Almost There reads like a long-awaited letter from a long-lost friend. Its immersive, as the best kind of storytelling should be. Its honest and warm, as the best kinds of friends are. DiFelice writes about home as its lived and lost and loved. Her book is a rewarding read!
JEN POLLOCK MICHEL
Author of Teach Us to Want: Longing, Ambition, and the Life of Faith and Keeping Place: Reflections on the Meaning of Home
If youve ever left something behind, youll find a friend in Bekah DiFelice as she invites you on a quest to find home. Bekah shares her adventures (and misadventures), helping us all discover that even transplanted roots can go deep.
CATHERINE MCNIEL
Author of Long Days of Small Things: Motherhood as a Spiritual Discipline
Among the stories and thoughts that Bekah DiFelice shares in her debut book are her joyful passion and earnest quest to live life fully. Almost There is packed with so many relatable themes, including fear, longing, doubt, and identity. Bekahs story will not only help you discover big and small pieces of your own story but will also encourage and inspire you to pursue your own new adventures, wherever you are. A beautiful storyteller whose heart for God and family shines, Bekah gives us all a gift of light and love in Almost There.
JESSICA N. TURNER
Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
Are we there yet? No, not until you pick up this book and start reading. I expected to skim through these pages, on the way to somewhere else. I had to stop. And laugh. And savor. And wonder. This is a trip I hope many take, because Bekah DiFelice brilliantly shows us where to finally hang our hatsand our hearts.
LESLIE LEYLAND FIELDS
Author of Crossing the Waters: Following Jesus through the Storms, the Fish, the Doubt, and the Seas
Bekah DiFelice writes beautifully and profoundly about our longing for and journey toward a true sense of home. This book is for all who are yearning for a belonging deeper than this world can offer. When I read the middle sections of Almost There, I was at that time overwhelmed by a family crisis and was feeling desperate, orphaned, and lost. Bekahs chapters on fear and on faith and doubt reached out to my brokenness... and I began to stumble back to my true home where my Abba was waiting with his secure love. Wherever you are in your pilgrimage, Almost There will meet you and embrace you, and it will provide intimate, heartfelt companionship for the rest of your journey.
J. KEVIN BUTCHER
Author of Choose and Choose Again: The Brave Act of Returning to Gods Love
Our path to maturity in Christ is often accelerated when we find ourselves dealing with change that is thrust upon us rather than chosen. Through the lens of military life, and with animated style, young wife Bekah chronicles life on the move for herself and her husband, Mike. With her captivating take on the unexpected elements she found embedded in marriage, moving, injury, deployment, and pregnancy, Bekah enlists us to share in her inmost responses of faith. Her story is an enjoyable read that touches the deep places of faith many young women experience.
DANA YEAKLEY
Author of The Gentle Art of Discipling Women: Nurturing Authentic Faith in Ourselves and Others
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For my neighborhood and the transient military community within, especially the fellow moms who congregated at the park with me every afternoon.
By the time you read this, we will have moved away, which seems appropriate, somehow. May you discover the richness of home in every place you are and find friends that become family as you were to us for the brief time our addresses aligned.
For most of my life I have wondered if I belonged somewhere else. I imagined that alternative versions of myself existed in places I hadnt yet been, that unknown lands were the key to self-improvement, enhanced social skills, and better skin. From the vantage point of my hometown, I thought that if I could just linger in a foreign countryyou know, develop an accent or climb the right mountain or stumble into the right place at the right timeI might encounter the best-case scenario of my life. I thought that if I could get to the right location, I would finally arrive where I belong.
This sensation of belonging is what Ive come to think of as homea feeling of being inwardly settled, as if your soul gets to sink into a couch with deep cushions after a long day of being on its feet. Each of us has a deeply personal concept of home. Its an intimate place by nature, and often one difficult to describe.