Murch - Fixing Feedback

GEORGIA MURCH

First published in 2016 by John Wiley & Sons Australia, Ltd
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Office also in Melbourne

Can We Talk Pty Ltd 2016

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I'm delighted to see Georgia's expertise in delivering constructive feedback now being widely recognised. Early in my career, and when I then reported to Georgia, I experienced her talent in this area, firsthand. Delivering effective feedback is a misunderstood and often downplayed art; and one which we can all grow better at.

Matthew Chapman, CEO, ChapmanCG

Everything you need to fix feedback is brought together into one powerful package. Fixing Feedback is a common sense, plain English guidebook to that most important of interactions the feedback conversation. Georgia Murch shows us why they are important, the evidence about what works, how to approach them and how to find your flow to a high-performance workplace.

Paul Duldig, Head of University Services,
The University of Melbourne

The journey to remarkable is a revolving dance of three steps forward and two steps back. In robust style, Georgia shows how to construct and enjoy the forward steps and learn from the back steps and perhaps sidestep them in the future. Georgia provides a wealth of contemporary thinking, accompanied by many personal and professional examples. Read, reflect and try the journey to remarkable.

Tim Orton, Managing Director, The Nous Group

Georgia is obsessed with the power of great communication. She knows how great communication leads to great collaboration and helps create outstanding cultures. She sees the profound impact communication has on the success of businesses. Remarkable conversations make businesses better.

Georgia understands the importance of delivering programs that impact the bottom line. By helping people have constructive conversations, and giving leaders the confidence to lead with ease, Georgia helps businesses become highly productive by leveraging the power of their people.

She's an expert in helping others master the art of conversation. By creating a culture based on trust and respect, she helps create environments that let clever people get on with being clever, so companies can navigate change smoothly, hold on to their brightest sparks and let their leaders spend their time on the things that matter.

Georgia has over 20 years of experience working with public and private organisations of all shapes and sizes, in Australia and overseas. She has worked in consulting, designing and facilitating leadership, cultural change and customer-focused programs. This deep experience means she truly appreciates the diversity and challenge of complex workforces and understands the complexity of managing a business while leading change.

She now works with savvy, fast-paced organisations and leaders to help create remarkable communicators so remarkable that people can't stop talking about them and things just get done.

Visit georgiamurch.com to find out more about Georgia, what she does and what she's been thinking about lately. You can also find her on Facebook and Twitter (@GeorgiaMurch), and connect with her on LinkedIn.

Writing this has cemented how passionate I am about what I know. It has held me to account to be the person I challenge others to be.

Matt Church and Pete Cook you made me do it! Thank god you did. Thank you to those leaders and mentors who lead from the space that I admire and have helped shape who I am today. Paul Jury and Tim Orton are two of the most authentic leaders I have had the privilege of working for. Geoff Morgan stayed close and reminded me that the human side of leadership wins over strategy every time. Thank you to mentors and friends like Gabrielle Dolan and Annie Layton, who challenge me in a way that inspires rather than tells. Great women who are authentic and walk the talk.

It's not just the obvious people I'm grateful for. Those who don't demand attention through their title or position have taught me just as much. Thank you to the grumpy guy at the drycleaner it took me six years to get a smile from; to the lady at the local coffee shop who always asked how I was, and meant it. Special mention to John Douglas and Caroline Thurling for your professional wisdom and personal support. I will always be grateful.

Thank you to my clients, many of whom I am now lucky to call friends. It's been such a great ride. I am blessed to do work I love with people I value and enjoy, and I don't take it for granted.

High-five and much gratitude to Lucy Raymond from Wiley, for believing in this book and helping me to get the message out there.

And to my friends and family, who have remained gracious and patient while I continue to work on my style, my rightness and my need to verbally process. Your elegance of friendship, your casual reminders and your commitment to the end makes me so proud. I am proud to be in the trenches of life with you.

Jackson and Holly, two of my best teachers, through the joy and hard work of parenting. You are two of the most impressive humans I know. Your love, laughter and thirst for life will forever impress and inspire me.

And then there's my dear old Dad. I have learnt so much from you. Many of these lessons and observations have shaped the person who I am. I hope you receive as much from this as I have been blessed to receive. I know Mum would be so proud, too.

After more than 20 years working, leading, managing and consulting, it's clear to me that the number one thing that gets in the way of people being awesome is being a dick!

Do I really need to explain what being a dick means? I did some research, and apparently being a dick is a common phenomenon. It knows no bounds. It spans nationalities, cultures, industries and disciplines. When I mention the subtitle of this book, the near first thing that people say is, I could buy that book for someone I work with.