Dan Caro - The Gift of Fire: How I Made Adversity Work for Me

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NO-HAND DAN COMPILATION, VOLUME 1
(CD; available at: www.dancaro.com)

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OUR LADY OF KIBEHO:
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Copyright 2010 by Dan Caro

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Editorial supervision: Jill Kramer Project editor: Shannon Littrell Design: Riann Bender Interior photos: Courtesy of the author, unless otherwise noted

Certain names have been changed to protect individuals privacy.

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Caro, Dan.

The gift of fire : how I made adversity work for me / Dan Caro with Steve Erwin. -- 1st ed.

p. cm.

ISBN 978-1-4019-2660-1 (hardcover)

1. Caro, Dan, 1979- 2. Burns and scalds--Patients--Louisiana--New Orleans Region--Biography. 3. Burns and scalds--Patients--Rehabilitation. 4. Jazz musicians--Louisiana--New Orleans Region--Biography. 5. Drummers (Musicians)--Louisiana--New Orleans--Biography. 6. New Orleans Region (La.)--Biography. I. Erwin, Steve. II. Title.

RD96.4.C373 2010

617.11092--dc22

[B]

2009049490

ISBN: 978-1-4019-2660-1

13 12 11 10 4 3 2 1
1st edition, March 2010

Printed in the United States of America

For my parents, John and Marilyn
the strongest souls Ive ever known.

Contents

You are about to read a book that will forever change your concept of the word impossible.

Dan Caros story will introduce you to a whole new way of looking at the power of the human spirit. Somewhere within the soul of this young man, there exists a kind of magical vision that has allowed him to overcome the most challenging and difficult set of circumstances and emerge as a role model for all of us. This inner vision not only made a survivor out of Dan, but it has given him the ability to live his life at a level that most peopleespecially those who have never been confronted by such challengescouldnt even imagine for themselves.

When I first heard about all that Dan had been through, I was deeply and profoundly moved by his unwillingness to make excuses for anything in his life and God knows he certainly would have been forgiven had he not made that choice. Had Dan just given up after being terribly burned as a two-year-old, everyone would have understood and explained it away as the natural result of a horrifying accident. But in some mysterious way, he simply refused to travel that road. Instead, he calls what happened to him his gift of fire, and he has made his life an example for all of us to admire and attempt to emulate.

I met Dan as I was making preparations for a national PBS special based on my book Excuses Begone! I immediately asked him to come on board with me and provide a firsthand, live example of someone overcoming enormous adversity sans any and all excuse making. Dan rocked the audience and absolutely blew me away, giving a stirring performance of how to be a world-class drummer without the benefit of hands.

Dan is one of the most inspirational people I have ever had the privilege of meeting. I love his message, and I love the man even more. I know that his story will not only fill you with admiration for his truly remarkable achievements over the past 28 years, but it will also help you realize the truth in the old maxim: Nothing is impossible to a determined soul.

I encouraged Dan to write this book after receiving thousands of letters from people who told me how much inspiration they received from watching him on my PBS special. I love the beautifully honest rendition hes given of his life in these pages. Yet nothing written here (or anywhere) can begin to depict the soul of Dan Caro. His determination and courage leave me in awe, and his sense of humor about it all leaves me breathless. His original title for his book was Look, Ma, No Hands! That says a lot about the character of my friend Dan Caro, about whom I say, Look, everyone, no excuses!

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
Maui, Hawaii

I was born just a stones throw from the Big Easy. My mother gave birth to me in the heart of bayou country in the old southeastern Louisiana town of Metairie. Thats right outside the one and only city of New Orleans.

There are two things you cant escape in New Orleans: the humidity and the music. If youre lucky enough to call this place home, the humidity is a burden you learn to live with, and the music is a penetrating joy you never want to go too long without. And if youre a musician especially a jazz drummerwhat better place to grow up than the birthplace of jazz itself?

New Orleans has its own cadence, a rhythm fashioned centuries ago amidst the cultural clash of its first inhabitants and the subsequent blending of African, European, and Latin musical traditions. What evolved was a rhythm that is distinctively American, and as primitive and potent as the human heartbeat. Its a rhythm that has given birth to countless new harmonious styles, from jazz to zydeco, from Cajun music to the Delta Blues. Its an inherently soulful sound that has endured wars and disease, hurricanes and floods. But its also woven into the tapestry of daily life in the Big Easy, part of everything from funeral processions to prayer meetings, from garage jam sessions to smoke-filled Bourbon Street jazz clubs, from the smallest music festival to Mardi Gras itself.