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Shonda Schilling - The Best Kind of Different: Our Familys Journey with Aspergers Syndrome

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Until the summer of 2007, the word Aspergers, was not a part of Shonda Schillings vocabulary, but that summer changed everything. By then, her household was in chaos as her son Grant spiraled out of control. His acting out and refusal to listen had grown to epic proportions, but even worse was his apparent inability to relate to the people around him. None of the Schillings other three kids ever acted like Grant; his behavior wasnt just unruly, it was irrational. Complicating matters was the fact that Shondas husband, Curt, was constantly on the road pitching for the Boston Red Sox, so he wasnt always around to see Grants behavior firsthand. Seemingly everyone Shonda encountered had an opinionhes too spoiled, he needs a good spanking, he needs more disciplinebut it was a disastrous first attempt at summer camp that told Shonda something was definitely wrong. It was then that a neurologist diagnosed Grant with Aspergers syndromea form of high-functioning autism that, in recent years, has been found in children who at first glance appear disruptive and difficult. Now in The Best Kind of Different, Shonda details every step of her familys journey with Aspergers, offering a parents perspective on this complicated and increasingly common condition. Looking back on Grants early years, she describes the signals she missed in his behavior and confronts the guilt that engulfed her after she came to understand just how misguided her parenting had been before the diagnosis. In addition, she talks about the harsh judgment shes faced from people who dont buy into the diagnosis and how shes used passion and information to fight the ignorance of others. Celebrating Grants successes and learning from his setbacks, Shonda demonstrates how Aspergers forced her and her husband to reconsider everything they thought they knew about their son and each other, but in the end, it has made their marriage and their family stronger and happier. A tribute to Grants strength and a candid glimpse into a family coming to terms with its differences, The Best Kind of Different is an intimate portrait of two parents struggling to understand the complex beauty of their son.

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This book is dedicated to my family and friends, without whom this journey would have never been possible. Your love and support has sustained me and driven me to be a better mother, wife, and friend.

And to Grant, whose endless love makes every day a new adventure.

P ETER B. R OSENBERGER , M.D.

S HONDA AND C URT S CHILLING FIRST BROUGHT THEIR SON Grant to see me the summer of 2007. At that time, he was about to be in second grade and at seven-and-a-half-years old, he was having problems with behavior and classroom function. For a number of reasons, it seemed that attention deficit was playing a role in his behavior; however, on my first encounter with Grant it was clear that something else was involveda basic problem with social interaction. It was then that I raised the likelihood that Grants struggles were the result of Asperger syndrome.

The Schillings are justifiably proud of their children, and initially this was a bitter pill for them to swallow. Their response was first to provide Grant with the best intervention available, and second to learn everything they could about the disorder. The result is that two-and-a-half years later, Grant and his family are managing as well as any family I have had with this diagnosis.

So, what is this disorder? In 1944 Hans Asperger, an Austrian pediatrician with a special interest in exceptional children, published a report in a German psychiatric journal under the title The Autistic Psychopathies of Childhood. While Asperger himself achieved prominence in academic medicine after the war, the report languished in obscurity, and was not even translated into English until 1991.

The four cases described in considerable detail by Asperger in the original report formed the core of what is now known as Asperger syndrome. As soon as the report came to light, readers recognized the remarkable similarities between Aspergers children and those described in 1943 by Leo Kanner, the Austrian psychiatrist who was the first to describe infantile autism. Although Kanner and Asperger never met, both had borrowed the term autistic, coined decades earlier by the Swiss psychiatrist Eugen Bleuler, to describe a peculiar type of thinking, driven primarily not by perceptions but by feelings. Both Kanner and Asperger observed in their children a fundamental incapacity for social interaction, along with restricted repertoires of behavior, fixations of interest on certain objects or subjects, abnormalities of language, and atypical responses to sensory input of all kinds.

