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Names: Oluo, Ijeoma, author.
Title: So you want to talk about race / Ijeoma Oluo.
Description: First edition. | New York, NY: Seal Press, 2018.
Identifiers: LCCN 2017041919 (print) | LCCN 2017043938 (ebook) | ISBN 9781580056786 (e-book) | ISBN 9781580056779 (hardback) Subjects: LCSH: United StatesRace relations. | Intercultural communication. | BISAC: SOCIAL SCIENCE / Ethnic Studies / African American Studies. | SOCIAL SCIENCE / Black Studies (Global). | POLITICAL SCIENCE / Political Freedom & Security / Civil Rights.
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2017041919ISBNs: 978-1-58005-677-9 (hardcover), 978-1-58005-678-6 (e-book)
I dont think Ive ever seen a writer have such an instant, visceral, electric impact on readers. Ijeoma Oluos intellectual clarity and moral sure-footedness make her the kind of unstoppable force that obliterates the very concept of immovable objects.
L INDY W EST , New York Times bestselling author of Shrill
So You Want to Talk About Race strikes the perfect balance of direct and brutally honest without being preachy or, worse, condescending. Regardless of your comfort level, educational background, or experience when it comes to talking about race, Ijeoma has created a wonderful tool to help broach these conversations and help us work toward a better world for people of color from all walks of life.
F RANCHESCA R AMSEY , host and executive producer of MTVs Decoded
Ijeoma Oluo is armed with words. Her words are daggers that pierce through injustice, while also disarming you with humor and love.
H ARI K ONDABOLU , comedian, writer, and co-host of Politically Re-Active
You are not going to find a more user-friendly examination of race in America than Ijeoma Oluos fantastic new book. The writing is elegantly simple, which is a real feat when tackling such a thorny issue. Think of it as Race for the Willing-to-Listen.
A NDY R ICHTER , writer and actor
When you need a super team to help you make sense of todays complex conversation on identity and representation, Ijeoma needs to be your number one pick. No one cuts through the chatter with more humor, insight and clarity. No matter the issue, Ijeomas thinking is always essential reading.
J ENNY Y ANG , comedian, writer, and co-founder and co-producer of Dis/orient/ed Comedy
Oluo has created a brilliant and thought-provoking work. Seamlessly connecting deeply moving personal stories with practical solutions, readers will leave with inspiration and tools to help create personal and societal transformations. A necessary read for any white person seriously committed to better understanding race in the United States.
M ATT M C G ORRY , actor, Orange Is the New Black and How to Get Away with Murder
A clear and candid contribution to an essential conversation.
Kirkus
In a time where more folks are willing to fall-in-line with whatever political or social commentary others are engaging with, Ijeoma Oluo has ripped that norm to shreds. While so many people want to become thought leaders, bloggers, or even just influential, Oluo is eons past that. Oluo is out to help put words to action, which at this day and age, might be exactly what we need.
Forbes
Everyone should be paying attention to Ijeoma Oluo.
The Root
Ijeoma Oluo has emerged as one of Seattles strongest voices for social justice. Best of all, she gets her message across with incisive wit, remarkable humor and an appropriate magnitude of rage.
Seattle magazine
A S A BLACK WOMAN, RACE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A PROMINENT part of my life. I have never been able to escape the fact that I am a black woman in a white supremacist country. My blackness is woven into how I dress each morning, what bars I feel comfortable going to, what music I enjoy, what neighborhoods I hang out in. The realities of race have not always been welcome in my life, but they have always been there. When I was a young child it was the constant questions of why I was so dark while my mom was so whitewas I adopted? Where did I come from? When I became older it was the clothes not cut for my shape and the snide comments about my hair and lips and the teen idols that would never ever find a girl like me beautiful. Then it was the clerks who would follow me around stores and the jobs that were hiring until I walked in the door and then they were not. And it was the bosses who told me that I was too loud, the complaints that my hair was too ethnic for the office, and why, even though I was a valued employee, I was making so much less money than other white employees doing the same job. It is the cops I cant make eye contact with, the Ubers that abandon their pickup, driving on instead of stopping when they see me. When I had my sons, it was the assumptions that they were older than they were, and that their roughhousing was too violent. It was the tears they came home with when a classmate had repeated an ignorant comment of their parents.
But race has also been countless hours spent marveling at our history. Evenings spent dancing and cheering to jazz and rap and R&B. Cookouts with ribs and potato salad and sweet potato pie. It has been hands of women braiding my hair. It has been reading the magic of the words of Toni Morrison, Maya Angelou, and Alice Walker and knowing that they are written for you. It has been parties filled with Jollof rice and fufu and Nigerian women wearing sequin-covered gowns and giant geles on their heads. It has been the nod to the black stranger walking by that says, I see you fam. It has been pride in Malcolm, Martin, Rosa, and Angela. It has been a room full of the most uninhibited laughter youve ever heard. It has been the touch of my young son as he lays his hand over mine and says Were the same brown.
Race, my race, has been one of the most defining forces in my life. But it is not something I always talked about, certainly not the way that I do now.
Like many people, most of my days were spent just trying to get by. Life is busy and hard. There are work and kids and chores and friends. We spend a lot of time bouncing from one mini-crisis to the next. Yes, my days were just as full of microaggressions, of the pain and oppression of racism, as they are nowbut I just had to keep going on like normal. It is very hard to survive as a woman of color in this world, and I remember saying once that if I stopped to feel, really feel, the pain of the racism I encountered, I would start screaming and I would never ever stop.