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In this book, 86-year-old author Mary Matsuda Gruenewald has distilled her lifetime of wisdom into ten stories, each one conveying an essential life lesson. Each chapter is a story from the authors life and how she learned the specific life lesson connected to each story.
Mary lived through the Great Depression as a young child, imprisonment in a Japanese-American internment camp as a young adult, the cultural taboos of an interracial marriage, reverse racism, and divorce. In her later years, she learned the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation on a personal level as well as within the Japanese-American community. At 80, Mary recognized there was a part of herself she had never accepted and embraced. A trip to Japan after the publication of her first book helped Mary make peace with her Japanese roots and her ancestors. As a nurse, Mary cared for many patients who faced death. In time, she overcame her own fears about death and dying, which has resulted in her living life more fully. In her mid-80s, Mary completed preparations for her own death, realizing this is part of living a good life. Finally, Mary writes about the importance of leaving a legacy for future generations, and the special way she will leave her legacy.
The simple yet profound wisdom in these stories will appeal to all generations seeking insight and direction from elders. The following is a brief description of each chapter.
Annotated Contents
Prologue: Mama-san
I reflect upon my life and the memory of my mother, and what it is like to find myself in the role that she once held for me. Now, I am Mama-san.
Chapter 1: The Privilege of a Simple Life
Growing up in the 1920s and 1930s on Vashon Island, Washington, I lived in a rural, isolated community. This chapter describes the richness associated with a simple existence, close to naturea lifestyle vastly different from what most Americans experience in the 21st century.
Chapter 2: How Much Is Enough?
My parents, hard-working Japanese immigrants, taught me the value of living well within ones means. In this chapter, I discuss arriving at a place of satisfaction by learning not to overindulge.
Chapter 3: The Doorway of Boredom
At a young age, I learn that boredom can be a powerful motivator. This chapter explores how boredom can actually provide an important opportunity for people to discover who they are and what they want to become.
Chapter 4: Do What Needs To Be Done
My mother passed on a suggestion that forever shapes my thinking. I describe how this idea, Do what needs to be done, without being asked or told, leads me to a creative, satisfying way of looking at life, and results in the most important achievements of my professional career.
Chapter 5: The Pathway to Forgiveness
My marriage to a white man breaks a huge taboo within the Japanese-American community and creates a rift between me and my family. But the seeds of trust, planted long before, provide a pathway to forgiveness and a model for how conflicts can be resolved.
Chapter 6: Reconciling Differences
During the Japanese-American internment of World War II, a huge conflict develops within our community between the Yes-Yes people, who are loyal to the United States, and the No-No people, who are deemed disloyal. For some people, the split between these two groups continues to this daymore than 60 years later. I was a Yes-Yes person, and I allowed my choice to remain unexamined for more than 50 years. In this chapter, I experience an epiphany in which I come to understand the falseness of this divide and bring healing to myself and many others...

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Becoming
Mama-San

80 Years of Wisdom

Mary Matsuda Gruenewald

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NEWSAGE PRESS
Troutdale, Oregon

BECOMING MAMA-SAN: 80 YEARS OF WISDOM

Copyright 2013 Mary Matsuda Gruenewald

ISBN 978-0-93916-563-6

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or used in any form or by any means without permission from the publisher.

NEWSAGE PRESS

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Troutdale, OR 97060-0607

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This book is also available as an ebook.

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Gruenewald, Mary Matsuda, 1925-Becoming mama-san : 80 years of wisdom / by Mary Matsuda Gruenewald.

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Includes bibliographical references.

1. Gruenewald, Mary Matsuda, 1925- 2. Conduct of life. I. Title.

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Acknowledgments

W ith new projects come new reasons for feeling grateful and expressing appreciation. I continue to feel supported and cared for by my writing teacher, Brenda Peterson, and my publisher, Maureen R. Michelson, as well as my classmates Meredith Bailey, Kathryn Barrett, Pamela Dodson, and Kimberly Richardson, among others.

My special thanks to Miyoko Matsuda, my sister-in-law, and Martha Matsuda, my daughter, for accompanying me to Japan in 2006 (among many other reasons). My hosts in Japan made extraordinary efforts on my behalf. Thanks to Donna Fujimoto in Osaka; Marie Tsuruda, Caroline Lloyd, and Naomi Fujishima in Hiroshima; and Samantha Lim at the Tokyo American Club. Masako Iino laid the foundation for my trip two years earlier, and visiting her at Tsuda College was one of many highlights of the trip. My friend Yoshiko Koga-san gave generously of her time, including guiding us on an amazing tour of Tokyo to visit important historical sites.

