Agrawal Steel Corporation (Power House Road).
When a child was up to some mischief, chachaji would call them a benda or a bendi . A special Ratlami word for idiot.
We slept on the veranda and fought over taash ke patte (playing cards). I could play teen-do-paanch the entire day and still not get bored.
Much as I hated the idea of being born in Ratlam, Ratlam never grudged me.
Looking back I see how snooty I was. Because I lived in Bombay, because I knew English. Because I never oiled my hair, or wore a bindi.
An idea of coolness so Western, so shallow. Like the lyrics of Careless Whisper, which I once thought was the ultimate song.
Today, I am proud of my Ratlami heritage. Of my cousins and aunts and uncles who have grown and prospered. Some of them still dont speak English, and still oil their hair. But it does not matter anymore.
This is the new India, the real India, the consumer every marketer and every soap opera wants to reach. They have overpowered the metros with their numbers, with their hunger. To be something, to do something. Through education, through aspiration, through pursuit of work.
They come to metro cities, in search of opportunity. But how long before the tide turns?
For there is a small revolution taking place in small-town India. A new breed of entrepreneurs who are changing old equations and assumptions. Doing world-class quality work from the city of their birth.
These cities lack the glamour of Bombay, but also the grime. Its a quieter, gentler way of life where time is what people have for each other, not something you chase to catch the next train.
The future is bright, it is beckoning. Close your eyes and remember your roots. You may hear a whisper from that inner voice, I have seen the world. Now take me home.
January 2014 Rashmi Bansal
Mumbai