A SHORT GUIDE TO
PRAYING AS A FAMILY
GROWING TOGETHER IN FAITH AND LOVE EACH DAY
D OMINICAN S ISTERS OF S AINT C ECILIA C ONGREGATION
N ASHVILLE, T ENNESSEE
A Short Guide to
PRAYING AS A FAMILY
GROWING TOGETHER IN FAITH AND LOVE EACH DAY
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August 27, 2014
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Q UEEN OF F AMILIES,
H ELP OF THE W EAK,
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LET HIM ENTER, THE KING OF GLORY!
A rchimedes, the ancient Greek scientist, once said that if he had a fulcrum and a long enough lever, one small man could move the world. Children and families are not levers. Theyre human beings. Theyre persons, not objects. But Archimedes words are still useful. The formation that spouses give to each other and to their childrenif its done with love, courage, tenderness, and persistencecan move the world and change society.
This is why the greatest gift a father can give his children is to love their mother. And of course the same applies to mothers loving their husbands. Personal example is the most powerful teacher in the world. Children see everything, and they understand far more than adults often think. If parents love each other, children see and learn love. They learn fidelity instead of broken promises; patience instead of restlessness; simplicity in place of confusion; humility instead of pride; courage in place of cowardice; honesty instead of excuses; forgiveness in place of revenge; a hunger for justice in place of apathy.
And if parents love God, children see and learn faith. Parents who pray together teach by the way they live that God is real; that He is present, listening, and eager to be part of our lives. Helping children learn the habit of prayer thus becomes one of the most important lessons a family can share. A life of prayer makes us fully human because it makes us real; it brings us out of ourselves, again and again, into conversation with the Author of life Himselfthe God who made and loves us, and created everything we know.
I ts no secret that Ive admired the Dominican Sisters of St. Cecilia for many years. The reason is simple. In the larger family of God we call the Church, the Sisters embody by their daily example every virtue that makes a family beautiful and filled with life. But they also teach by what they speak and write, edit and publishand this volume, A Short Guide to Praying as a Family, is wonderful and very practical proof.
Archimedes never found the lever he needed. The Sisters remind us that Christian families already have one. Family prayer can move the world.
The Most Reverend Charles J. Chaput,
Archbishop of Philadelphia
We would like to express our gratitude to Archbishop Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M. Cap., D.D., for his love and support of Catholic families and his support for this Short Guide to Praying as a Family. We would also like to thank our own Bishop, David R. Choby, D.D., J.C.L., for his outstanding leadership and guidance. Our special thanks go to Father Lawrence Lew, O.P., Denis R. McNamara, Ph.D., Father Thomas Joseph White, O.P., D.Phil., Melvin Laurel, J.D., Lisa Julia Hill-Sutton, Virginia Raguin, Ph.D., the Richard and Margaret Kennedy Family, Richard and Maureen Herman, the Paul E. Husak Family, and Aquinas College (Nashville), who have helped to make this book possible. We are grateful for all the families we serve as well as those we have had the privilege of serving. Finally, we are most grateful to our own parents, who first taught us how to pray.
P rayer is as simple and natural as friendship. It is loving conversation with the Lord, with Him whom we know loves us.
Beginning to pray as a family can genuinely transform your life, enriching not only your relationship with the Lord but also your relationships with one another. Prayer can change the way you see the ordinary circumstances of your daily life. You begin to see disappointments as perhaps Gods way of leading you to new and better opportunities, joys as a share in the life of heaven, and sufferings as a way to enter into the mystery of Jesus own suffering for us on the Cross. The closer we are to the Lord in prayer, the more we realize that He is present with us, walks with us, in our daily lives. We begin to see as He sees and to love as He loves. Thank you for your faith. Thank you for picking up this book, for desiring to draw your whole family closer to God. [T]he Lord takes pleasure in those... who put their hope in his mercy (cf. Ps 147:11), and [t]he Lord is good... to the one that seeks him (cf. Lam 3:25).
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