Meeting my relatives from Japan for the first time was a life-altering experience for me. The generosity of Muneaki Horie and his wife, Kayoko, was astounding. It was also a pleasure to meet their two sons, Munekazu and Toshihiro. We went with them as their guests to the famous Buddhist monastery at Koyasan for a vegetarian meal, a tradition Japanese public bath, and overnight accommodations on traditional Japanese futons. Most amazing of all was meeting Muneakis mother, Shizuko Horie. Being received into her home was like meeting the sister I never had.

Hiroshi and Sadako Kashiwagi, and their son, Soji, came into my life at the perfect moment. We helped each other heal our final wounds from the internment experience, and we remain close friends.

I get much of my energy from my special friends, some of whom I have known for decades: Wendy Noritake, Glenda Pearson, Linda Ando, Jan Crosman, and especially John Runyan. I thank all of you for your kindness and support.

It has been a privilege watching my four nieces grow into fine role models: Marlene Fong, Kathryn Nagao, Marguerite Sandico, and Sheila Chan. You and your families are a delight and an ongoing source of joy for me.

As for my immediate family, I couldnt be more grateful. Martha, David, and Ray, I am incredibly proud of each of you as you continue on your life journeys, being true to yourselves. I have enjoyed watching you develop into wonderful human beings, from the time you were born until now, as I move into my elder years. My deepest thanks go to my brother Yoneichi, my father Papa-san, and of course, Mama-san. They are all long-since deceased, but they still live in my heart and continue to teach me lifes most important lessons.

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I t was a perfect midsummer evening on Vashon Island, a short ferry ride from Seattle, and Mount Rainier was glowing a beautiful pink to the southeast of our farm. This was the very best time of the year for Mama-san and I to savor the beauty of the fields, when the harvest was complete and we had time to reflect. She liked to pass on her appreciation for life during our walks.

I am so grateful that the harvest went well this year, she said, in her formal Japanese. Do you remember how hard the four of us worked this spring?

From where we were standing, we could look around and see all ten acres of our farm. Tidy rows of strawberry plants covered gently rolling hills. Our modest farmhouse stood in one corner of the property, with the barn nearby.

I am very proud of how well you and Yoneichi-san worked together, Mama-san added. Now, you can see that it all paid off.

She sighed with contentment as her eyes swept over the landscape. Her smile was all I ever needed to feel secure and seen.

As we turned to continue our walk, a flash of red in the next row over caught my attention. I bent down and parted the green leaves. Look, theres one for each of us.

I handed her the larger of the two, last-of-the-season berries and we ate them, nodding at each other.

My mother, Mitsuno Horie Matsuda, was the kindest, wisest person I have ever met. I spent my childhood wanting to please her. As a young adult, I rebelled against her, and against her culturally-based expectations for me. More recently, and especially since her passing in 1965, I have tried to become as much like her as I possibly can.

Mama-san was born in 1892 in Japan, a proud and ancient culture. In 1922, she married my father and came to America, intending to live and die here. In Looking Like the Enemy, I wrote of how my mothers wisdom rescued me from the depths of despair during my most challenging times in the Japanese-American concentration camps. In the most difficult of circumstances, she remained amazingly resilient and optimistic, even while those around her felt hopeless. When my publisher asked me to write another book, I knew that my mother would be its focus.

Mama-sans wisdom developed and deepened while she raised a family, earned a living through hard physical labor, and faced severe discrimination in her adopted country. It was only as I pondered the materials for this book that I came to fully appreciate the elegance of her beliefs and how important a role model she could benot just for me, but for others as well. As I observe the 21st century begin to unfold, the power of her message from the 19th century seems more applicable than ever.

MARY MATSUDA GRUENEWALD
January 2013

L ike most of my peers, I have always used the phrase internment camps as a polite way of describing the confinement of me, my family, and tens of thousands of other Japanese Americans during World War II. In July, 2012, I attended a meeting of the National Japanese American Citizens League in Bellevue, Washington. Professor Lane Hirabayashi and activist Martha Nakagawa gave convincing arguments for the use of the term concentration camps instead of internment camps. I realized that I need to use accurate vocabulary to more honestly label the experience and not shy away from uncomfortable truths. I would like to thank the people who had the courage to press this issue, and I have incorporated the new terminology in this book.

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