MOST OF US DO A NUMBER OF THINGS ALMOST instinctively when we start the process of making a new home our own. We copy keys, we buy welcome mats. We paint walls, hang curtains, wash windows.
But there are other, not-so-mundane, rituals that some of us practice for more mystical reasons. Some people wont sleep a night in a new bedroom without placing an emerald on their bedside table to keep snakes awayeven if nary a snake has been seen in the area. Others wont walk through the front door of their house without first painting its threshold blue, to keep witches from entering their sacred domestic space.
Welcome to a collection of home folklore, myth, mystery, and fun traditions and customs from all over the world. You dont need to believe in magic to be fascinated by these superstitions. The charms and warnings in this book will pique even a skeptics interestand may even encourage her to hang a horseshoe.
This book will accompany you as you go through the process of finding a new home, moving into it, decorating it, starting a family, throwing parties, and
celebrating holidays and milestones. Within each chapter, rituals are classified by the sort of fortune they aim to bring, from luck to wealth to protection. Select those ideas that speak to you, and make them your own.
While most of the rituals are easy to understand and perform (barring, of course, the occasional arcane historical practice, such as mummifying cats or making owl stew), a few are drawn from customs you may not be familiar with. Here are some definitions that may be helpful before you begin reading:
Feng shui is the Chinese practice of arranging architecture and its contents to best serve the chi, or life force, of its inhabitants.
Vastu Shastra is a similar practice of directional alliance that stems from the Hindu tradition in India.
The real joy in this book is not necessarily found in the magic each superstitious practice mayor may notbring. Pleasure will come from developing new traditions for your new home, which your family may pass from one generation to the next.
The best way to use this book is to cherry-pick your favorite rituals from the smorgasbord of superstitions and encourage your loved ones to do the same. Unlike religion, belief in charms and totems really can be a buffet.
CHAPTER 1
Finding a New Home
MANY PEOPLE SPEAK OF HAVING A
sixth sense when it comes to selecting a new place to live. Whether it is feeling pulled by some intangible force upon seeing a For Sale sign, or finding yourself on the same remote block during your morning walk over and over again, its difficult to dispute that some places exert a powerful draw on us.
Its not surprising, then, that almost every culture has a long list of guidelines and warnings when it comes to choosing the location of a home. Here are some things to consider when youre pounding the pavement trying to decide where to put down your roots.
CHOOSING A SITE
THE IRISH BELIEVE THAT FAIRIES
are everywhere, and that the fairies use special paths to travel from place to place. Therefore, its important not to build a house on top of one of these paths. To make sure your building site is in the clear, stake it out with four posts, then leave them standing overnight. If, come morning, any or all of the posts have been knocked over, youre trespassing on fairy territory, and proceeding with construction could guarantee you and yours a lifetime of annoyance. If the posts are still in place, youre free to break ground.
POTENTIAL HEALTH CONCERNS
are not the only reason that you should think twice before purchasing land near a power plant. Feng shui devotees believe that the energy generated by the plant can actually disrupt the flow of energy in the home.
MANY IRISH PEOPLE ALSO BELIEVE
that a familys new house should not be built directly across the street from the old one, in order to avoid repeating negative patterns and to ensure that the lives of everyone in the family continue moving safely forward. Who wants to look upon their old life when beginning anew?
WHILE MANY YOUNG FAMILIES SEEK OUT HOUSES
located in cul-de-sacs for privacy and a safe place for their children to play, some cultures maintain that such locations can lead to stagnationa metaphorical dead endin the dwellers lives. If you fall in love with a house on a dead- end street, just be sure that the backyard offers lots of open space for bodies and minds to roam.
DESIGNING A HOME
Should you be lucky enough to participate in the process of building your new abode from the ground up, consider these beliefs before signing off on those blueprints.
VASTU SHASTRA RECOMMENDS
that the entrance of a house always be placed on its northeast side. The east side of a home is ruled by the god Indra, who brings pleasure. The east is also where the sun rises, and the sunrise symbolizes new beginnings.
WHEN YOU ARE LAYING OUT THE KITCHEN,
the stove should never be visible from outside the home and should sit in the southeastern section of the kitchen. Water elements, such as the dishwasher and sink, should be in the northeastern part.
WHEN PLANNING THE LOCATION OF THE BEDROOMS
in your new home, consider that, in Filipino culture, the master bedroom ideally has a window facing east. Filipinos believe that this allows Gods grace to come in.
SOME FENG SHUI MASTERS MAINTAIN
that a master bedroom with an adjoining bathroom can cause digestion problems in the occupants. Should this be the case for you, at least theres a bathroom close by!
BATHROOMS SHOULD FACE EAST,
because the morning light is believed to promote health, says the Vastu Shastra doctrine.
ACCORDING TO INDONESIAN TRADITION
the construction of an indoor pool can lead to illness.
FENG SHUI PRACTICE ESPOUSES
a number of specifications regarding a new home, such as:
No home should face north.
Bedrooms should not be placed over a garage.
Bathrooms should not be situated over dining rooms.
Two doors should not face one another.
The color red brings nothing but luck, prosperity, and happiness everywhere you put it.
Every staircase should have an even number of steps.
BUT VASTU SHASTRA, A HINDU BELIEF SYSTEM
similar to feng shui, maintains that staircases should always have an odd number of steps, so that one can both start and finish on the right foot. Luckily, theres a tradition to validate your staircase, however many steps it has!
BUYING A HOME
ACCORDING TO FENG SHUI,
its never a good idea to choose a home site below street level, as the placement of the entrance can make it difficult for chi to enter the house.
AVOID MOVING TO A LOWER FLOOR
in an apartment building, as some believe this downward mobility could portend a decrease in earnings.
LOOK FOR A HOME WITH A PATH
that winds gently from the street to the entrance instead of in a harsh straight line. A more meandering path gives the houses occupant more time to linger and discover all that life has to offer.
A STRONG FOUNDATION
If you are fortunate enough to build your home from your own specifications, here are some tips to heed when breaking ground.
Some eastern cultures believe it is best to begin construction when the moon is full, but devotees of astrology say the time to start is during the new moon, since it symbolizes rebirth and new beginnings.
In Turkey, during the pouring of the foundation, a sheep is sometimes sacrificed as a gesture of thanks to the Almighty. If you are able to attend the foundation pouring but have no sheep to sacrifice, toss a few coins in with the concrete, and your life in the home will be prosperous as long as the coins remain under the house.