Melanie Mannarino - The Best Gender-Neutral Baby Name Book: The Ultimate Collection of Unique Unisex Names

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To Connor Richard:

Your dad and I may have named you, but only you can decide who you are.

N ames work hard . For generations, theyve indicated a lot about people: their family history (in the case of Jr.s, IIs, and IIIs), ethnicity, and personality traits and qualities (lets face it, the name Daisy has never hinted at a strong, outspoken woman)and lets not forget about nicknames, both good and bad.

But although a name may have special significance to the parents who choose it, when you really think about it, theres little else it can reveal about a baby or the adult that child grows into. In fact, the only thing a persons name says about them is what name their parents liked best at the time they were born. No name could ever predict a childs love of ukelele music, their deep dislike of red peppers, or their incredible talent for snapping you out of the worst mood with a quick smile.

Thats true now more than ever, especially as gender-neutral baby names have become more popular. Without a traditional girl name or boy name as a cue, the uniqueness of your baby can shine even brighter. Close your eyes and try to imagine what a kid named Frankie looks like. Its difficult, right? He could be a preschool boy who loves cooking in his play kitchen or a teenage girl who is the star of her track team. Same goes for Casey, Jamie, Kendall, Peyton... gender-neutral names defy stereotyping.

Theres no denying this naming trend15 percent of babies born in 2017 were given gender-neutral names, a number thats nearly doubled in twenty years. We can point to cultural shifts, celebrity influence, a rejection of our own childhoods when there were five Jennifers in one class, and basic personal preference as the cause for the rise. But its also worth pointing out that not all boy-or-girl names are gender neutral. For example, when was the last time you met a male Leslie under the age of, say, forty? Or a guy of any age named Shannon or Ashley? Despite the cultural turning away from the idea of girl names and boy names, so far the crossover has generally gone only one way, with girls receiving traditional male namesand sometimes, as a result, those names end up firmly in the girl names column.

So what is a gender-neutral baby name? Its one that, right now, would serve your baby boy or baby girl well. Andas with any baby name worth adding to your short listits also one that sounds pleasing to your ears and perhaps makes you think of a beloved family member, friend, public figure, or fictional character. Plus, practically speaking, its one that you believe your child and others will be able to easily spell and pronounce and that also sounds harmonious with your babys last name.

Weve compiled the best gender-neutral baby names for your child. Use this book as a guide: read it from cover to cover, or dip into certain chapters if you already have a starting letter in mind. Have fun, be creative, and know that whatever name you choose, your baby will be a unique and amazing person who defies assumptions and defines him- or herself.

Top Gender-Neutral Baby Names of 2018

These popular names are topping the charts for boys and girls. (For more about each name, turn to the chapter of the letter it starts with.)

NOAH

LOGAN

JAMES

HARPER

EZRA

EVERLY

NOVA

QUINN

KINSLEY

ASHER

ABAYOMI: Nigerian, meaning he has come to bring me happiness in the Yoruba dialect.

ADAIR: From the ancient Germanic phrase ead gar , meaning wealthy spear.

ADDISON: This name means Adams son. (And FYI, Adam means red earth.)

ADOHI: From a Cherokee word meaning timber or woods.

ADRIAN: From the Latin name Hadrianus, meaning one from the city of Adria.

Alternate spellings: Adrien, Adrienne, Adriane.

AINSLEY: From the Old English phrase ansetl leah , meaning hermitage clearing. Other possible origins include an leah (only field), aegen leah ([my] own field), and Aegens leah (a clearing belonging to someone named Aegen).

Alternate spellings: Ansley, Ainslie.

AKIVA: An alternate form of the Hebrew name Yaakov, meaning one who trips up another and takes his place.

ALAIN: The French form of Alan. In Gaelic it means little rock; in German, it comes from adal , which means precious.

Alternate spellings: Alayne, Alaine, Alane, Allen.

ALBANY: From the name Alban, which comes from the Latin name Albanus, meaning white. Other origin theories: This is the Latin version of an ancient tribal name or Gaelic for rocky crag. Albany is also the capital of New York.

ALCOTT: An Old English name meaning dweller in an old cottage. Its also the surname of the beloved American author Louisa May Alcott.

ALEK: A nickname of the Russian names Aleksandr and Aleksei, both forms of Alexander, which comes from the Greek name Alexandros, meaning protector of men.

Similar names: Alex, Alix, Alec, Alick.

ALI: From an Arabic word meaning exalted.

ALIJAH: An alternate spelling of Elijah, derived from the Hebrew name Eliyahu, meaning God is Lord.

ALMOND: More common as a British surname, Almond reportedly appeared as a first name in 1919.

AMARE: African, possibly originating in Ethiopia. Various meanings include handsome or possesses great strength; translated from the Latin, amare means to love, and in Hebrew it means the Lord said. The name recently became popular in the United States because of pro basketball player Amare Stoudemire.

Alternate spellings: Amare, Amari, Amarey.

Five Food Names That Make Unique Baby Names

APPLE: Popularized in 2004 when the actress/wellness guru Gwyneth Paltrow and the musician Chris Martin gave their daughter this name, its also a sweet shortcut for the sentiment apple of our eye.