Robyn Moreno - Practically Posh: The Smart Girls Guide to a Glam Life

Dedicated to

my mother,

Yvonne Guzman,

and my sisters,

Nevia, Yvette, and Bianca:

YOU ARE MY DREAM TEAM AND MY POSHEST INSPIRATION.

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Its hard out here for a modern chick. We aspire to keep fashionable flats, entertain with Epicurean flair, travel like rock stars, raise awareness like Angelina Jolie, and all the while, look effortlessly chic.Unfortunately, our salaries and schedules havent kept up with our burgeoning sense of style and service. So, whats a girl to do?

Become Practically Posh. By practical, I certainly dont mean boring or joyless. Rather, its about looking at a situation thoughtfully and resourcefully. And while I do applaud Victoria Beckhams smarts and styleBravo, Love!when I think of posh, I think of its acronym as a sailing term: port out(ward), starboard home, which is where the first-class accommodations were located on English cruise ships.

A Practically Posh girl is one who steers her own first-class ship. Someone who gets that life is about working with what you have, then working what you have.

I have always been a Practically Posh kind of gal. As an enterprising teen in San Antonio, Texas, I volunteered as an usher at the local playhouse so I could see shows for free, and scored trendy haircuts from a fledgling hair stylist by being his practice model.

My industrious attitude reached new heights when I moved to New York City. It had always been my dream to live and work in the Big Apple, and within months of moving to Manhattan I landed a plum position at a womens lifestyle magazine. I stocked my closet with great one-of-a kind pieces that my office mates coveted.

I couldnt afford to buy from the cool designers, but I didnt want to look like everyone else either, so I mostly turned to vintage and secondhand stores, where things are usually well made and well priced. On one inspired occasion, I even enlisted my trusty mom to raid my grandmas wardrobeluckily Granny had great taste and a small waistfor Victorian-inspired blouses that were in that season.

My practically posh attitude didnt end at fashion. When I wanted to entertain friends in the fifth-floor walkup studio I shared with two roommates, what kind of fte could I throw in my tiny pad but a Divine Dessert and Champagne party. The slaved-over sweets were really Jewish pastries from the bakery downstairs, and the Champagne certainly wasnt from France, but trifling details on a memorable evening. Truly, a night la mode!

You see, being practically posh is much more than just about finding deals, its about finding pleasure in your present life. Whether your dream includes fame and richesor maybe just a smartly decorated apartment and a bank account not in the redthe road to success doesnt have to be shabby. Practically Posh is your bible for living as a bon vivant on a budget.

Recall Scarlett OHara in Gone With the Wind . When she wanted to go to the big society party but couldnt afford a dress, she didnt cry, But I dont have a thing to wear! Instead, she whipped up a gorgeous gown out of her velvet house curtains, Project Runway style, and proved herself again to be the belle of the ball.

With Practically Posh in hand, youll exude determination, audacity, a bit of wiliness, and above all, possibility .

Packed with brilliantly simple expert advice, Ill show you how to whip up a luscious meal with leftovers for two days. Ill also offer easy cheats for staying organized. (Save space in your closet by placing curtain rings on a hanger, then looping your scarves and belts through.) Ill show you how to throw an unforgettable fiesta on your unmentionable salary. (Find a local band or trio and try bartering their rateit helps if you promise booze and hot chicks.) And Ill reveal to you how you can book your dream vacation now .

So for daring dames who refuse to be slowed down by lifes practicalities, let ingenuity and attitude be your currency and Practically Posh be your guide.

We should learn from the snail: It has devised a home that is both exquisite and functional.

Frank Lloyd Wright

F or most of my early twenties, my apartment was a poorly outfitted crash pad, decorated with some donations from my mom, a day trip to Ikea, and a few kitsch items found at Goodwill and on the street. But as I started moving into the faster-paced grown-up worldcomplete with a full-time job and financial responsibilitiesmy house increasingly became a haven: a place to seek solace from grouchy bosses and immature boyfriends; a lounge where I could entertain my lady friends. In short: a place to call my own.

So as I evolved (read: got older) and actually started making a little dough (emphasis on little), I started craving a bit more from my casa , mainly in terms of cleanliness, order, and design. Its hard to pretend youre Ms. Organization at work when you start your day spending 15 frustrating minutes trying to find your left stiletto. And while I didnt really know the difference between Bauhaus-style furniture and pieces bought at Bed, Bath & Beyond, what I did know was that I wanted my home to reflect my personality. So in the practically posh spirit, I gave myself a crash course in home improvement. I read design magazines, scoured flea markets, clicked through apartmenttherapy.com and rearranged my furniturea lot.

Robyns Tip

The easiest way to cozy up your home is to get a pet. Whether a parakeet or a puppy, pets are proven to reduce stress and encourage laughter. If you feel your life is too busy, opt for a low-maintenance pet like a cat or fish. The companionship they provide and the nurturing qualities you develop help make for a happy home.

The Golden Rules of Organizing

You dont have to have OCD to keep your place neat, just use a little strategy. To help simplify my space, I employed the Truth, Love, Meaning, Purpose method from organizing expert June Saruwatari. The basic principles are:

TRUTH: Be honest with yourself about the space youre living in. For instance, if you have a tiny apartment, is it really practical to own a monster sleigh bed? You may like the idea of an antique birdcage or a floor-to-ceiling bookshelf, but if you dont have a huge space your place may end up looking like a storage unit instead of a chic pad.

LOVE: Do you truly love the item? With limited space, a simple crush wont do. Not only is this a good way to help filter out unnecessary items, but it will also hopefully prevent you from acquiring more of those seemed like a good idea at the time pieces. Adopt a recycling rule: For everything you buy and bring into your house, youll have to toss something to make space. I guarantee this will make you think twice about that fixable on-sale item at Crate & Barrel.

MEANING: Does this awful space-stealing eyesore at least have some sentimental value to you? It can be hard to separate the rubbish from, well, meaningful rubbish, like the scary-as-hell mask Mom brought you back from her trip to Peru. The thing to remember here is that the item should have meaning for you , and not other people.

PURPOSE: Does the item serve a purpose? Look around your room right now. I bet there are five things that are totally useless (besides your fat cat) hanging out in plain sight. The magazine rack that holds everything but magazines? Chuck it! Shadeless lamp you were going to brilliantly redesign? Toss it! Torn menus from the diners you ate at on your cross-country trip wallpapering the kitchen? Get rid of em! It might be hard, because these are pieces of your life, but its best to save the memories and lose the miscellany. Take a picture or write about it in a journal. Commit it to memory, and then say adis .