Kate Peers - Mindful Thoughts at Home

Finding heart in the home

Kate Peers

Mindfulness is about being truly present and fully engaged with whatever were doing at that moment, anchoring ourselves in the present. We aim to be aware of our thoughts and feelings without getting caught up in them, letting go of distraction and judgement. We usually focus on the past or the future, but with mindfulness, we pay attention to what is around us, things that we would normally take for granted.

So why not put some focus on your home environment? The layout, ambience and dcor in your home can offer a perfect complement to the sense of wellness that mindfulness creates. It is our home, after all.

What does home mean, really? While your home is a statement to all who visit, more importantly, it influences your mood and emotions. The vision of a beautiful house means something different to everyone, so it is important to be confident with your choices and content in what you have around you.

Often, we forget about what is really important in life, striving for perfection in an imperfect world. Mindfulness can help to right that wrong. In our homes, we have some amount of control over our surroundings and can decide what makes us truly happy there is no need to follow a trend, decorate, or create a home set-up that doesnt please you. If we look at the things that we own, decide what we need and make sure we have the key ingredients for a soothing base for our lives, then we can make a space that allows us to feel safe, be calm and create memories.

It actually doesnt take much to give a space a radical makeover. A coat of paint or some upcycled furniture can make a huge difference, helping turn a room from a depressing environment to a place where you feel positive and productive. If this sounds a bit abstract, lets take an example: consider the humble rug. The right choice grounds a space, adding warmth and acting as a focal point from which you can build. Rather than going for whatever someone tells you is in right now, or grabbing something in a hurry because itll do, you can bring in some mindfulness: consider how the fabric will feel against your bare feet. Likewise, rearranging furniture neednt just be about dragging things around; it can help you evaluate your space and think over what you really need from it.

If your space is making you unhappy, focus and reflect on what you love in your room and build your scheme around that. Making small, deliberate changes will help you feel content in your environment, and with mindful awareness you can become more alert to how to please as many of your senses as possible. This book aims to show you ways to manage your home into a delightful and comfortable environment.

A house offers protection from the elements, but for it to be a home, there must also be an emotional pull. Our homes should be places where we can retreat from the world and feel relaxed. Choosing a house or apartment is a practical business, dictated by requirements such as location, cost and size, and it always comes down to circumstances, finances and, where possible, our gut reaction when we walk through the door. But while a house or apartment is four walls, a home is our sanctuary, an environment that gives us a special feeling. With care, we can make any house our home.