THE NEW PERSONALITY SELF-PORTRAIT
A Bantam Book / September 1995
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Copyright 1995 by John M. Oldham, M.D., and Lois B. Morris
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Oldham, John M.
The new personality self-portrait : why you think, work, love, and act the way you do / John M. Oldham and Lois B. Morris.
p. cm.
Rev. ed. of: The personality self-portrait. 1990.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
eISBN: 978-0-307-81869-0
1. Typology (Psychology) 2. Personality disorders. I. Morris, Lois B. II. Oldham, John M. Personality self-portrait. III. Title. BF698.3043 1995
155.264dc20
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Acknowledgments
Grateful thanks to all our test subjects. By volunteering their time and allowing us to peer into their personalities, they helped us to develop the test that serves as the basis for this book. To Michael First, M.D., and Peggy Gallaher, Ph.D., we offer heartfelt appreciation for their assistance in gathering and interpreting the data that helped us to refine the test and thus to proceed with this new edition.
Contents
Chapter 1 WHO AM I?
Understanding Individual Differences
Chapter 2 YOUR UNIQUE LIFE PATTERN
Styles, Disorders, and Domains
Chapter 3 THE PERSONALITY SELF-PORTRAIT
Taking and Interpreting the Test and Reading the Book
Chapter 4 CONSCIENTIOUS
The Right Stuff
Chapter 5 SELF-CONFIDENT STYLE
Star Quality
Chapter 6 DEVOTED STYLE
The Good Mate
Chapter 7 DRAMATIC STYLE
The Life of the Party
Chapter 8 VIGILANT STYLE
The Survivor
Chapter 9 SENSITIVE STYLE
The Homebody
Chapter 10 LEISURELY STYLE
California Dreaming
Chapter 11 ADVENTUROUS STYLE
The Challenger
Chapter 12 IDIOSYNCRATIC STYLE
The Different Drummer
Chapter 13 SOLITARY STYLE
The Loner
Chapter 14 MERCURIAL STYLE
Fire and Ice
Chapter 15 SELF-SACRIFICING STYLE
The Altruist
Chapter 16 AGGRESSIVE STYLE
Top Dog
Chapter 17 SERIOUS STYLE
The Realist
Chapter 18 YOUR STYLE AND YOUR DESTINY
Where Youve Come from and Where Youre Headed
Chapter 19 STRATEGIES FOR CHANGE
Finding the Right Help
Appendix TWO SELF-PORTRAITS
Graph Interpretations
Preface to the Second Edition
In 1984, it first occurred to us to devise a system ofand test fornormal personality styles based on the new system for classifying personality disorders that had recently been developed by the American Psychiatric Association, which had never been attempted. We believed then, as now, that the disorders of personality that psychiatrists have identified can be seen as extremes along a continuum of normal, adaptive, individual personality differences. Thus we set out to identify and describe these normal personality styles. Six years later, in 1990, The Personality Self-Portrait was published. Little did we imagine how well it would be received and how eagerly it would be applied by researchers, clinicians, human resources departments, teachers, students, individuals wishing to know more about themselves, and even dating services!
We have prepared this new edition of both the book and the test for two principal reasons. For one, the system upon which we had based our first edition has changed. The personality styles represented in our first edition corresponded to the categories of personality disorder published in the American Psychiatric Associations DSM-III-R: the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (Third Edition-Revised). The 1994 publication of the fourth edition of the manual, the DSM-IV, brought with it some changes to the personality disorder classifications and diagnostic criteria, which we have reflected in our own schema and revised test in The New Personality Self-Portrait.
Changes in this edition also reflect the data we have collected since the original publication. The earlier test was devised primarily as a descriptive tool. Its almost immediate adoption into formal settings necessitated information as to its scientific validity, which was begun at several sites. This new test incorporates results of that initial work, and the process of data collection continues. In addition, we have received valuable feedback from researchers, readers, and mental health professionals throughout the world, to whom we are extremely grateful.
We encourage continued involvement of and reactions from those who wish to use this system. Although the test that appears in this book is intended only for personal use and may not be copied, additional test booklets and software, plus research permission, is available from: Multi-Health Systems, Inc., telephone toll-free 1-800-456-3003 (U.S.) or 1-800-268-6011 (Canada).
J OHN M. O LDHAM , M.D.
L OIS B. M ORRIS
INTRODUCTION
The Newest Personality System
In this book we present a system for defining your personality style and understanding the particular ways it affects six key domains of your life: your relationships and love life; your work; your self-image; your emotional life; your self-control, impulses, and appetites; and your sense of reality and of spirituality.
The fourteen normal personality-style categories that we present, and the test to determine your individual personality pattern, are derived from the importantsome say revolutionaryclassification system of personality