PRAISE FOR
You Are Not Your Brain
A testament to mind over brain.... Its the truth of the matter that sheer willpower can truly make you break free.
Leonardo DiCaprio
Operating on the highly rational perspective that we are not our brains but rather substantial free agents who exercise control over our brains, Schwartz and Gladding develop a simple yet profoundly insightful approach for developing a flourishing life. The result is truly life-giving, and it will bring healing and hope to all who read it and practice its wisdom.
J. P. Moreland, author of The God Question
How can the brain, which is just a complex network of interconnected nerve cells, give rise to consciousness and to thought? Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz and Dr. Rebecca Gladding argue, persuasively, that the mind actually has massive causal effects on the functioning of the brain. In other words, you can not only change the way you think, feel, and behave through conscious effort when youre upset, but you can also change the programming and chemistry of your brain. A compelling and important message.
David D. Burns, M.D., author of Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy
The idea that we can deliberately and systematically change our brains with our minds was once thought ridiculous. But now, largely due to Jeffrey Schwartz and his UCLA research on neuroplasticity and OCD, this once revolutionary idea is well accepted. Rebecca Gladding and Jeffrey Schwartz adapt Schwartzs extraordinarily successful program for a mainstream audience, giving simple, self-directed tools to help achieve greater happiness, emotional balance, and overall well-being.
Susan Kaiser Greenland, author of The Mindful Child
The book You Are Not Your Brain will be very helpful to those who want to improve their outlook on life and enhance their quality of life. As this book shows, and most every musician knows, You Are Not Your Brain. The Heart and the Spirit are the source of real creativity. The brain is a vehicle to express that creativity.
Kenny Burrell, jazz guitarist, National Endowment for the Arts Jazz Master Professor of Music and Ethnomusicology, UCLA
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Schwartz, Jeffrey, date.
You are not your brain : the 4-step solution for changing bad habits, ending unhealthy thinking, and taking control of your life / Jeffrey Schwartz and Rebecca Gladding.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-1-58333-426-3
1. Behavior modification. 2. Habit breaking. 3. Brain. 4. Change (Psychology). I. Gladding, Rebecca. II. Title.
BF637.B4S35 2011 2011006684
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ISBN 978-1-58333-483-6 (paperback edition)
ISBN 978-1-101-51611-9 (eBook edition)
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To my mom, who has been my biggest advocate and allyI couldnt have written this without you; and in memory of my grandmothers, Bertha E. Dow and Virginia Gladding
Rebecca Gladding
To the people of Pacific Crossroads Church
Jeffrey M. Schwartz
To all in need of faith, hope, love, and courage
CONTENTS
Habit, if not resisted, soon becomes necessity.
Saint Augustine
INTRODUCTION
T here are only a few true necessities in life, but for many of us, it doesnt feel that way. A lifetime of habits, ingrained by repetition, can seemingly make us slaves to a not always beneficial masterour own brain.
Nothing is more confusing or painful than when your brain takes over your thoughts, attacks your self-worth, questions your abilities, overpowers you with cravings, or attempts to dictate your actions. Have you ever felt that something is compelling you to go places, mentally or emotionally, where you dont want to be? Do you find yourself acting in uncharacteristic ways or doing things you dont really want to be doing?
The reason is simple: Deceptive brain messages have intruded into your psyche and taken over your life. Left to its own devices, your brain can cause you to believe things that are not true and to act in any number of self-destructive ways, such as:
- Overthinking problems and fretting over things that are out of your control