WE CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS
35 Voices on the Future of LGBTQ+ Rights
Edited by Amelia Abraham
Notes
Introduction
Acceptance in Brazil
Kissing in Public
Kito Diaries
Designing for the crackdown, The Verge, 25 April 2018
Ace of Clubs
Transphobia and the UK Media
; Isobel Dickinson, Sick killer Huntleys wig stunt, Daily Star Sunday, 8 April 2018
; Ed West, The transgender taboo is a threat to academic freedom, Daily Telegraph, 24 January 2012
Richard Littlejohn, Hes not only in the wrong body hes in the wrong job, Daily Mail, 20 December 2012
Julie Burchill, Transsexuals should cut it out, Observer, 12 January 2013
; Janice Turner, Children sacrificed to appease trans lobby, The Times, 11 November 2017
Levin, Chalabi and Siddiqui, Why we take issue with the Guardians stance on trans rights in the UK, Guardian, 2 November 2018
Trans Influencers
Kai Cheng Thom, Fierce Femmes and Notorious Liars: A Dangerous Trans Girls Confabulous Memoir (Montreal: Metonymy Press, 2016)
On the Stigma of Dating Trans People
Pregnancy Beyond Gender
Anti-LGBTQ+ Bigotry Is Seriously Bad for Your Health
Ibid.
Ibid.
Sex?! Relationships?! PrEP?!
Navigating Trans Healthcare
Breaking Through: Centering the Needs of Homeless LGBTQ+ Youth
As We Grow Older
If Its Broke, Fix It
LGBT in Britain: hate crime and discrimination, Stonewall, 2017
Ceaseless Struggles, Infinite Possibilities: Finding Liberation in Queer History
Statement of James Baldwin, in Hearing Before the Select Subcommittee on Labor of the Committee on Education and Labor. House of Representatives Ninetieth Congress, Second Session on H.R. 12962: A Bill for the Establishment of a Commission on Negro History and Culture (Washington, DC: US Government Printing Office, 1968)
Paolo Freire, Pedagogy of the Oppressed (New York City: Continuum Publishing Company, 1993)
James Baldwin, A Talk to Teachers, James Baldwin: Collected Essays (New York City: Library of America, 1998), p. 685
Audre Lorde, Learning from the 60s, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches by Audre Lorde (Berkeley: Crossing Press, 2007), p. 117
The struggle continues!
San Francisco
Jack Halberstam, In a Queer Time and Place: Transgender Bodies, Subcultural Lives (New York City: NYU Press, 2005)
Doing Better
Footnotes
Kito Diaries
Names have been changed.
Happily Ever After Isnt Accessible to Me
Ableism is the discrimination of disabled people in favour of able-bodied folks and is a system of actions, language and implications that undermines disabled people.
I use the word crippled as a disabled man, as a form of reclamation for myself. Others who are not disabled should not use it without a disabled persons permission.
Everyones Trans, Now What?
Details have been changed.
Captivating We Can Do Better Than This digs deep to present a candid commentary on the LGBTQ+ communitys ongoing issues and delivers hopeful, thoughtful solutions. Simply put, its a must-read
Gay Times, Books of the Year
Moving, personal and political This is a book that aims to break down prejudices and understand the root problems and how to solve them
Stylist
Thoughtful and thought-provoking It is an education in why the concept of pride remains not only relevant but critical
Mohsin Zaidi, author of A Dutiful Boy
Tackles questions around the true meaning of equality and how we get there
Vogue
It poses a simple but essential question: how can we create a better world for our LGBTQ+ family? Urgent and vital
Attitude
Amelia Abraham has switched on every light in the queer village, illuminating the still-not-visible and giving space to many, important, intersectional voices
Paul Mendez, author of Rainbow Milk
An atlas charting global disparities but also interconnectedness, an expedition over the rainbow, a friendly and fierce survey of this critical juncture
Jeremy Atherton Lin, author of Gay Bar
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