PRAISE FOR
Kingdom Marriage
One of the major pillars of our research at the National Center for Fathering is modeling. Tony and Lois are not only great communicators on the message of marriage, they truly model kingdom marriage. I love how Tony defines kingdom marriage as, connecting Gods purpose with your pleasure. This book is a most excellent blueprint for building a strong marriage and God loves marriage.
CAREY AND MELANIE CASEY
National Center for Fathering
What exactly does it mean to have a kingdom perspective on marriage? Dr. Tony Evans answers that question with pastoral insight and biblical wisdom in this engaging new book. Kingdom Marriage is essential reading for husbands and wives who want to make their relationship the best it can be for the sake of the Kingdom.
DR. GREG SMALLEY
Vice president of Marriage and Family Formation, Focus on the Family
In the midst of a cultural battle on marriage, Dr. Tony Evans has clearly identified the importance of reorienting our hearts toward Gods kingdom. This fresh biblical perspective is like a much needed realignment for our relationships.
TIM POPADIC
President, Relationship Enrichment Collaborative and executive producer of the Date Night Comedy Tour
Kingdom Marriage is a book thatll influence my own marriage for a very long time! When it comes to our marriage, theres so much more going on than meets the eye. Pastor Evans unveils scripturally so much of what we cannot see, and he does it in a way that somehow leaves you convicted but motivated to act, all at the same time. Get the angels summoned on your behalf. Find the true purpose of what your marriage was meant to be. Be more fulfilled in your marriage than you ever dreamed possible. Thats a legacy worth leaving to your kids.
JOSHUA STRAUB, PH.D.
Author, Safe House: How Emotional Safety Is the Key to Raising Kids Who Live, Love, and Lead Well
Tony Evans is without a doubt truly one of the greatest communicators of the twentieth and twenty-first centuries! The reason he speaks and writes so well is because his heart is 100 percent committed to serving Jesus and making Him known to the world. I highly recommend this book because any part of Tony Evans that you or I can receive will make us a much better person, a better spouse, and a greater person of knowing a relationship with Jesus Christ.
JOE WHITE
President, Kanakuk Ministries
I daresay Kingdom Marriage will be unlike any marriage book youve read all year. Ninety percent of marriage books focus on the human element; Kingdom Marriage takes you where very few marriage books go: straight into the spiritual realm. Dr. Tony Evans talks about spiritual warfare, spiritual purpose, spiritual strongholds, and much, much more. If youve read fifty marriage books, you still need to read this one, as it is unlike all the others. The chapter on restoration alone is worth the price of the entire book. Masterfully done, prophetically alive, and biblically true, Kingdom Marriage is a tour de force for couples who want to become more spiritually aware in their marriage.
GARY THOMAS
Author, Sacred Marriage and A Lifelong Love
We love this book! Kingdom Marriage is perfect for couples like us who need to be reminded of the biblical, historical, and current truth about how marriage was designed by God. Every couple should read this book and give it as a gift to others they care about.
SCOTT AND BETHANY PALMER
The Money Couple
Whether you are engaged to be married or youve been married for sixty years, you should read this book with your spouse. Kingdom Marriage will give you the wisdom and practical insight to make your marriage what God intended it to be not just a social contract, but a sacred covenant.
RACHEL CRUZE
New York Times best-selling author and personal finance expert
Kingdom Marriage: Connecting Gods Purpose with Your Pleasure
2016 Tony Evans
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Names: Evans, Tony, 1949- author.
Title: Kingdom marriage : connecting Gods purpose with your pleasure / Dr. Tony Evans.
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This book is gratefully and lovingly dedicated to my wife, Lois, for all the love, support, skill, sacrifice, and encouragement she has given me. This has served as the foundation for all that God has allowed me to accomplish. You are most certainly the wind beneath my wings.
PART I