Alice Fryling - Aging Faithfully: The Holy Invitation of Growing Older

I thank God for Aging Faithfully. It is a book for you regardless of your age, for the truth of the matter is, we are all aging... every single one of us. Alice Fryling lovingly leads us through the ups and downs, the losses and the treasures we experience in the interior chambers of our soul throughout our aging. I recommend Alice Fryling as a reliable and faithful guide through this multifaceted adventure of aging.

RICHARD J. FOSTER, author of Celebration of Discipline and Sanctuary of the Soul

This lovely book is full of wisdom, encouragement, and hard-won insights from one who knows whereof she speaks. And questions... the questions alone are worth the price of the book, helping us enter the depths of what God has for us in this stage of our human journey! The bad news is that we all need this book or will need it eventually. The good news is that with Alice as our companion, we can experience aging as a season rich with holy invitations from God leading to immense satisfaction, if we can stop resisting those invitations and just say yes!

RUTH HALEY BARTON, founder of Transforming Center, author of Sacred Rhythms

Age alone does not equal spiritual, emotional, or relational maturity. Our world is filled with adolescent, false-self, immature older adults who need the biblical wisdom, relational maturity, and graced fortitude of Alice Fryling. By prayerfully embracing our holy losses, hidden in the cross of Christ, we are ready to receive our holy invitations, advancing the Kingdom of heaven. The end-of-chapter reflections and the rich appendices are icing on this delicious piece of literary cake. Thank you, Alice!

STEPHEN A. MACCHIA, founder and president of Leadership Transformations

Getting older is one of lifes journeys few of us sign up for but all of us must take. In Aging Faithfully, Alice Fryling draws from her decades of experience as a wise spiritual guide to equip us for this holy adventure. Reading Alices book brought me closer to the truth that God has given me everything I need to age not only faithfully but joyfully.

PEGGY WEHMEYER, former ABC News correspondent, grandmother of five

As we move into our sixties and beyond, we experience a profound silence. The voices of our mentors are gone. Those from whom we received direction and encouragement are silenced at a time when we need their help the most. Aging Faithfully speaks directly into that silent space. For those of us who long to live faithfully into maturity, this book provides direction, new possibilities, and needed encouragement. These are meant to be the most fruitful years of our lives!

MICHAEL CARD, musician, author, teacher

Alice Fryling has uncovered the secrets as to why some grow older with grace and joy while others are defeated by the inevitable losses. Her wisdom brings hope and laughter! She quotes Psalm 92, which tells how the righteous can still bear fruit in old age and be always green and full of sap! This isnt just a book for the elderly; its also for those who love them.

DEE BRESTIN, author of Falling in Love with Jesus and He Calls You Beautiful

In this age-denying culture, thank God for Alice Fryling! She is a wise, warm, honest, and companionable guide who shows us that the liminal space of aging can bring unexpected growth and freedoms. Page by page, she gently corrects our nearsightedness, replacing it with beautiful, biblical ways to become more fruitful even as we become less productive. As the years pass, I know I will reach for this book again and again.

LESLIE LEYLAND FIELDS, editor of The Wonder Years: Forty Women Over Forty on Aging, Faith, Beauty, and Strength

Today, over ten thousand people in the United States will turn sixty-five. Very few are prepared for what lies ahead, both the incredible opportunities and the inevitable losses. Alice Fryling, in Aging Faithfully, is a wise and vulnerable guide who invites us to join her on a journey into deeper meaning and truer flourishing. This is an excellent book for people in the third third of life and for those who love them.

MARK D. ROBERTS, P H D, senior strategist, Max De Pree Center for Leadership at Fuller Seminary

The apostle Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:12 that we can see eternity as though were looking at it through a dim mirror. The final movement of our lives carries with it the opportunity to move closer to that mirror, where the light and shadows of old age present to us an image of God, ourselves, and others that weve not been able to fully behold at earlier stages of our lives. Alice Frylings gentle, honest writing illumines the losses, questions, fears, and longings we carry with us into the aging process. Aging Faithfully is a trustworthy guide to the light and shadows of our final stage of life on earth with honesty, offering us a gracious and hopeful sense of the welcome that awaits us on the other side of that dim mirror.

MICHELLE VAN LOON, author of Becoming Sage: Cultivating Meaning, Purpose, and Spirituality in Midlife

In Aging Faithfully: The Holy Invitation of Growing Older, Alice Fryling takes the reader on a journey from a frank look at the losses that accompany aging to hope and purpose in our later years. The processing questions at the end of each chapter will be valuable to anyone as they anticipate or experience the losses and joys of those years.

JOE BERNARDY, director of Navigators Encore

I have been waiting for such a book as this because even as our bodies age, our desire for a life with meaning and connections does not. Fryling invites us to embrace all the wonder and possibilities of each day in communion with our changing bodies. With wit and grace wedded to unadorned realities, Fryling spiritually guides us to the gift of growing old in and with Christ. She closes the book with spiritual wisdom for finding peace in uselessness, loneliness, brokenness, and our last season, and I found myself weeping. This book touches the soul for those of us who want to flourish and not wither till our final breath is given up. Thank you, Alice, for your faithfulness.

MARYKATE MORSE, author, executive dean of Portland Seminary

Aging Faithfully provides a road map for trusting and growing in Christ through the changing seasons of our lives. Alice Fryling encourages her readers through Scripture, stories, and personal anecdotes. She provides dedicated space for reflection and meditation where readers can record their own thoughts in response to her writing prompts. It is a beautiful book; I recommend it.

SHIRLEY V. HOOGSTRA, JD, president of Council for Christian Colleges & Universities

You know youre reading an excellent book when you have your highlighter out, marking numerous passages for further reflection, while at the same time jotting down names of friends who will benefit as well. Aging Faithfully is just such a resource. With tempered wisdom, empathy, and the navigational skills of a seasoned spiritual director, Alice Fryling takes us through the liminal space that is the aging process, helping readers reframe elderhood as a new stage to anticipate growth and fruitfulness.

MAGGIE WALLEM ROWE, author of This Life We Share

Wow. After reading the book, I began to realize, for the first time, that aging is part of Gods plan for me. As I embrace that, I see that there are treasures, invitations, and blessings ahead that I did not expect.

MICHAEL A. WHITNEY, senior pastor of First Baptist Church, Freeport, Maine