Mary Lambert - The Joy of Living with Less: How to downsize to 100 items and liberate your life

THE joy

OF living WITH

less

THE joy

OF living WITH

less

HOW TO DOWNSIZE TO 100 ITEMS AND LIBERATE YOUR LIFE

mary lambert

Published in 2020 by CICO Books

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First published in 2013 as Living with Less

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Text Mary Lambert 2013, 2020

Design and photography CICO Books 2013, 2020 (except those photos listed on page 111)

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CONTENTS

Having spent over 20 years helping clients to declutter their homes, Ive witnessed close up how truly liberating and fulfilling the process can be. The people Ive worked with have often become defined and weighed down by their many possessions. Once they are surrounded by fewer items, and have a more pleasurable and ordered living space, they find an inner spiritual contentment that enhances both their physical and emotional wellbeing.

Of course, the benefits of living with less go beyond the individual to the wider world. One of the many joys of buying less is the positive impact it has on the environment. Most goods have to be packaged, transported, and disposed of, and the more we buy, the more we contribute to this. If you choose to buy fewer things, youre likely to choose quality over throwaway items, leading to a reduced amount of waste. And, of course, once you have less you might even need less space, and thats good for the environment on so many levels.

Ive written many books on decluttering, so in this one I wanted to set a new challenge: downsizing your personal possessions to just 100 items. I decided to take on the challenge myself as I wrote the book and you can follow my experiences in my personal journal throughout.

Get ready to feel overjoyed rather than overwhelmed by your possessions. Once youre living with less, youll never look back.

THE 100-ITEM CHALLENGE

The challenge is to pare down your personal belongings to just 100 items (you can group some things together as one) and live with just these for a year.

You can replace items but you cant add to your list, unless you have managed to keep it to fewer than 100 to begin with. This is a difficult goal to achieve, especially if you love new clothes, but it will change your attitude to buying forever. It will also make you realize how many things you have that you dont really need.

Clothes make up 70 percent of the 100-item challenge but do you realize that most of us wear only 20 percent of these? The rest just hang in the closet. Selling or giving away the ones that you dont wear, that dont fit, or that you dont like any more will make you much more conscious of the outfits that flatter you. And you will become adept at mixing and matching the clothes you have left.

To help you cope with the challenge, I have separated it into achievable goals that you can work on over a period of a year (or longer if you need it), so that you can find joy in the process rather than feel overburdened by it. The clothes goal is the biggest one, so it has the longest time allocated to it4 months. Others deal with fewer items, such as your electrical, electronic, and sports equipment, so these are given just 1 months each. Releasing these possessions from your life may be hard at first but it will make you feel so free and give you extra energy to try new activities. Another benefit of letting go is that you can sell those things, or if you decide to donate some of your unwanted possessions to charity, instead, you will benefit from the feel-good factor of doing this.

ROOM-BY-ROOM DECLUTTERING

Just letting go of some of your personal possessions is not enough if you really want to live with less. You also need to appraise the household paraphernalia that you have accumulated over the years. If you look through each room in your home, you will notice how cluttered some areas have become, especially if you have been living there a while. Some rooms may be so full of furniture or equipment that you just dont use them any more. With my guidance you can allocate a certain number of hours to decluttering each room. Start on your worst room first, going through the main problem areas, using my solutions to help you restore some order to these over-loaded spaces.

A NEW LIFE

As the energy shifts and changes in your home, your own perspective will change as well. You will start to enjoy the clearer and more functional spaces in all your rooms. By clearing out, you will also allow space in your mind for new creativity.

Living with less helps you to find your true self beneath the clutter, and follow your hearts desires, which you may have neglected for a while. Time with family and friends will never seem so precious. But most of all, you can slow down and appreciate the wonders of your life, dreaming of all those unknown adventures that are yet to come.

Getting into the right frame of mind to let go of possessions is hard to do, but once you start releasing them, the feel-good factor will soon set in and you will begin to feel liberated and fulfilled. The atmosphere in a home that is no longer cluttered will feel vibrant, and this will have the wonderful ripple effect of enhancing your overall wellbeing.

THE BENEFITS OF A SIMPLER LIFE

The rewards of living with less are truly amazing. You will find an inner spiritual contentment and joy that you just did not think was possible, and be happy in the knowledge that your actions will impact positively on those close to you and on the wider world.