While the similarities between the two groups are obvious, the differences are just as striking. The Asperger children tend to be of average intelligence and have better language skills than Kanners autists, many of whom are mute. Though both groups share an inability to conceive of what is going on in another persons mind, in the Asperger cases, this deficit can be limited, requiring more sophisticated tests to identify it. In addition, an Asperger child may be relatively comfortable with physical expressions of affection, although most autistic children struggle with this. Strikingly preserved abilities (savant skills) exist in both groups, but they are more dramatically demonstrated by the Asperger children. Both syndromes are more likely in boys than girls, but this gender difference is more pronounced for the Asperger group. While the Asperger person may be socially clumsy, he is less likely than the Kanner autist to be totally oblivious of the humanity of other people in the room, treating them like pieces of the furniture.

These clinical differences between Asperger syndrome and autism have inevitably raised the issue of whether the two are different disorders, or whether the one is merely a milder form of the other. The controversy persists, although the conventional wisdom today is that the autistic disorders occur along a spectrum, of both type and severity. Autism spectrum disorder is in fact currently the favored term among many prominent clinicians, and will probably appear as such in the next edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder s published by the American Psychiatric Association.

On the whole, autistic thinking displays a lack of awareness of what another person is feeling. This is best tested in kids by posing situations in which the thoughts of another person are contrary to fact. The classic example goes likes this: Sally has a basket; Annie has a box. Sally has a ball in her basket. Sally leaves the room, and while she is away, naughty Annie takes the ball from Sallys basket and hides it in her own box. Sally returns to the room. She wants to play with her ball. Where does she look for it? A normal child will respond, In the basket. Why? Because thats where she thinks it is. A child with autistic spectrum disorder will answer, In the box. Why? Because thats where it is, silly.

In people with Asperger syndrome, this type of thinking can stand out in stark contrast to their otherwise highly developed abilities. Popular understanding of Asperger syndrome has been greatly enhanced by the comic strip Dilbert , which deals with a highly intelligent engineer trying to cope with corporate idiocy. Dilberts superiors, from the CEO down to his pointy-haired department manager, are indeed numbskulls. However, Dilbert expresses his frustrations so maladroitly that he insults his bosses, alienates customers, and torpedoes all prospective romantic relationships on the first date. In so doing he makes clear to us that whether a particular stance is moderate or extreme depends upon your point of view. One persons frankness is another persons rudeness, and that persons tact is yet another persons hypocrisy.

Similarly, children on the autism spectrum can have prodigious reading mechanics and spelling skills, yet not the slightest clue of the message intended by the sentence or paragraph, particularly if it is a social one. On standard intelligence tests, they do relatively well on measures of rote information, immediate memory, and block design, but poorly on social comprehension (What do you do if you find a stamped letter lying on the street?) or arranging pictures in sequence to tell a story. Then there are the savant skills that some display. Though not all can do it, a common skill for Asperger children is to tell the day of the week on which a particular calendar date will occur, for as much as a hundred years in the past or future. I once had a teenage patient who could tell me the product of any pair of two- or three-digit numbers instantly upon hearing the numbers spoken. Another patient, nine years old, could tell me the make of any automobile, domestic or foreign, from a picture of the taillight. It is still not clear whether such skills occur because the childs brain is different, or simply because he obsessively pours all of his cognitive effort into a limited number or skills.

A typical responses to the outside world are another feature of all autistic syndromes. The same child who responds to your voice as if he were stone deaf will hold his ears in fright when the fire truck goes down the street three blocks away. They can also show revulsion for other sensory stimuli, such as the texture of certain foods, wool socks, or the labels on shirt collars. This response is termed sensory defensiveness by occupational therapists, and is occasionally seen in the absence of any other autistic features. On the other hand, some more severely autistic children who recoil from affectionate personal contact will enjoy rough handling and horseplay.

Given the variety of ways in which the syndrome shows itself, parenting a child with Asperger syndrome poses a unique and trying set of challenges. For one thing, many common parenting instincts frequently have to be reined inmost notably the desire to hug and show physical affection with the child. Because of their sensitivity to touch, many Asperger children struggle with being hugged by their parents. Their verbal behavior can often appear rude or dismissive, but again this is largely rooted in the fact that they dont process language in the same way that you or I do.

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