PRAISE FOR
Sis, Take a Breath
If youre yearning for a real, honest conversation about how to handle the relentless stresses and demands of life, this book is for you. Youll immediately feel seen and understood, and as you walk through the pages of this book with Kirsten, youll be changed. This highly practical book is what every woman needs to find the truest version of herself and live her most intentional life for Jesus!
KATY MCCOWN
Wife to retired NFL quarterback Luke McCown; mom of six; president of She Laughs Ministries; and author of She Smiles without Fear: Proverbs 31 for Every Woman
Sis, Take a Breath reads like a fun road trip with a friend one you come out of as close as sisters with Kirsten, who has the gift of being straightforward and loving, honest and wise, vulnerable and strong. You will giggle, laugh, relate, learn, and come to love the journey even more after reading it yourself!
ELISABETH HASSELBECK
Emmy Awardwinning cohost of The View; New York Times bestselling author
Like the older sister weve always wanted, Kirsten helps us feel understood and not alone with her conversational approach. Shes intentional with her words and wisdom. This book will make you feel like youre sitting next to a best friend.
ESTHER FLEECE ALLEN
Bestselling author of No More Faking Fine and Your New Name
I absolutely love Kirsten Watsons energy and sweet spirit. It was a mystery to me how she kept both with seven kids at home and an abundant, busy life. Her amazing candor, humility, and wisdom shine in Sis, Take a Breath. A must-read!
REBEKAH LYONS
Bestselling author of Rhythms of Renewal and You Are Free
Im in awe of Kirsten shes not only a super mom, shes a superhero. In Sis, Take a Breath, Kirsten invites us into the grind, freeing us from the guilt. If youre isolated and overwhelmed, Kirsten finds strength in the struggle and shows us how you can too.
PAULA FARIS
Founder of CARRY Media; author; podcaster
Favorite roles: wife and mom
After spending time with Kirsten, I always leave feeling encouraged and challenged. Sis, Take a Breath is a fantastic extension of her heart as she teaches you how to walk with God and others in a genuine way.
COURTNEY DEFEO
Author of In This House, We Will Giggle
On these pages, Kirsten Watson has effectively married scriptural, spiritual truths with practical, honest applications. Her vulnerability and raw honesty invite the reader to know her, not as the pedestalized, beautiful NFL wife who has it all together and for whom life is perfect, but as a truly surrendered woman of God who is seeking to grow in Christlikeness in the midst of struggles common to all. As the road of life forks, we follow either the socially acceptable path of appearance management, settling for a life of If it looks like everything is good, it must be and thats all that matters, or the path of sanctification the transforming process of becoming like Jesus, which requires honesty, vulnerability, humility, and community. Kirsten personally settles for nothing less than the road less traveled the one that leads to growth in Christlikeness and her heart desires that for each of us.
DR. VIRGINIA FRIESEN
Codirector of Home Improvement Ministries (HIMweb.org); coauthor of The Marriage App; author of Raising a Trailblazer: Rite-of-Passage Trail Markers for Your Set-Apart Teens
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Sis, Take a Breath: Encouragement for the Woman Whos Trying to Live and Love Well (but Secretly Just Wants to Take a Nap)
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To my mom, who always taught me to take a breath for myself and find what brings me peace.
To my people: Grace, Naomi, Isaiah, Judah, Eden, Asher, and Levi. Thank you for giving me grace to do this book and for all the breathing practice youve allowed me to have.
To my husband, Benjamin. You fought for my voice to be heard even when I didnt think I had anything to say. You are my biggest cheerleader. I love you, and Im so grateful God brought us together.
Let everything that has breath praise the Lord!
(PSALM 150:6)
FOREWORD
Sis, take a breath. Breathing... thats effortless, right? Although the title of this book is a simple statement, it strikes a nerve with most women, giving us a unified call and permission to exhale!
We dont usually put much thought into how we breathe that is, until were instructed to do so. Breathing has been second nature for us ever since we entered the world as infants. As we continue living, a doctor might ask us to take a deep breath in order to listen to our lungs. We might also practice concentrated breathing during childbirth to help keep calm during the delivery process. During overwhelming experiences, we are encouraged to slow the pace of our breathing so panic doesnt overtake us.