Little Books of Guidance
Finding answers to lifes big questions!
Also in the series:
How Do I Pray? by John Pritchard
What Does It Mean to Be Holy Whole? by Timothy F. Sedgwick
Why Suffering? by Ian S. Markham
How to Be a Disciple and Digital by Karekin M. Yarian
What Is Christianity? by Rowan Williams
Who Was Jesus? by James D. G. Dunn
Why Go to Church? by C. K. Robertson
How Can Anyone Read the Bible? by L. William Countryman
What Happens When We Die? by Thomas G. Long
What About Sex? by Tobias Stanislas Haller, BSG
What Do We Mean by God? by Keith Ward
The Way of Love: Turn
The Way of Love: Learn
The Way of Love: Pray
The Way of Love: Worship
The Way of Love: Bless
The Way of Love: Go
THE WAY
OF LOVE
Rest
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This book compiles text from the following sources:
Amy Sander Montanez, Moment to Moment: The Transformative Power of Everyday Life (Harrisburg, PA: Morehouse Publishing, 2013); Stephen Cottrell, Do Nothing to Change Your Life: Discovering What Happens When You Stop (New York: Seabury Press, 2007); Rene Miller, Strength for the Journey: A Guide to Spiritual Practice (Harrisburg, PA: Morehouse Publishing, 2011); The Spirituality of Everyday Life by Cecilia Andrews and Entering the Emptiness by Gerald May in Simpler Living, Compassionate Life: A Christian Perspective, ed. Michael Schut (Denver: Church Publishing, 1999).
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I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lords holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledgethat you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
Ephesians 3:1719, NIV
At the 79th General Convention of the Episcopal Church in July 2018, Presiding Bishop Michael B. Curry called the Church to practice The Way of Love. This is an invitation to all of us, young and old alike, to grow more deeply with Jesus Christ at the center of our lives, so we can bear witness to his way of love in and for the world.
With this call, Bishop Curry named seven practices that can help us grow deeper in our relationship with God, Jesus, and our neighbors as we also learn how to live into our baptismal promises more fully. In todays world of busy schedules, hurried meals, and twenty-four-hour news cycles, it is now more imperative that we make and take the time to center ourselves and follow the way of Jesus. This might mean revisioning and reshaping the pattern and rhythm of our daily lifefinding a slice of time to center our thoughts on Jesus. Within these pages you will find ideas to engage in the practice of rest as you walk on The Way of Love: Practices for a Jesus-Centered Life.
To be a Christian is to be a seeker. We seek love: to know Gods love, to love, and to be loved by others. It also means learning to love ourselves as a child of God. We seek freedom from the many forces that pull us from living as God created us to be: sin, fear, oppression, and division. God desires us to be dignified, whole, and free. We also seek abundant life. This is a life that is overflowing with joy, peace, generosity, and delight. It is a life where there is enough for all because we share with abandon. We seek a life of meaning, giving back to God and living for others and not just for ourselves. Ultimately we seek Jesus. Jesus is the way of love and that has the power to change lives and change the world.
How are we called to practice the Way of Love? Bishop Curry has named seven practices to follow. Like a Rule of Life practiced by Christians for almost two thousand years, these are ways that help us live intentionally in our daily life, following our deepest values. These are not add-ons to our day, but ways to recognize God working in us and through us.
Jesus teaches us to come before God with humble hearts, boldly offering our thanksgivings and concerns to God or simply listening for Gods voice in our lives and in the world. Whether in thought, word, or deed, individually or corporately, when we pray we invite and dwell in Gods loving presence. Jesus often removed himself from the crowds to quiet himself and commune with God. He gave us examples of how to pray, including the Lords Prayer. Will you continue in the prayers? I will with Gods help.
Practices are challenging and can be difficult to sustain. Even though we might practice solo (e.g., prayer), each practice belongs to the community as a whole in which you inhabit as a wholeyour family, church, or group of friends. Join with some trustworthy companions with whom to grow into this way of life; sharing and accountability help keep us grounded and steady in our practices.
This series of seven Little Books of Guidance is designed for you to discover how following certain practices can help you follow Jesus more fully in your daily life. You may already keep a spiritual discipline of praying at meals or before bed, regularly reading from the Bible, or engaging in acts of kindness toward others. If so, build upon what we offer here; if not, we offer a way to begin. Select one of the practices that interests you or that is especially important for you at this time. Watch for signs in your daily life pointing you toward a particular practice. Listen for a call from God telling you how to move closer. Anywhere is a good place to start. This is your invitation to commit to the practices of TurnLearnPrayWorshipBlessGoRest. There is no rush, each day is a new beginning. Follow Bishop Currys call to grow in faith following the loving, liberating, life-giving way of Jesus. His way has the power to change each of our lives and to change this world.
My only understanding of Sabbath as a child came from the commandment, Remember the Sabbath day, and keep it holy (Exodus 20:8). I believed that meant to go to church on Sundays, the Sabbath. We did our chores on Saturday, so we didnt have much house or yard work to do on Sundays, but I had no real idea about Sabbath. I did homework if it needed doing and Mom was still cooking meals. When I was a teenager I went back to church Sunday evenings for youth group, and some Sundays I got to church at 9:00 a.m. and, other than grabbing lunch, I stayed there for basketball games, cheerleading practice, and then youth group. It was wonderful and holy busyness. It formed me, but it didnt teach me how to listen for Gods movement in my life, or how to allow for the Mystery in my life, or how to discern and separate my ego from Gods will. In other words, it didnt transform me.