After half a lifetime in the field of electronicsas university lecturer and design engineerin 2004 Paul had the opportunity to take a four-month sabbatical from work, during which he was led down a path of personal growth, an experience that utterly changed his life. The study and practice of hatha yoga and meditation led to trainings and certifications in the area of self-development and many years exploration of meditation, yoga, energy work, and therapy techniques. In 2005, he established The Sanctuary of Asclepios in San Jose, California.
Drawing from his work with survivors of domestic violence, Paul is passionate about helping people to empower themselves and connect with the beautiful soul inside.
Paul has been practicing yoga and teaching meditation for over thirteen years and is part of the RYT-200 teaching faculty at Mind Body Zone in Fremont, California. He runs Meditation and Self-Awareness workshops, teaches Health Education courses in the Psychiatric department of a local hospital, and has private therapy sessions.
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Title: The mindful place of calm : find your way into the space between
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Contents
Creating Your Foundation
for Inner Peace with Meditation
: Creating Awareness
: Acting on Our Awareness
: Change: Tracking Your Personal Growth
Wisdom Insights to
Shift Your Perceptions
Dedication
To my soul, I can certainly say to you, Well that was not a boring life and I did not see any of that coming!
To my wife Kate who has supported and encouraged me over so many years. Bless you to the moon and back.
To all of you who walk on your path of self-growth not knowing where itll lead but are prepared to trust the lanterns light.
More powerful than the truth are your perceptions
Foreword
A meditation teacher was talking with his students about the benefits of the mindless state of awareness achieved with meditation. One of his students asked many questions during the talk and finally asked how to stop his mind from thinking. The teacher calmly responded, Do you know that place that can be sensed just between one thought ending and another beginning? Yes, the student responded. Widen the gap.
Paul Millers book, The Mindful Place of Calm: Find Your Way into the Space Between Thoughts & Actions, is a wonderful handbook with insights and exercises to widen the gap. Millers book adds fresh insights and techniques to achieve what he calls the Meditative Feeling within five minutes, and then how to extend and prolong the feeling into the day.
Miller also shares what he calls the Wisdom Insights that he received from his meditation practices. The Wisdom Insights are presented as sutras, pithy poems of guidance on staying aligned with the truth of your higher self. His discussions on each of the Wisdom Insights reveals how the teachings can be applied in everyday reality.
The benefits of mindfulness meditation practice are well
researched and documented. Jon Kabat-Zinn, author of the meditation classic, Full Catastrophe Living, pioneered introducing mindfulness meditation into a medical setting in 1979 at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. He introduced the meditation practice as part of the patients healing regime and was able to help the patients manage the pain and discomfort associated with their illness, minimizing their need for medication and enhancing the healing process. Mindfulness meditation training is now practiced in over 200 hospitals worldwide as a further testimony to its effectiveness.
Meditation training actually can rewire the neural patterns within the brain. We are not hardwired to always and forever respond as we always have with fear, anxiety, and uncertainty driving us more than we wish. A regular meditation reduces the size, function, and neural pathways to the amygdala, the fear-making gland that amps up the fight or flight response to anything uncomfortable.
The Mindful Place of Calm is a fresh and welcome addition to our collective understanding of the practice of mindfulness. It can inspire and teach you how to listen to your own Wisdom Insights that can come from meditation. Reading this book will inspire you to utilize the techniques you will learn to enhance, not only your meditation practice itself, but also its application in your life.
David Pond, author
Llewellyns Little Book of Meditation,
Chakras for Beginners,
Astrology and Relationships
January 2019
Introduction
Recently I was watching the movie Matrix Reloaded and there was a scene in which the Oracle says to Neo:
We can never see past the choices we dont understand.
Hearing those words was like someone waking me from the deepest sleep and I thought, Wait, what was thatwhat was just said? I instantly paused the movie and then replayed that part of the scene. This was the underpinning of what I have been sharing with people through my meditation, yoga, and therapy practices. Our actions are all about choicesgiving impetus to those that we can see clearly and searching for those we had no idea existed for us.