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Names: Sabino, Anna, author.
Title: Your creative career : turn your passion into a fulfilling and financially rewarding lifestyle / by Anna Sabino.
Description: Wayne, NJ : Career Press, [2018] | Includes bibliographical references and index.
Identifiers: LCCN 2017042531 (print) | LCCN 2017049976 (ebook) | ISBN 9781632658951 (ebook) | ISBN 9781632651112 (pbk.)
Subjects: LCSH: Arts--Vocational guidance. | Entrepreneurship. Classification: LCC NX163 (ebook) | LCC NX163 .S23 2018 (print) | DDC 700.23--dc23
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
Your Creative Career was inspired by you, my readers and fellow entrepreneurs, who through the years have been asking me questions about building a successful business. Our coaching sessions and idea-exchanging conversations gave me inspiration to write. Thank you.
The biggest thank you goes to John Willig, my literary agent, who has been a solid rock in the process. John, thank you for believing in me and introducing me to this complex and fascinating world of publishing. Im immensely grateful for your support. Thank you to the entire family at Career Press, especially to Michael Pye, Adam Schwarz, and Laurie Kelly-Pye. Your patience and readiness to help are remarkable. Joanna Williams, you designed a stellar book cover which many have called very Instagrammable and Pinterest worthy, which are timely and coveted compliments. Editor Lauren Manoy and managing editor Diana Ghazzawi, thank you for your invaluable editing suggestions and smooth work flow.
Thank you, Chris Guillebeau, for endorsing this book during your own book launch and Side Hustle book tour. Tina Seelig, thank you for your support. You were launching your own work of artyour book Creativity Rulesyet still made the time to endorse my book.
Thank you, Chase Jarvis for our inspiring conversations, which supported and guided the development of concepts in this book. Youre an inspiration to us creatives.
Writing this book wouldnt have been possible without the support of my partner, Gregory Martin. Greg, youve added input to this book, and youve been adding fun to my life.
Thank you for being by my side for long hours at Powells bookstore, putting finishing touches on the manuscript. Thank you for being my first reader.
Thank you to my parents, Regina and Marek, who have been married for more than 40 years and who have shown me a great example of commitment, which is crucial to succeeding in the writing process. Big thanks to my brother, Michael, and his wife, Magdalena. Our conversations have sparked a lot of ideas included in this book. Thank you, Christine Moore, for brainstorming with me about publishing steps. Thank you, Karen Otter, for sharing your creative talent with me.
Im grateful for being a part of communitiesthank you, Shaunta Grimes and Louise M Foerster from Ninja Writers, Jeff Goins and Tribe Writers, and Angela Jia Kim, founder of Savor the Success. Thank you for originating and being a part of such thriving and supportive groups of talented creatives whose work and guidance I truly admire.
Introduction
Dont save this book. Dont worry about keeping the pages pristine. This book is your notebook, journal of thoughts, and helpful tool that will bring you closer to answer the What should I do with my life? question. You may be at a different stage of the What should I do with my life? discovery. Maybe you already know, but you just need to make the path clearer. Maybe you know you dont like where you are, but dont know what youd like the change to be. Im hoping to provide you with inspiration. Youll find thought-provoking questions here. Treat each one like a dot. These dots, in addition to your observations and reflections, will one day make up a picture, your dream lifestyle picture.
Many people will try to design your lifestyle picture with you, hand you the puzzle pieces, tell you where they should go. Some may even say Youll never complete this picture. Its 1,000 puzzle pieces. Do you know how long it would take you to finish?
These are the voices you may hear throughout your journey.
Maybe youve determined that youre not ready to call yourself a writer, an actor, or a business owner because you know you dont deserve it and because there are others out there better than you. You add aspiring in front of your dream profession and start wearing this badge because you are not ready to shed your insecurity. You may be losing to those who, regardless of their skills and experience, decided to already wear the badge of what they want to become. They live their dreams.
This is what lifestyle design is all abouttrying a dream like a pair of jeans, because who knows if the dream is really our dream without trying it and living it. Maybe were dreaming the wrong dream and wasting our time and efforts pursuing the wrong path. Those who try living their dream have time to pivot, change direction, and refocus on what really fulfills them. They carefully design their lives regardless of social pressures and other constraints. There is no thinking outside the box for them; they dont have any boxesperiod. They set their own rules, experiment, and end up truly living their dream. They dont think about the long discovery process. They enjoy the steps because they know theyre on the path to greatness. They dont care how the world defines adequacy. They are aware of what their dream is and theyre building it by living it now, regardless if they feel ready. They manifest and wobble on their dream path, asking for guidance. One day when they can finally stand on their own, everyone thinks that they woke up like that.
Others, who are still in their aspiring stage, blame the economy or lack of innate talent, finally deciding that their dream is not actually their dream. This gives them peace of mind and they come to terms with passively coasting in their status quo, living by default. Their current situation is certain, and they dont need to go through the temporary discomfort of trying something new. They change their focus to enjoying their life outside work and count the years until retirement. They realize that there are those whose lives are way worse than theirs, and thinking about that makes them come to terms with what they have, no matter the level of dissatisfaction.
To embrace a confident attitude, we need to stop using excuses. Economic conditions are always going to be challenging, yet there are millions who thrive no matter what. Its widely proven that grit and consistency is far more important than talent. We dont need to be born with anythingwe can become; we can be. Its a matter of announcing it to the world and ourselves.