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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Stewart, Martha.
Living the good long life / Martha Stewart.
1. Older peopleHealth and hygiene. 2. Older peoplePsychology.
3. Well-beingAge factors. I. Title.
RA777.6.S74 2013
613.0438dc23 2012011827
ISBN 978-0-307-46288-6
eISBN: 978-0-307-95321-6
Book design by Special Projects Group, Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia
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This book is dedicated to all former, present, and future caregivers, including my mother, Martha Kostyra. And it is also dedicated to all of us who wish to live good, long, and productive lives.
I have long been interested in the very important subjects of health and health care, with the goal of living well now and into the future. Ive always sought out the best medical treatments, read as many books and articles as I could on these subjects, and asked lots and lots of questions of my doctors as well as of my friends and acquaintances in the business of health. I believe that being informed about all aspects of health is the best way you can prepare yourself to enjoy a good, long life.
In putting together this book, I relied on the expertise of many, including the excellent doctors and care providers at the Martha Stewart Center for Living (MSCL). I am grateful to Dr. Audrey Chun, director of MSCL, for all that she did to help define what this book could and should be, and for setting the tone in her wonderful foreword. Dr. Albert Siu, professor and chair of the department of geriatrics and palliative medicine at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai, also greatly contributed to my understanding of the subjects covered herein. Other doctors at Mount Sinai for whose expertise I am grateful include Dr. Christine Chang, assistant professor of geriatrics and palliative medicine; Dr. Sita Chokhavatia, associate professor of medicine in the division of gastroenterology; Joan Griffiths Vega, facilitator of an Alzheimers caregiver group and group teacher for a mindfulness-based caregiver stress-management group; Ella Jolly, geriatric psychiatric social worker; Dr. Jana Klauer, physician with an expertise in nutrition and metabolism; and Dr. Michael A. Palese, associate professor of urology and director of minimally invasive surgery. I am so thankful to Dr. Brent Ridge, former VP of Healthy Living at Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia, for his work in putting together the original proposal for this book. In researching the voluminous text, we relied on the work of Dr. Gerald Imber, author of The Youth Corridor ; Linda Packer, MSW, LSCW, geriatric care manager and founder of Prime Life Network; and Dr. Dennis Popeo, attending psychiatrist at NYU Langone Medical Center.
I am fortunate to have a great team of doctors with whom I consult regularly, among them Dr. Albert Knapp, clinical associate professor of medicine at NYU School of Medicine; ophthalmologist Dr. Stuart Aaron; gynecologist and obstetrician Dr. Jane Galasso; dermatologist Dr. Catherine Orentreich; and Dr. Steven A. Stuchin, associate professor at NYU School of Medicine and chief of orthopedic services at NYU Hospital for Joint Diseases.
I am indebted to my personal trainer, Mary Tedesco, for all that she does to keep me in shape, as well as to James Murphy, director of the Iyengar Institute, for his yoga lessons, and to Dr. Wanda Lopez for her unique chiropractic care. In researching how to prevent falls (one of the biggest health risks for seniors), the work of Fall Stop...Move Strong proved invaluable, and for that I thank the groups cofounders, Celeste Carlucci and Julie Kardachi.
I have learned much over the years about financial matters, including estate planning, from my banker, Jane Heller, senior vice president of private wealth management at US Trust, Bank of America. I am also thankful to Carlyn S. McCaffrey, lawyer and partner at McDermott, Will & Emery LLP.
For a list of all who contributed to the production of this book, please turn to .
CONTENTS
FOREWORD
BY Audrey Chun, M.D. , DIRECTOR OF THE MARTHA STEWART CENTER FOR LIVING AT MOUNT SINAI HOSPITAL
When Martha first mentioned that she wanted to write a book on aging gracefully, I was thrilled. Who better to debunk the stereotypes and to serve as a model for successful aging than the woman who has spent decades helping us see what true living can be?
I have worked with Martha as the director for the Center for Living since 2008, and sometimes people express surprise at my wanting to work in geriatrics, particularly in our youth-obsessed culture. Some even ask bluntly, Isnt it depressing to work with old people? In fact, it is quite the opposite. I have the privilege of taking care of patients as they transition through their last stages of life, and I am continuously awed by their lives and their narratives. They have marched for civil rights, survived the Holocaust, been true innovators of industry, produced incredible art, raised families, and adapted through some of the most profound changes of the last century. They are our parents, aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, and friends, and it seems implausible to me that we would not be interested in the experiences they have to offer. At a time when news headlines often make me question our humanity, they renew my hope in what we can achieve as a people. Their lives and attitudes inspire me to live a purpose-filled and richer life.
The Martha Stewart Center for Living embodies the central vision of our geriatrics medical practice: whole-person care, including physical and social well-being, as well as measures to prevent diseaseand then, when disease occurs, the best medical care. We strive to provide care that is comprehensive and personalized to reflect the individual patients needs and values. The Center for Living also encourages maintaining good health through lifestyle changes by providing programs like tai chi to prevent falls and group visits to educate people on diet and exercise. If serious illness occurs, we reevaluate treatments based on the patients goals of care and strive for the best quality of life for whatever time a person may have. We recognize this journey is not in isolation, but occurs within the context of caregiversfamilies and friends who need support and education as much as the patient does.
Those who have lived most successfully into this oldest age seem to have a few things in common:
A rich social network of friends and family, both young and old.
A meaningful and purposeful life: its the reason to get up in the morning; meaning and purpose can be anything as long as its important to the personfamily, work, painting, volunteering, even online backgammon tournaments!
A resilient personalityability to recover from adversity and move on with life rather than dwell on challenges.
We are extremely fortunate to have Martha advocating for these older adultsadvocating for better care and caregiver support, and breaking the stereotypes of aging with her own active and healthy lifestyle. While nobody can expect to live forever, the goal is to live the time we have with the best health and physical/mental capacity possible. This is a remarkable book because it gives practical advice on daily activities we can incorporate into our lives for healthier and better living.