Contents
Guide
Creating The Best Me
Devin L. Joubert
Copyright 2021 Devin L. Joubert
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My Letter To You
When I originally sat down to write this book, I wanted to write a book that would help other women create their best lives possible because we only have one life, right?
It was super eye-opening this year when I pulled together to update this book for print. 2020 was hard for everyone and helped us all see what was most important our health, family, and friends. Its so easy to take health for granted when youre healthy. So I felt it was a great time to update the book.
While we strive for our best lives, we get bombarded by fiery arrows and a cannonball of hate. Youd be amazed where these attacks come from. They come from inside. Not saying youre setting out to sabotage yourself because no one knowingly sets out to do that. This enemy hides inside us for many years theyve gone behind the dossier of the Inner Editor or the Critic.
You know that voice right? Well, I wanted to play with that voice while writing this book.
In High School, I read the book The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis. Im not sure If youve read it, but it follows a man (throughout his life) and the Demon thats been assigned to him, Wormwood. The story is masterfully told through letters to and from Wormwood and his Uncle Screwtape, a higher-up Demon. That book really inspired me while working on the Little Critics journal entries in this book. When reading these, I need to make a trigger warning and share that the character Nameless, the Little Critic is not a reliable character. She isnt even trustworthy. So do not believe the negative things she says. Its all lies. These letters are meant to give you insight into the enemies camp. Her letters arent intended to make you feel good, as her statements about yourself probably dont make you feel good either. At the end of these sections I do share a few tips you can use to combat your Little Critic.
My mission is to reach out and offer encouragement for you to move toward your best life while helping to put out fires inside your mind, silence the inner critic, and encourage you to chase your dreams.
I am a writer. Many of you might know that if youve been following me for awhile now. And some of you are probably saying Of course you are. You wrote this book. Haha which is true. In my line of business Ive heard many people tell me things like: I want to be the next J.K. Rowling. or Im going to be the next Hemingway. Have you ever thought this? If not for Rowling or Hemingway, insert the hero in your line of business that you look up to. Think of someone thats the equivalent but in your line of work.
Sure, I get that they are and were creative geniuses, but I dont want to be the next J.K. Rowling. And I dont want to be the next Hemingway. I want to be the first me. Yes. Let that marinate for a moment.
Say it with me: I want to be the first me.
Ive had some people sit over that sentence for a while and then agree with it. Isnt it funny how we are constantly comparing our lives to others? We compare our lives to our family, friends, competition, and more.
The secret is that anyone youve ever compared yourself to has probably compared themselves to someone else, or has cried while driving somewhere, or scrolled through Instagram wishing their life was easier. Yes, even those high-profile Instagram influencers.
Thats the big lie I want to pour a huge bucket of water on.
Throughout this book:
I want you to see your worth
Love who you are
Talk to yourself like you would to your best friend
Not compare yourself to anyone but your past self.
To revel in being your utterly unique and lovely person that is the only you on the Earth.
Does that sound awesome or what?
You are the first and only you. If you struggle with doing any of the things listed above, dont worry. Ill help you find a way back to loving yourself and your creative purpose.
Best,
Devin L. Joubert
PART ONE
CHAPTER 1. INTRO TO THE SECTIONS IN THIS BOOK
CHAPTER 1.
An Intro to The Sections In This Book
Whenever I read a book about self-improvement, I love when the book has different sections that you can apply to all areas of your life like your inner thoughts, physical, and spiritual health, as well as your creative journey.
When I went to the Chiropractor the other day, he was telling me how the tendons, muscles, and bones are all connected and how when everything is in alignment you are bound to be happier and healthier, because everything works together correctly. Thats also the same for your health and wellnessin all areas of your wellbeing.
Heres a brief summary of what youll find between these pages:
Little Critics LettersPSA: As I mentioned earlier the Little Critic is a liar. Please dont listen to or believe what you read in her guidebook. Youll feel like a spy when reading this section. Be careful your Little Critic doesnt catch you.
The Little Critic is that voice you hear when you look in the mirror and get the negative thoughts that come to mind about how you look. Or after youve written or drawn something, the voice says youre not good enough. I know youve heard that voice before. Thats the Little Critic. She hates you and doesnt want you to succeed. Her primary mission in life is to confuse you and get you off track from your lifes purpose.
In these sections, youll find letters from Nameless, a higher-up Little Critic who writes a letter to younger Little Critics. Youll find which masks and disguises your Little Critic may wear. Learn how to deal with and triumph over the Little Critic. That is your goal to a happy and healthy life because, if you believe great things about yourself, so will others.
Im sure youve had a scratch with, or even a few fights with, your Little Critic. She is always with you, curling her nose in disgust at everything you do. Nothing is ever good enough for her.
She can take on any shape or form, depending on the situation, which makes her a great shapeshifter.
First off, choose yourself, before anyone else is going to.
Here are some things youve probably heard your Little Critic say: (Remember they are liars)
That doesnt look good.
Who would buy that trash?
Suzy Conners book is way better than yours.
No one will ever like your writing.