Praise for Fall Down 7 Times, Get Up 8
A truly fresh take on getting more from our kids! Read this book if you want to work smarter instead of harder and to bring enthusiasm back to your classroom or school.
Scott Bailey, Principal
Waskom Middle School, TX
This is a must read book for anyone desiring to help young people become confident, self-directed learners. Readers will walk away not only challenged in their thinking but with a multitude of strategies that help students develop the internal motivation so necessary for success in todays world.
Patti Kinney, Associate Director
NASSP, Reston, VA
The joy and energy that Debbie Silver brings to her amazing presentations shine on each page of this book. Every teacher will appreciate Silvers enthusiasm and positive outlook. Use this book to infect your students with a love for learning!
Dr. Danny Brassell, Author, Speaker,
and Founder lazyreaders.com
Debbie Silvers insightful book is a must-read for anyone ready to embrace proven skills to help kids motivate themselves for success. Discarding practices that dont work, she illustrates parenting and classroom strategies that teach children productive habits, happiness, and inspiration. This book will be shared and recommended for years to come!
Dr. Monte Selby, Educational Speaker,
Author, and Songwriter
Dr. Silver brings together the key aspects of motivating young learners that help teachers and parents develop self-directed individuals. She presents important frameworks in accessible ways along with actionable, proven techniques. Recommended reading!
Eduardo Briceo, CEO
Mindset Works
In readable, heartfelt prose, Debbie Silver offers pragmatic guidance on making all children independent, motivated, resilient, and successful learners. I want my grandsons teachers to memorize this book.
Doug Johnson, Director of Media and Technology Mankato Area Public Schools
We all know failure is a part of life, but many times we try to shield children from that reality in an effort to make their lives easier and that doesnt help them at all. In Fall Down 7 Times, Get Up 8, Debbie Silver gives practical advice on helping children learn from failure, which will truly help them be successful in the future.
Peter DeWitt, EdD, Elementary Principal
Education Week Blogger (Finding Common Ground)
Author of Dignity for All: Safeguarding LGBT Students(Corwin)
Readable, practical, and enjoyable: a perfect combination that should be required reading for all teachers. This book is part philosophy and part common sense, backed by Debbie Silvers years of experience as a thoughtful and reflective teacher and parent. It is an essential read for any adult who strives to provide an opportunity for children to be independent, self-reliant, and successful.
Dr. Susan R. Grant, Neurolinguist
Lutherville MD
It has been said that people may be classified into three groups: Those who make things happen. Those who watch things happen. And those who wonder what happened. It is fortunate for educators and others who may read this book that Dr. Debbie Silver is one of those who is making things happen. In Fall Down 7 Times, Get Up 8, Dr. Silver has put into writing practical and achievable actions to address what many educators and parents can do to truly empower young people. Teachers, teacher educators, teachers in training, administrators, and concerned parentsall should read this book, heed Dr. Silvers advice and insights, and take action.
Duane Inman, PhDScience Education
Berry College, Mt. Berry, GA
FALL DOWN TIMES
GET UP
DEBBIE SILVER
FALL DOWN TIMES
GET UP
TEACHING KIDS TO SUCCEED
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Fall down 7 times, get up 8: teaching kids to succeed / Debbie Silver.
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Fall down seven times, get up eight.
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Contents
Carol Ann Tomlinson
Fall down seven times, get up eight.
Japanese proverb
What lies behind us and what lies in front of us are but tiny matters as compared to what lies within us.Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ah, but a mans reach should exceed his
grasp, or whats a heaven for?Robert Browning
Thats what learning is, after all; not whether we lose the game, but how we lose and how weve changed because of it and what we take away from it that we never had before, to apply to other games. Losing, in a curious way, is winning.Richard Bach
Whether you think you can, or you think you cant, youre probably right.Henry Ford
You have a choice. Mindsets are just beliefs. Theyre powerful beliefs, but theyre just something in your mind, and you can change your mind.Carol Dweck
The reward of a thing well done is having done it.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Listen to the desires of your children. Encourage them and then give them the autonomy to make their own decision.Denis Waitley
Our lives are shaped by those who love us, [and] those who refuse to love us.John Powell, professor of theology
Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.James Arthur Baldwin
Quality is never an accident; it is the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives.attributed to Willa Foster
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