Finishing Strong by Steve Farrar is one of the strongest, most challenging, most convicting books written that I have ever read. It is must reading for those men who want to cross the finish line of life as winners.
D R . T ONY E VANS
P RESIDENT OF THE U RBAN A LTERNATIVE AND
S ENIOR P ASTOR OF O AK C LIFF B IBLE F ELLOWSHIP , D ALLAS , T EXAS
[Finishing Strong] is a gold mine of truth, the treasure of which is almost invaluable to anyone who wants to finish life strong. I thank God not only for Steve Farrar, but for what God did through Steve to produce this volume. I would like to make it a commandment that every man read this book. Thats how strong I feel about it.
E DWIN L OUIS C OLE
C HRISTIAN M ENS N ETWORK
Hell befriend you, hell challenge you, hell inspire you, and hell hug you. Steve Farrar is definitely one of the key men that God has used in the great mens awakening in America in the late twentieth and early twenty-first centuries. I witnessed firsthand the incredible impact of the Steve Farrar Finish Strong Message as it inspired and motivated our staff of 2,000 collegiate athletes. They will never be the same and neither will you after you take the opportunity to absorb this fantastic book.
D R . J OE W HITE
P RESIDENT , K ANAKUK K AMPS , I NC .
Of all the mens books available today, Finishing Strong is the one most encouraging to me at this mid-stage in my life. My old track coach told all his sprinters and middle distance men that the last third of the race was the most critical. Same with the race of life. This is the time to lengthen your stride, focus on the fundamentals, and above all else, dont trip up! As Steve would say it, no one ever got a gold medal for the 95-yard dash! Stay in the race. Finish strong!
S TU W EBER
A UTHOR OF TENDER WARRIOR AND FOUR PILLARS OF A MANS HEART
Next to our wives, Steve Farrar and I know each other better than anyone on earth. He is the real thingand so is this book. Finishing Strong is the best read on encouraging a man to go the distance in his marriage and family. Steve opens the Scriptures and his heart to give us a battle plan for finishing the race with integrity. Im inare you?
D R . G ARY R OSBERG
P RESIDENT , A MERICAS F AMILY C OACHES AND AUTHOR ,
THE FIVE LOVE NEEDS OF MEN AND WOMEN
Men who are born from above are eager to answer the call from Gods heart. This book will fix your eyes on the finish line of life.
B ILL M C C ARTNEY
F OUNDER AND P RESIDENT , P ROMISE K EEPERS
FINISHING STRONG
published by Multnomah Publishers
A division of Random House, Inc.
1995 by Steve Farrar
eISBN: 978-0-307-77915-1
Most Scripture quotations are from:
New American Standard Bible
1960, 1977 by the Lockman Foundation
Also quoted:
The Holy Bible, New International Version ( NIV )
1973, 1984 by International Bible Society,
used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House
The Living Bible ( TLB )
1971 by Tyndale House Publishers
appeared in
If Im Not Tarzan, and My Wife Isnt Jane,
Then What Are We Doing in the Jungle?
an earlier, now out-of-print book by the author.
Multnomah is a trademark of Multnomah Publishers and is registered in the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office. The colophon is a trademark of Multnomah Publishers.
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To my brothers,
Mike Farrar
and
Jeff Farrar
We have been running this race together now for over forty years.
When one has tripped, there have been two to pick him up.
And thats the best part of this race.
Were running in it together.
We were given a great start.
Lets have a strong finish.
Together.
Thank you for your encouragement.
Its great to have brothers who are brothers.
CONTENTS
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
BASKETBALL, FOOTBALL, AND BASEBALL ARE TEAM SPORTSAND SO IS WRITING a book. And there are some valuable members of this team who should be specifically put into the spotlight.
Simply put, Larry Libby is a superb editor. This is our third project together, and once again, Larry showed his stuff. Thanks, Larry, for your tireless work and ceaseless encouragement.
Thanks also to David Kopp, who provided some very timely direction and focus! Way to go, Dave!
My brother-in-law, Bryan Owens, did a great job of overseeing the ministry side of things so that I could channel my energies into this book.
Thanks to Dr. Howard Hendricks for his willingness to plug in some significant data that enabled me to shape the central premise of this book. And I am indebted to Dr. Robert Clinton for taking the time in several phone conversations to summarize his substantial studies of over nine hundred Christian leaders.
Dr. Charlie Dyer, professor of Old Testament at Dallas Theological Seminary, also lent his biblical expertise on more than one occasion. Thanks, Charlie! Ill buy you a Diet Dr. Pepper in Jerusalem when we make that Israel trip!
Dave Roper introduced me to Manasseh and Uzziah a long time ago at Peninsula Bible Church. Much of what I have written is gleaned from Daves great studies of twenty-five years ago.
Jim Litchfield, Mario Zandstra, Ken Sibley, Pat Hamner, Mike Farrar, and John Bethany all took their valuable time to read assorted drafts and offer critical input. Thanks, gentlemen!
My in-laws, Carl and Sara Jo Wilson, made some significant personal sacrifices out of their own schedules to help make this book a reality, and I am grateful to them.
At our house, writing a book is always a family effort. Mary, Rachel, John, and Josh all made significant personal sacrifices to enable me to write. Especially toward the end of the project when I got irritable because I was trying to finish strong! Thanks for putting up with me. You are the four earthly reasons why I want to finish strong.
P ART O NE
THE
PRIORITY OF
FINISHING
STRONG
C HAPTER O NE
ONE OUT OF TEN
Truth is heavy, so few men carry it.
J EWISH P ROVERB
THE YEAR 1994 WAS A GREAT YEAR FOR THE NBA DRAFT. Three players emerged from the 94 draft who were destined for greatness: Grant Hill, Jason Kidd, and Glenn Robinson. Its a rare year when there are three young players available who single-handedly can turn a franchise around. But 94 was one of those years.
Hill impacted Detroit, Kidd revolutionized the Dallas Mavericks, and Robinson made Milwaukee a potential threat to every team in the league. And when it came time to give the Rookie of the Year award, for only the third time in NBA history the voting was tied. As a result, Jason Kidd and Grant Hill were named Co-Rookies of the Year. And Robinson was right behind them in the balloting, breathing down their necks.