PRAISE FOR PROFESSIONAL TROUBLEMAKER
As an oft-scared chickenhead who cares too much about what others think, its so comforting to be guided through my own crippling fear and self-doubt by one of the bravest, most incisively honest, hysterical voices I know. This book was so real and relatable, and so much of it had me belly laughing. This is the essential manual for anybody who is ready to take that leap of faith to bet on the best, uninhibited, whole version of themselves.
Issa Rae, actor, producer, creator ofInsecure, andNew York Timesbestselling author
This book is a manual on HOW TO HUMAN. You could spend a lifetime and fortune finding the perfect therapist, mentor, minister, career coach, and girlfriendor you could just spend a day reading Professional Troublemaker. This bookLuvvie Ajayi Joness most helpful, bold, vulnerable, hilarious, and relevant work yetis equal parts catharsis and wake-up call, both comforting and galvanizing. I laughed and cried so hard that my family asked me to read in the other room. With her razor-sharp mind, soul on fire, and heart of gold, Luvvie is the writer and artist the world needs right now. This will be my go-to gift for all the beloved troublemakers in my life.
Glennon Doyle, author of the #1New York TimesbestsellerUntamedand founder of Together Rising
Theres nobody quite like Luvvie Ajayi Jones. Shes a force and a powerhouse, the thunder and the lightningand Professional Troublemaker shows us exactly how she got that way. This is a great book about reaching deep down inside yourself, crushing your fears, unleashing your too muchness, and giving yourself permission to shake the world. In a voice that is funny, wise, bold, and always generous, Luvvie encourages, inspires, and dares us to follow our dreams, fight against injustice, soak up the pleasures of life, and take up all the space in the room. If this book doesnt make you feel bolder and braver by the final page, then you werent reading it right. I loved every passionate word of it.
Elizabeth Gilbert,New York Timesbestselling author ofBig MagicandEat, Pray, Love
Whether you are traversing new territory, bounding back from perceived failure, or learning for the first time how to own the full power of your own voice, Luvvies Fear-Fighting Manual is the pep talk we all need. Delivered in her singular voice and signature shade, this must-read is chock-full of gems that will guide you out of your own way so you can get more out of your lifea life that is more interesting than one lived in fear.
Elaine Welteroth, journalist andNew York Timesbestselling author ofMore Than Enough
This book is a comfort and a challenge. It inspires, encourages, heartens, and invigorates in equal measure. You should read it.
Jenny Lawson,New York Timesbestselling author ofFuriously HappyandLets Pretend This Never Happened
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I dedicate this book to my nieces and nephews, Dejah, Destiny, Tooni, Obafemi, Darius, Kami, David. I hope you all move through this world with courage, knowing that you deserve everything good.
Contents
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Introduction:
Make Good Trouble
I am a professional troublemaker. And if youre reading this, I hope you are a RISING professional troublemaker, or you will become one.
What is a professional troublemaker, you ask?
A professional troublemaker is not the person who brings chaos into any room they are in. That person is a troll. A professional troublemaker is not someone who speaks just to hurt someone elses feelings. That person is a hater. A professional troublemaker is not someone who wants to disagree with people just because they wanna play devils advocate. That person is a contrarian, and Satan never told anyone he needed a supervisor, so Im not sure why so many people volunteer for the position.
A professional troublemaker is someone who knows this world can be better than it currently is and is committed to being a part of the positive change. Theyre the person who is constantly wondering why people refuse to do better. They are the person who is themselves, without apology. As a writer, a speaker, and a shady Nigerian, I am the person who is giving the side-eye to folks for doing trash things. I am the person who cant keep quiet when I feel cheated. I am the person who says what folks are thinking and feeling but dare not say because theyre afraid of how people will take it. My first book is even called Im Judging You: The Do-Better Manual.
While a professional troublemaker isnt someone who creates chaos or crises, they do understand that chaos can come from being honest and authentic and going against the tide. Because in a world that insists on our cooperation even in the face of constant turmoil, not standing for it makes you a rebel. Professional troublemakers deal with it because they have a reason that is dear to their hearts. They are often sharp-tongued and misunderstood but always golden-hearted. A professional troublemaker is committed to speaking the truth and showing up always as themselves, and being proud of who they are, even as the world tells them they shouldnt be. To be a troublemaker is to be a disruptor working for the greater good. Its to be a changemaker. I think about the late, great congressman John Lewis, who challenged us with Never, ever be afraid to make some noise and get in good trouble, necessary trouble. We must take up those arms.
People often ask me how I am confident in who I am, and how I have the nerve to say what I say. Ive always shrugged and said I dont remember not being this person. Whenever I got in trouble when I was little, it was usually for my mouth. Being a Nigerian gal, I come from a culture that prioritizes age when it comes to giving respect, but that never sat well with me. That is why Little Luvvie got punished, usually for telling someone older that she didnt like what they were saying or doing.