PRAISE FOR
How to Be Golden
How to Be Golden is as delightful as its subject matter, Betty White. Even as a lifelong student of Betty, I learned a lot and was inspired along the way by her life so fully lived.
JENNIFER KEISHIN ARMSTRONG,
New York Times bestselling author of Seinfeldia , Mary and Lou and Rhoda and Ted , and When Women Invented Television
If youre looking for a new spiritual guide, have you considered Betty White, patron saint of common sense and double entendres? Let Paula Bernstein initiate you into the mysteries of all things Betty.
GAVIN EDWARDS,
New York Times bestselling author of The Tao of Bill Murray
In a winning combination of genres, Paula Bernstein fuses biography, trivia, and life lessons to tell the story of Betty Whitejust when we need Whites advice, wisdom, and sunny outlook the most! The life shes led can inspire us all.
KATE AURTHUR,
Editor-at-Large, Variety
The world doesnt deserve Betty White, but thankfully, she shares her wisdom, humor, and compassion with us all. Paula Bernsteins joyful book brims with priceless life lessons from an unconventional woman who blazed trails while marching to her own beat. Indeed, we should all ask ourselves: What would Betty do?
ERIN CARLSON,
author of Queen Meryl and Ill Have What Shes Having
This book makes it clear Betty Whites pioneering ways in the world of television and in the characters she plays are no jokeher humor, resilience, and refusal to live up to tired stereotypes at all stages of her career prove her to be an inspirational role model for all of us.
LAUREN MARINO,
author of What Would Dolly Do? and Bookish Broads
Its obvious that we could all learn a thing or ten from the incredible Betty White. Thankfully, the funny and delightful Paula Bernstein has compiled a whole book of gorgeous lessons gleaned from the life of this spectacular talent.
SARA BENINCASA,
author of Real Artists Have Day Jobs and Agorafabulous!
I had no idea that the same woman who often played sweet, naive characters on TV was actually a brave feminist trailblazer in real life. This fun book captures Bettys positive outlook on life and explains the reason she continues to be such an icon.
MELISSA MAERZ,
author of Alright, Alright, Alright: The Oral History of Richard Linklaters Dazed and Confused
Everyone loves Betty White and after reading Paula Bernsteins How to Be Golden, itd be impossible not to absolutely idolize the sitcom star. Bernsteins tome is a lovely and sweet blend of biography and advice where Bettys voice is loud and clear. One of the quintessential stars of any age shines through in a loving story youll want to return to as you navigate life. A definite golden joy on its own!
KRISTEN LOPEZ,
IndieWire TV Editor
What a fun tribute to an American icon! Paulas book is insightful and funny, just like the incomparable Betty White herself!
ALEXI PAPPAS,
Olympic runner and author of Bravey
Paula Bernsteins How to Be Golden isnt simply a biography of film and television icon Betty White; full of surprising trivia, fun quizzes, behind the scenes stories and more, its a tribute to one of Hollywoods most beloved and resilient comedians of all time.
ERIK ANDERSON,
AwardsWatch
With How to Be Golden , Paula Bernstein has crafted the perfect tribute to an American icon. In a format that parses through the entire century of Bettys life and career, this lively book informs us about her incredible past and provides life lessons that we, too, can use to Betty-er ourselves.
JIM COLUCCI,
author of Golden Girls Forever: An Unauthorized Look Behind the Lanai
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To Jess and Ruby,
for making my life so much brighter.
As a child growing up in the 1970s and 1980s, it felt as if Betty White was everywhere. Given how much TV I watched, she sort of was! Like a fairy godmother of TV, she brightened up every show she appeared on. She quipped with the best of them on Hollywood Squares , performed a song-and-dance routine on The Love Boat , and embodied the lovably naive Rose Nylund on The Golden Girls .
Though her characters suggestive innuendos frequently flew over my head, Bettys underlying humor and kindness shined through. Back then, I had no real sense of her age, but thats because even then, she was ageless (or perhaps timeless). She typified what it meant to be grown-upif one just happened to have a sparkling personality, a plucky attitude, and a job that involved making people laugh. Whether she was dressed in leather as a sexy biker chick in a skit on The Carol Burnett Show or throwing a tantrum about her poor souffl as The Happy Homemaker on The Mary Tyler Moore Show , the radiant Betty seemed to be having the time of her life. I didnt realize that by the time I had discovered her, Betty White was already a show-business veteran, having broken into radio and experimental TV decades earlier. Like a lot of people who love Betty, I can measure my life through her career.
The Golden Girls showed up in prime time during my high school years, and I watched with my mother on the comfy leather couch in the cozy wood-paneled den of our suburban home. I appreciated the sassy humor of the girls, but they seemed impossibly old at the time. As I edge closer to their demographic, I find them increasingly relatable!
My fifteen-year-old daughter, Ruby, is now the same age I was when I watched The Golden Girls with my mom, and she has a totally different connection with the fabulous Ms. White. Until I recently introduced her to The Mary Tyler Moore Show and The Golden Girls , Ruby primarily knew Betty from her crotchety old lady cameos on sitcoms like Community and 30 Rock and from animated films like Dr. Seuss The Lorax and Toy Story 4 . Thats the thing about Betty Whiteher appeal is timeless and we each feel a different connection with her.