Endorsements
Its all herethe hope, the encouragement, and the hand you want to hold when youre facing loss and struggling to move on. Growing Forward When You Cant Go Back is invaluable to women who feel lost and alone. Lauries stories are heartwarming; her perspective of biblical women is fresh and unique; and her Blossom Tips are useful and creative. Theres something for every woman in this book.
Michelle Medlock Adams, award-winning author of more than 80 books, including her latest, Fabulous & Focused: Daily Devotions for Women Who Work
Deftly weaving biblical truths with practical, accessible advice and compelling personal stories, Laurie Pawlik invites us into a life-changing journey forward from loss, disappointment, and brokenness toward healing, growth, and, ultimately, profound transformation. As you immerse yourself in Lauries compassionate authenticity and allow yourself to soak up her grace-filled, real-life advice, youll come away from Growing Forward with new hoperefreshed, renewed, and prepared to walk into the next season of your life.
Michelle DeRusha, author of True You: Letting Go of Your False Self to Uncover the Person God Created
Laurie Pawlik has created a treasure of a book that will help women move out of the pain and despair they have experienced, into a season of wellness and growth. I love how she has blended her own losses with the studies of various biblical charactersyou feel as though you have a friend with you as you all are journeying together . Growing Forward When You Can t Go Back is an excellent choice for individual reflection or small-group study.
Janet Holm McHenry, bestselling author of 23 books, including The Complete Guide to the Prayers of Jesus
Laurie Pawlik is the master of writing with transparency and compassion, gently offering practical steps for healing our souls soil from yesterdays pain. Growing Forward When You Can t Go Back is a must-read for those of us desiring to thrive and blossom in our next best season of life!
LaTan Murphy, author of Courageous Women of the Bible
No matter whats happened in your past, it doesnt have to hold you back any longer. Laurie Pawlik offers practical tips for stepping forward into all that God has for you.
Joanna Weaver, bestselling author of Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World
Laurie is amazingly transparent as she shares from personal experience and Scripture, showing what it takes to grow forward when going back is not an option. If you are stuck, discouraged, or hopeless, applying the helpful tools shared in the Blossom Tips sections will enable you to bloom once more.
Georgia Shaffer, professional certified coach, PA licensed psychologist, and author of A Gift of Mourning Glories: Restoring Your Life after Loss
Laurie Pawlik has written a book for any woman who finds herself in a season of unexpected change or loss. She artfully weaves together the painful threads of her own life with biblical truth and the examples found in holy women from Eve to Mary. In the end, she not only shows us that growth is always possible, but gives excellent ways to enable and accelerate it in our lives. Growing Forward will inspire you to do just that.
Bo Stern, author, teaching pastor, Westside Church, Bend, Oregon
Half Title
Title Page
Copyright Page
2019 by Laurie Kienlen
Published by Bethany House Publishers
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Dedication
This book is dedicated to you, dear reader.
May you find peace and joy
in this season of your life.
May you grow forward
and Blossom
into who God created you to be. With His Love,
Laurie
She Blossoms
Contents
Cover
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Growing Forward
1. Re-creating and Replanting with Eve
Spirit BlossomThe Promise
Heart BlossomOn the Mend
Soul BlossomBittersweet
Body BlossomUphill Backward
Brain BlossomFill-in-the-Blanks
2. Sprouting with Sarah
Spirit BlossomThe Retreat
Heart BlossomYour Impact
Soul BlossomJar of Blossoms
Body BlossomLove Notes
Brain BlossomSmart Decisions
3. Digging Deeper with Hagar
Spirit BlossomA Time for Everything
Heart BlossomThe Letter
Soul BlossomRisk
Body BlossomTurn-Around
Brain BlossomMind Map
Spirit BlossomNose-to-Nose
Heart BlossomSurprise!
Soul BlossomFriends
Body BlossomChange of Identity
Brain BlossomChange Your Mind
5. Starting Fresh with Ruth
Spirit BlossomThe Next Step
Heart BlossomOpen Doors
Soul BlossomInterdependence
Body BlossomThe 80/20 Rule
Brain BlossomWrite Back
6. Growing Roots with Martha and Mary
Spirit BlossomRegifting
Heart BlossomDont You Care?
Soul BlossomHallelujah Anyway
Body BlossomBumpy
Brain BlossomBucket of Energy
7. Reviving Your Heart with Hannah
Spirit BlossomVegas
Heart BlossomBasket of Blossoms
Soul BlossomPraying in Color
Body BlossomMemory Lane
Brain BlossomUnder the B
Spirit BlossomWhat Then?
Heart BlossomYour Secrets
Soul BlossomGods Secrets
Body BlossomFast Times
Brain BlossomLabels
9. Growing Forward with Mary Magdalene
Spirit BlossomSeeds
Heart BlossomKindred Spirits
Soul BlossomOpen Hands
Body BlossomManna
Brain BlossomRegoaling
10. Blossoming into Life with Mary
Spirit BlossomSaying Yes
Heart BlossomBecoming You