Why You Need a Bus List
Hopefully youll live a long, healthy life and have plenty of time for planning your final arrangements, transferring assets, and fulfilling any last wishes. But what if you get hit by a bus? Even if you dont get hit by a bus, your time will eventually come. Its the one common denominator among all living things.
Thats why you need a Bus List. Your Bus List makes it easier on your loved ones during a time of great sorrow and grieving. Compiling your Bus List is one of the kindest, most thoughtful gifts you can bestow on your surviving loved ones. Be sure and make it your last, best gift.
Through the years, Ive learned many folks avoid doing any meaningful estate planning because of brain cramps. Thats the term an old coach of mine coined for being so overwhelmed by information you do nothing.
In football, a brain cramp resulted in you standing there looking stupid as the play unfolded around you. With estate planning, a brain cramp could result in consequences much more serious. Money may be needlessly wasted. Assets could go where you dont want them to go. Your last wishes may not be fulfilled.
The subject of estate planning is broad and at times complicated. The fact that every state has their own set of rules makes things even more confusing. Then there are those confounded legal terms you have to slog through. Its enough to give anyone a brain cramp.
As I guide you through the process of writing your own Bus List, Ill introduce you to the options available. Some solutions are easy to set up and execute, others are more complicated and costly.
Choose the options that work best for you now. You can always change to a more elaborate plan later.
These decisions and actions on your part ultimately will be wasted if there is poor communication between you and your beneficiaries. Upon your passing, they need look no further than your Bus List. All the needed information is right there in one place.
To help you decide which actions to choose, youll find a list of Next Steps after each section. Complete each applicable next step, execute any necessary documents, and move on to the next section. There are only three sections. Youll have your Bus List written in no time!
After completing all three sections of Part I Body, Brains, and Bling you can rest assured youve got the big stuff covered.
Section 1 - Body - Detail any last requests, including arrangements.
Section 2 - Brains - Appoint individuals to represent you.
Section 3 - Bling - Assure your most valued assets pass seamlessly and inexpensively to your beneficiaries.
Part II covers other important estate planning topics:
- Location of Your Bus List
- Estate Liquidity
- Federal Estate and Gift Tax
- State Estate, Gift, and Inheritance Tax
- Community Property vs Common Law States
- Should I Hire an Attorney?
As far as confusing legal terms go, I apologize in advance for using some of them, but there is no getting around it. To help, Ive compiled a comprehensive of those nasty words, where youll find easy-to-understand and at times humorous definitions that will add to your breadth of understanding. Youll find it way more useful than your reading devices dictionary.
Estate planning is best done when there is no urgency. If you wait until it is urgent, youve waited too long. Get started on your Bus List now. Dont procrastinate any longer. You can complete the Body section in the next few minutes and be one third of the way through!
Part I: Writing Your Bus List
Body
The first item on your Bus List can be a bit difficult to think about, but weve got to have some empathy here. Youve just passed unexpectedly. The people who love you are going to be distraught and heartbroken. Plus, theyre stuck with you, which of course isnt you anymore.
Theyve got to decide how to, you know, take care of the body. If youre a Klingon ( It is only an empty shell now. Please treat it as such. ), you can skip this section.
Your Last Arrangements
Do you want to be buried, cremated, dissected, or disassembled? Shall there be a formal funeral and viewing or a more muted affair? What about any religious considerations?
Putting instructions in a will or trust stand the chance of going unread until after its too late. Thats why your last arrangements go at the top of your Bus List.
If you want to be buried, put down here what you have in mind. Fancy a nice plot by the park and the old oak trees, or do you want to be laid to rest back home next to your pre-deceased kin? What about the casket? Do you want a simple pine board model or a fancier one?
If you want to be cremated, note the urn you desire as a receptacle, as well as any other details. Personally, Im insisting my remains be placed in a Folgers coffee can. Dont make your loved ones guess what you may have wanted, or make them steal an idea from one of their own favorite movies. (Rest in peace, Donny.)
Theres a reason this is the first item on your Bus List. In the Brains section, youll appoint a special someone to retrieve your Bus List in the hours after your passing. What theyll need to know right away will be the first thing they read.
Organ and Tissue Donation
Like Im sure our Klingon friend believed, if someone can use a spare part or two, why not? If youve already signed up, make sure you record your states registry information or other special instructions in your Bus List.
Besides recording donation information in your Bus List, be sure and talk to your loved ones about it. My mom signed up to be a tissue donor but didnt tell anyone. After she died, we didnt find out about it until it was too late and felt terrible we werent able to fulfill her last wishes.
Ive heard dozens of similar stories over the years. If youre serious about your donation, make sure to start your Bus List now and record your donation information along with your instructions regarding last arrangements. You need to do this even if youre officially registered with your state of residence or other entity .
Most states have forms that make it easy to be an organ/tissue donor. The National Hospice and Palliative Care Association maintain a database of information on your states programs at CaringInfo.org . Click on your state of residence to find out what services they offer.