ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
This book came out of my own struggles with procrastination, motivation, and creativity, but in large part it is based on the experiences of thousands of coaching and therapy clients and seminar participants who have shared their difficulties and their triumphs with me. I wish to acknowledge the contribution of these courageous individuals who repeatedly faced their fears and found within themselves the strength to try again. Their stories are told with the names, jobs, and situations changed to protect their privacy.
I also wish to acknowledge the constant support and love of my family and friends, who offered me so many guilt-free meals and opportunities for guilt-free play. The staff at the University of California Berkeleys Counseling Center deserves special mention for its support over many years. I want to thank Jeremy P. Tarcher, who believed in the early, rough draft of the manuscript and had the vision to see this book. I will continue to be grateful for the advice and help of my agents. I am very grateful to friends who read rough drafts and offered constructive criticism, but I especially appreciate the assistance of Jayne Walker and Harriet Whitman Lee. And I wish to acknowledge the editing skill and wise counsel of Hank Stine and the inspiration of Janice Gallagher, both of whom contributed greatly to the organization of this book.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Neil A. Fiore, Ph.D., is a management consultant and licensed psychologist in private practice in Berkeley, California. He has served as a psychologist at the University of California and as a consultant to industry and health and educational institutions. He has been published in The New England Journal of Medicine, Science Digest, and Boardroom Reports, and has appeared on numerous radio and television programs across the country. Dr. Fiore is widely acknowledged as an expert in the areas of health psychology, optimal performance, stress management, and hypnosis.
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