The
Secret
Pleasures of
Menopause
Playbook
Also by Christiane Northrup, M.D.
Books
Mother-Daughter Wisdom The Secret Pleasures of Menopause* The Wisdom of Menopause The Wisdom of Menopause Journal* Womens Bodies, Womens Wisdom
Audio/Video Programs
Creating Health
The Empowering Women Gift Collection, with Louise L. Hay;
Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.; and Caroline Myss*
Igniting Intuition, with Mona Lisa Schulz, M.D., Ph.D.*
Intuitive Listening, with Mona Lisa Schulz, M.D., Ph.D.*
Menopause and Beyond (CD and DVD available March 2010)*
Mother-Daughter Wisdom
The Power of Joy *
The Secret Pleasures of Menopause*
Womens Bodies, Womens Wisdom
WomensWisdom Web Community
Womens Health Wisdom E-letter
Womens Wisdom Circle
Miscellaneous
Womens Bodies, Womens Wisdom Healing Cards (a 50-card deck)* Womens Wisdom Perpetual Flip Calendar*
All of the above are available from www.drnorthrup.com.
*The items with an asterisk are also available from Hay House.
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The
Secret
Pleasures of
Menopause
Playbook
A Guide
to Creating
Vibrant Health
Through Pleasure
CHRISTIANE
NORTHRUP, M.D.
HAY HOUSE, INC.
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Copyright 2009 by Christiane Northrup
Published and distributed in the United States by: Hay House, Inc.: www.hayhouse.com Published and distributed in Australia by: Hay House Australia Pty. Ltd.: www.hayhouse.com.au Published and distributed in the United Kingdom by: Hay House UK, Ltd.: www.hayhouse.co.uk Published and distributed in the Republic of SouthAfrica by: Hay House SA (Pty), Ltd.: www.hayhouse.co.za Distributed in Canada by: Raincoast: www.raincoast.com Published in India by: Hay House Publishers India: www.hayhouse.co.in
Editorial supervision: Jill Kramer Design: Bryn Starr Best
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced by any mechanical, photographic, or electronic process, or in the form of a phonographic recording; nor may it be stored in a retrieval system, transmitted, or otherwise be copied for public or private useother than for fair use as brief quotations embodied in articles and reviewswithout prior written permission of the publisher.
The author of this book does not dispense medical advice or prescribe the use of any technique as a form of treatment for physical, emotional, or medical problems without the advice of a physician, either directly or indirectly. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. In the event you use any of the information in this book for yourself, which is your constitutional right, the author and the publisher assume no responsibility for your actions.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Northrup, Christiane.
The secret pleasures of menopause playbook : a guide to creating vibrant health through pleasure / Christiane Northrup.
p. cm.
ISBN 978-1-4019-2401-0 (hardcover : alk. paper) 1. Menopause--Popular works. 2. Middle-aged women--Health and hygiene. 3. Middle-aged women--Conduct of life. 4. Middle-aged women--Sexual behavior. I. Title.
RG186.N6682 2009
613.04244--dc22
2008038100
ISBN: 978-1-4019-2401-0
12 11 10 09 4 3 2 1
1st edition, March 2009
Printed in the United States of America
To the
Goddess
within
every one
of us.
Contents
Why a Playbook?
W hen I was writing The Secret Pleasures of Menopause, I began to hear more and more stories from other women about exactly what I was researching: how opening up to and expanding joy and pleasure in midlife creates vibrant health physically, emotionally, and spirituallyincluding amazing sex. I was inspired by the many touching and creative stories I was hearing from women who definitely saw midlife as the start of the absolute best years of their lives.
So I decided to put together a playbook (as opposed to a workbook) that you could use as a companion to The Secret Pleasures of Menopausea book that would provide you with specific examples of what real women just like you are actually doing to enhance their levels of life-giving nitric oxide through pleasure.
These are straight-from-the-heart stories stories that are warm, clever, poignant, courageous, insightful, energetic, frequently humorous, and amazingly uplifting and joyful. Many are downright hot! And all were chosen specifically to inspire you and give you permission to reach for more joy and pleasure than you ever thought possible.
In these pages, youll meet women with strong, passionate life forces who respect and love themselves enough to speak their truth; heal their pasts; and let go of mind-sets, relationships, and behaviors that no longer serve them. They also dont hesitate to kick up their heels and have a great time, doing whatever makes their hearts sing. The upshot: theyve been able to stoke their inner fire and cultivate pleasure, joy, and vibrant health on every level and with every breath.
As I wrote in Secret Pleasures, everything we think, say, and do from this point on in our lives will either keep us actively engaged in living passionately and joyfully, or it will hasten degeneration and increase our chances of poor health and disease. The women who share their stories in the pages that follow clearly understand this truth and have undeniably chosen joy and passion. Their stories prove that the pursuit of pleasure is hardly an indulgence; its a life-affirming necessity!
Let this book be your personal guide to the territory of life-giving pleasure. And make sure that you use the spaces provided (or your journal) to write down and commit to your own personal pleasure plan.
Christiane Northrup, M.D.
How to Achieve Maximal
Levels of Life-Giving
Nitric Oxide
T o experience maximal pleasure (not to mention great sex), you must follow a lifestyle that enhances the production of an amazing molecule called nitric oxide. The purpose of this simple molecule, made of one atom of nitrogen and one atom of oxygen, is to signal the cells in your body to stay healthy. It literally resets your power grid.
The more nitric oxide your body makes on a regular basis, the healthier and happier you are. Its perfectly natural, its easy (and fun) to increase once you know how, and its the key to developing and maintaining optimum health. Think of it as your secret weapon for wellness!
Here are the six steps to maximizing nitric oxide, each of which is explained further in this section:
1. Associate yourself only with positive people everywhere you can.
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