Lauren is an amazing woman who has overcome much through her faith in Jesus Christ. She is a dear friend of mine, and I admire how she views fears and the way she sees beauty. So much to learn from!
BETHANY HAMILTON
Pro surfer and author of Soul Surfer
I love it! This is a must-read for any young woman who desires confidence and authenticity. I was captivated by the real-life stories and was drawn into a clearer picture of what God truly cares about in each one of us our heart! Your Beautiful Heart delivers an intimate look at Gods view of true beauty. Readers will definitely grow closer to God through these pages.
SUSIE SHELLENBERGER
Speaker and author; SusieShellenberger.com
Get a copy of Your Beautiful Heart and prepare to be changed! You are about to become breathtakingly beautiful the never-fading, always-glowing beauty thats rooted in the truth of Gods love. Laurens fresh approach will prove that outer appearance does not define true beauty. It is all about your heart, the person you are on the inside. So get reading! As Laurens words and the Holy Spirit work together, your heart will become more beautiful, more loving, more forgiving, more free, more others-focused, more... well, just dive in. Youll see what I mean.
ANDREA STEPHENS
Author and founder of The B.A.B.E. Event: Beautiful, Accepted, Blessed, Eternally Significant
With grace, authenticity, and depth, Lauren shares her life in Your Beautiful Heart. She is a powerful voice in our culture, confidently leading young women down a path of true beauty and identity that is grounded in our identity in Christ. God is using Lauren in a powerful, culture-shifting way, and her impact on young women is making ripples that will last for generations to come.
KAT HARRIS
Photographer and founder of The Refined Woman blog
Lauren is an example of how Gods beauty shines best from brokenness. Her courage to share her story, paired with Lisas gift of writing, makes this an excellent resource for young women. It is also a great tool for youth leaders who want their students to experience what real beauty is.
LAURIE POLICH SHORT
Speaker and author of Finding Faith in the Dark
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Your Beautiful Heart: 31 Reflections on Love, Faith, Friendship, and Becoming a Girl Who Shines
Copyright 2015 by Lauren Scruggs
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Scruggs, Lauren.
Your beautiful heart : 31 reflections on love, faith, friendship, and becoming a girl who shines / Lauren Scruggs, with Lisa Velthouse.
pages cm
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 978-1-4143-7671-4 (sc)
1. Teenage girls Religious life. 2. Christian girls Religious life. 3. Beauty, Personal Religious aspects Christianity. 4. Self-perception in adolescence Religious aspects Christianity. I. Title.
BV4551.3.S37 2015
248.8 33 dc23 2014039389
Build: 2015-04-22 11:33:17
To all the women in my life who have shown me real beauty.
Thank you for putting Gods love on display.
Foreword
by Jason Kennedy
W hen I saw Lauren for the first time, two things stood out to me most.
The first was her confidence... and the second was her smile.
It was in the studio at E! News, where I work as a host. Lauren was there to do an interview with Giuliana Rancic about her accident. I had heard about Lauren and the tragedy that had taken her left eye and hand. As I watched her talk in person, laughing and sharing her story, I could tell: This is someone real. At the time, Lauren was in the thick of recovery, facing insecurities and uncertainties but she was finding the confidence to put herself out there because she knew it could help others. You couldnt miss how beautiful that was.
And even from across the studio, I noticed her smile. It was one of those smiles that, even on your worst day, would make you feel better. After such a terrible accident, Lauren could have chosen not to smile and to view the world with bitterness and pain. And yet she was smiling. I wanted to get to know the woman behind that smile.
That was our beginning. We went hiking with her mom and my friend the next day. Lauren lived in Dallas and I live in California, but we continued to talk or Skype every day afterward. I came to love Lauren because she is funny, smart, sweet, and considerate of everyone around her. She is thoughtful, always up for an adventure, and fits right in with the family and friends who are important to me. And shes quirky it makes me laugh that she keeps four different packs of gum in her purse at all times, just in case.
But what makes her truly beautiful to me is her heart, and thats what youll see on the pages of this book. We all have things we feel anxious about, things we wish we could change about our bodies or our personalities. Lauren is no different, but she doesnt let those things hold her back, because ultimately she knows who she is in Christ. As you read Your Beautiful Heart, your heart will become centered in Gods love for you. Youll discover confidence, true beauty, and the courage to smile. Lauren cares so deeply for others, and its because she cares for you that shes written this book. Your Beautiful Heart is a message straight from Laurens heart to yours. Im so glad youre not missing it.
Ive always been moved by Laurens story. Shes been through so much, and her whole life changed on the day of her accident. But then I think, So did mine. Without that day, I never would have met her, seen her gorgeous smile, or known her beautiful heart. I never would have filled her apartment with white tulips and lit candles outside her balcony that spelled Will you marry me? I dont know why God chose this path for us, but I cant help but be grateful that I got that chance to propose, that Lauren said yes, and that I will be able to spend the rest of my life with a woman who is truly beautiful not just on the outside, but in every way that matters most.
Introduction
An Imprint for Your Heart
Beauty is on the inside. Ive believed this for as long as I can remember, but it wasnt until recently that I began to grasp the magnificent, powerful, gut-wrenching depth of what it means.