Mary Roach - My Planet

To describe iconic American author Mary Roach is to understand the most genius of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde complexes. Take science and imbue it with sarcasm. Create a social commentary and add sentimentality. Detail death and layer on wit. Are you chuckling while reading a story about a funeral? Then youre doing exactly what Roach intended. She lifted the gauze on mortality with Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers, questioned life after death in Spook: Science Tackles the Afterlife, experimented with love and the lab for the sake of Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex, and dove into disturbing aspects of space travel in Packing for Mars: The Curious Science of Life in the Void.

While her books focus on science and the supernatural, Roachs column in Readers Digest zeroed in on the wonders of the everyday. When My Planet first appeared in our July 2002 issue, we knew that we had something special. As an institution that prides itself in handpicking moving stories that will make you smile and see the world a little bit differently, we were thrilled to add a writer with both abilities to our treasure trove of authors. Editors eagerly flipped to Roachs column after receiving their first-bound copies of the issue and readers, too, took notice. Three years after its debut, Roachs column was runner-up in the humor category of the National Press Club awards. Here, you can read her entire collection in one laugh-out-loud volume.

What you can expect from Roach is a curious curation and condensation of lifes little mishapsall of which are filigreed with her humor. She details first dates, rants about marital differences, and dissects (as she is wont to do) the stellar process that is getting older (or, as Roach puts it, entering the Age of Skirted Swimwear). She breaks down her hypochondriac tendencies and divulges her uncanny desire to make lists for absolutely everything. In lieu of the latter, here are a few more things shell tell you about: Accompanying spouses to container outlets (These stores cast a spell on people), theories on compromising (Like any normal couple, we refused to accept each others differences and did whatever we could to annoy the other person), and the trials and tribulations of real estate (The other daytrue storywe saw a listing that said yard, complete with outhouse). Serving as the nucleus to these funny anecdotes is her husband, Ed, who makes appearances as both a funny adversary and a worthy teammate.

In a piece called Best Cheap Fun! Roach details free ways to get the most out of life. The list (of course its a list) includes rooting for the Red Sox at Yankee Stadium and trying to sneak a bottle of water onto a plane, proving once again that humor is worth a potential black eye. Beyond that, Roach prompts us to find wonder in the smaller, simpler moments, leading us to a readers paradise of which well never tire.

It was our first date together. The man who was to become my husband, the man I call Ed, got up from the table within minutes of his arrival and excused himself to go wash his hands. I found this adorable. He was like a little raccoon, leaning over the stream to tidy himself before eating. At the same time I found it odd, as it typically would not occur to me to wash my own hands before a meal, unless Id spent the afternoon coal mining, say, or running an offset printing press.

It was at this same dinner that I made the unfortunate decision to share my philosophy of bath towels, which holds that you neednt wash them very often because youre clean when you use them.

We both sensed something of a hygiene gap, and, not wanting to alarm one another, spent our first six months trying to hide our true selves. Ed didnt tell me how hed replace the toilet seat whenever he moved into a new place, on the grounds that he didnt know whod been sitting on it. He said nothing when I used the Designated Countertop Sponge to wash the dishes and the Designated Dishwashing Sponge to clean the bathtub, an act I now know to be tantamount to a bioterror attack. For my part, when I dropped food on the floor Id throw it away instead of picking it up and eating it, and Id clean the spot where it landed, albeit with the wrong sponge.

As time went by, we reverted to our true selves and the Hygiene War commenced. More than anything else, it was a war of perception. Ed has crud vision, and I dont. I dont notice filth. Ed sees it everywhere. I am reasonably convinced that Ed can actually see bacteria. Like any normal couple, we refused to accept each others differences and did whatever we could to annoy the other person. I flossed my teeth in bed and drank from the OJ container. Ed insisted on moving our vitamins out of the bathroom and into the kitchen, where the germs are apparently less savage. He confessed he didnt like me using his bathrobe because Id wear it while sitting on the toilet.

Its not like it goes in the water, I protested, though if you counted the sash as part of the robe, this wasnt strictly true.

Doesnt matter, Ed said. Ed has a theory that anything that touches the toilet, even the top of the closed lidwhich I pretty much use as a dressing table in the morningsis unclean and subject to the sanitary laws of Leviticus.

Things came to a head one evening at a local eatery. When Ed returned to the table after washing his hands, I told him there was no rational reason to do that unless he was planning to handle his food and then leave it sitting out at room temperature for three or four hours before eating it. This reminded me of something I had recently learned in the course of my work, which was not even raccoons wash up before eating. Yes, according to wildlife expert David McCullough, of Wartburg College in Waverly, Iowa, raccoons are not washing, but merely handling their food. They do it even when theres no water around. Its a tactile thing, he told me. They have extremely sensitive hands, and one idea is that they are just fulfilling a need to feel food moving around in their paws.

I told this to Ed. He looked like he wanted to strangle me, and Professor McCullough too. I followed his gaze to the true source of his emotion: the restaurants cook. The man had his right hand tucked in his left armpit and was absently massaging the flesh as he read our dinner order and prepared to contaminate Eds halibut.

Big deal, I said. Hes wearing a shirt. Maybe he has extremely sensitive hands and it fulfills a need.

Ed called me insane. I called him abnormal. He was right, I was right. We decided we canceled each other out and that together we made one sane, normal entity, at least compared to, I dont know, raccoons. Then Ed did something very touching. He reached over and kissed my hand, which we both knew hadnt been washed since the night before.

There are three kinds of people in this world: 1) People who make lists, 2) People who dont make lists, and 3) People who carve tiny Nativity scenes out of pecan hulls. Im sorry, there isnt really a third category; its just that a workable list needs a minimum of three items, I feel. I am, as you might have guessed, a person who makes lists: daily To Do lists, long-term To Do lists, shopping lists, packing lists. I am married to a man whose idea of a list is a corner torn off a newspaper page, covered with words too hastily written to later decipher, and soon misplaced or dropped on the floor. Every now and then Ill discover one of Eds lists in some forgotten corner of the house: