Praise for
Spoken For
Spoken For is the kind of book every Christian teenage girl wants to read: a perfect mixture of truth and love story and Jesus and humor. Robin and Alyssa have practically written the handbook for every young woman looking to understand how God feels about them.
A NNIE D OWNS , author of Speak Love
Spoken For is filled with life-changing truths that will help you discover, strengthen, or reclaim your true identity. This book will teach you how to embrace the person God has created you to be a must-read for every young woman who longs to know her true value, beauty, and purpose.
A LLIE M ARIE S MITH , founder of Wonderfully Made
I highly recommend this relevant and essential book to any young woman trying to understand romantic relationships, navigating her way through the dating world, or even considering marriage. Robin and Alyssa are candid, thoughtful, and wise as they share personal stories and universal truths. A great tool for mothers and daughters, book clubs, and youth groups.
M ELODY C ARLSON , author of the TrueColors series
Robin and Alyssa have delivered such a timely and beautiful truth in this book! As daughters of the King, we are loved to the core by the One who will never leave or fail us. We are never forgotten, pushed aside, or up for anyones taking, but we are covered and pursued by Jesus.
R EBEKAH L YONS , author of Freefall to Fly
Alyssa and Robin have written a book that is so tender and true, full of encouragement for all of us as we try to understand the love of the Savior. You will walk away from this book changed for the better and celebrating the fact that you are truly loved by the One who knows you best, the One who created you with a plan and a purpose.
M ELANIE S HANKLE , New York Times best-selling author of Sparkly Green Earrings
What makes Spoken For unique is the authors ability to internalize and understand that we are in the midst of a divine love story! Alyssa and Robin casually and eloquently remind us not only of who we are but whose we are and that we are wanted, loved, and spoken for.
B IANCA O LTHOFF , speaker, teacher, and chief storyteller for the antihuman trafficking organization The A21 Campaign
In Spoken For, Robins and Alyssas gentle honesty and personal stories made me feel as if we were out having coffee together and talking about our love for the Lord. This book is a perfect reminder of how great his love is for us and how sweetly he cares for us.
E RYNN M ANGUM , author of Paige Torn
Anytime two unique voices come together with a unified message, there is power in it. Robin and Alyssa have different perspectives and life stages, but both have experienced Gods relentless love and now want to give it away. Spoken For will help you remember your infinite worth because of Jesus Christ and what potential abounds if you will only embrace it.
J ENNIE A LLEN , founder of the IF:Gathering and author of Restless
S POKEN FOR
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eBook ISBN 978-1-60142-598-0
Copyright 2014 by Robins Nest Productions Inc. and Alyssa Joy Bethke
Cover design by Mark D. Ford; photography by Benj Haisch
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Gunn, Robin Jones, 1955
Spoken for : embracing who you are and whose you are / Robin Jones Gunn and Alyssa Joy Bethke. First Edition.
pages cm
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 978-1-60142-597-3 ISBN 978-1-60142-598-0 (electronic) 1. Identity (Psychology)Religious aspectsChristianity. 2. God (Christianity)Love. 3. Gunn, Robin Jones, 1955- 4. Bethke, Alyssa Joy. I. Bethke, Alyssa Joy. II. Title.
BV4509.5.G83 2014
248.4dc23
2013045130
v3.1_r1
From Robin:
To all my nieces: Amanda, Ashley, Alyssa, Katherine,
Hannah, Karen, Susi, Gabi, and Sami.
May you always remember who you are
and whose you are.
You are deeply loved by the One who created you,
more than you will ever know.
From Alyssa:
To Jeff: Thank you for showing me
how God is the Relentless Lover
through your unending and gracious love.
To my mentors: Mom, Amy, Dani, Robin, Jill, and Jeri.
Thank you for teaching and showing me that we are spoken for
and that his love is truly the greatest of all.
Contents
An Epic Love StoryYours
One bright April morning Alyssa and I (Robin) were busy in my kitchen preparing food for a youth event at church. All the windows were open. A gentle breeze cooled us. The television was on in the background, but we werent paying much attention. I reached for the remote to turn it off but accidentally changed the channel.