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Endorsements
A beautifully written memoir about two cats who suddenly show up, move in, and set up housekeeping. As human and feline lives slowly intertwine, its ultimately unclear who is nurturing whom as they slowly become a family. The story of Kit Kat and Lucy is genuinely moving, poignant, hilarious (cue a mouse dropping from the ceiling), and ultimately compelling as Lonnie Hull DuPont experiences the sustaining power of love in furry form.
Susy Flory , author or coauthor of eleven books, including Thunder Dog , a New York Times bestseller
An engaging story of an accidental cat owner. Been there. The prose was so funny, touching and vivid, I felt like part of the family.
Dusty Rainbolt , former president of Cat Writers Association and author of Cat Scene Investigator: Solve Your Cats Litter Box Mystery
My favorite glimpses of the holy come by way of thoughtful observance of the quotidian, honest sharing of a life, and simple, pure sentencesglimpses that come on little cats feet, one might say. This delightful book is full of just those things.
Robert Benson , author of Between the Dreaming and the Coming True and Punching Holes in the Dark
If you love cats, dont miss this poignant book! Lonnie Hull DuPont has crafted an enchanting, heartwarming peek into the ways these delightfuland therapeuticcreatures enrich and teach their humans. Highly recommended!
Erin Taylor Young , author of Surviving Henry and cofounder of Write from the Deep
This memoir is like a good, honest friend who compels you to listen to the wisdom and wit she has to share. From the first page, I was hooked. Through this tender love story between the author, her husband, and their fur-babies, I was touched by Kit Kats love for her family, Lucys zest for life, and Lonnie and Joes unending willingness to learn whats best for their kitties. DuPont weaves in poignant memories from her childhood, humor, and practical insights about cats. I couldn t stop reading and, by the end, felt like I had a new best friend.
Susan Logan-McCracken , former editor of Cat Fancy magazine and award-winning author
Dedication
I dedicate this book
To the memory of my extraordinary father-in-law and fellow lover of books, John (Jack) J. DuPont. I miss you, and I wish I could have handed this book to you.
To my lovely mother-in-law and fellow Cat Woman, Joan M. DuPont. You have treated me like one of your own from the moment we met, and I love you.
To my smart and spirited siblings-in-lawJohn DuPont, Cathy Tretheway, Jim DuPont, Robert DuPont, Anne-Marie DuPont, and Daniel DuPont. And to my very cool fellow out-lawsJill DuPont, Earl Tretheway, and Joey DuPont. You are all so witty, so interesting, and so much fun. I love any chance to be with each and all of you.
And especially to my wonderful husband, Joe DuPont, who travels this road with me and never fails to make me laugh. I am so grateful for your unwavering love and support. Although the song says people leave their hearts in San Francisco, I found mine there and got to take it with methanks to you.
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
Endorsements
Dedication
Prologue
1. A House and a Cat
2. The Journey
3. Cat Men
4. Mothering
5. Kit Kat
6. My Feathered Friend
7. The Blue Cat
8. Donna the Pet Expert
9. The Results
10. Lucy
11. The Great Indoors
12. All Creatures
13. My Catalyst
14. Anxieties Old and New
15. Ten Miles
17. The Surf Shack
18. Game On
19. Older, Sweeter, Crankier
20. The Texans
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Books Compiled as Callie Smith Grant
Back Ads
Back Cover
Prologue
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.
Albert Einstein
When I was a single woman in my thirties, I lived in the heart of San Francisco. I loved it there. I stayed for ten years in a third-floor walk-up on Telegraph Hill, and I planned to live there forever.
This was the North Beach district, a handsome and historic Italian neighborhood, flanked by Chinatown and the Bay. I woke each morning to the sounds of foghorns and sea lions, to the smells of garlic and coffee, to a view outside my windows that included cable cars clanging toward downtown at their usual pace of nine miles per hour. My shower had a head-level window through which I could see all of the east side of Russian Hill bathed in morning gold. As I washed my hair, I watched the fog roll off the hill.
Every day I swam in an outdoor pool in my apartment complexyes, right in the heart of the city. I walked everywhere I wanted to go, up and down those famous hills, on knees still young and strong. I was a poet who gained some local reputation in that mecca for poets. I made interesting, lifelong friends. I felt I had found my true home.
At the time, I worked as an acquisitions editor for a publishing house that specialized in books on religion and philosophy. Committee meetings where we decided what to publish were always lively, although often in these meetings we didnt necessarily know much about one anothers area of expertise. One of the editors at these meetings presented projects in an area I didnt understand and even thought was a little weird. To be honest, I seldom had a clue what he was talking about, though he certainly was passionate about it, and Im ashamed to admit I often mentally zoned out during his presentations.
One day as he presented with his usual intensity, I had begun making a mental grocery listuntil the editor said something that broke through and caused me to look straight at him. I dont recall the context, but he said, Weve lost our connection to the land. Weve lost our connection to the animals.
For me, this statement was startling and true. I recognized its truth in my heart immediately. I actually started to ache inside as I sat in that conference room. I had lost my connection to the land. I had especially lost my connection to the animals. I didnt realize until that moment how much I missed having animals in my life.
I was raised in rural southern Michigan on what had been the family farm. My ancestors homesteaded it in 1835, and we lived in the very house they builtmy mother was born in front of the fireplace, and my nephew and his family live there today. I used to sleep by a corner window in my bedroom, tucked into the weather you might say, often waking up on summer nights to lightning storms or on winter mornings to ice frozen on the glass. We no longer had livestock and crops on the property, but we did have horses and large gardens of vegetables.