CONTENTS
A CHANGING BALANCE
HAPPINESS
THE IMPORTANT
DISCOMFORT
PROVERBS
WASTE
LONELINESS AND SOLITUDE
KNOWING GOD
LIFELONG LEARNING
HONOR AND MORALITY
EXPERIMENTING WITH LIFE
FORGIVENESS
GOD-TALK
LYING
PROCRASTINATION
COMMUNICATION
HELLOS
LIFES TEACHERS
SPIRITUALITY
SUPPORT
SPIRITUAL BALANCE
PERSPECTIVE
DESTRUCTIVENESS
KNOWING THE SELF
CONGRUENCE
SCHEDULING
HUMOR
COMING UNGLUED
MIRRORS
TENDERNESS
LIVING EACH AGE
LAUGHTER
LISTS
CLOSED MINDS
BEING RIGHT
HATRED
THE WEATHER
TOSS, REFER, ACT, OR FILE
GOING INTO THE SILENCE
WORKAHOLISM
COOPERATION
COMPASSION
WHOLEHEARTEDNESS
STRUGGLING
KNOWING GOD
WORK AS MEDITATION
HABITS
HECKLING
HOME ALONE
CHILDRENENCHANTMENTVALIDATION
LOVE
FOOLING OURSELVES
OPPORTUNITIES
ONENESS
PEACE
BEING UNDERSTOOD
ARGUING
EATING
TIME
OUR SIMPLE COMPLEXITY
SELF-ACCEPTANCE
PUSHING OURSELVES
INTERRUPTIONS
SILENT, ALONE TIME
INDIVIDUALITY AND WHOLENESS
ACCIDENTS
COMPASSION
WEAKNESSHIGHER POWER
LOSS OF ILLUSIONS
OUR BODIES
PRAYERPATIENCE
HIGHER LEARNING
REGRETSCOURAGE
SIMPLIFY
EATING
BLAME
FEAR OF CHILDREN
INNOVATIONS
ILLUSIONS
DIGNITY
BEING A HOLLOW BONE
EXPANDING OURSELVES
SILENCE
EUPHEMISMS
PERSEVERANCE
MONEY
HEALTHBODIES
SELF-ESTEEMTRUTH
SELF-CENTEREDNESS
DIFFERENCES
MAKING ASSUMPTIONS
RELATIONSHIPS
SETTING LIMITS
PASSION
THE RIGHT TOOL FOR THE JOB
CIRCUMSTANCES
CHALLENGES TO BALANCE
ANIMALSPETS
JUDGMENTSJUDGMENTALISMCOMPASSION
WATER
LOSS
COMPASSION
PRAYER
GRIEF AND JOY
NATURE AS WISDOM
SHAPING AND BEING SHAPED BY OUR SPACE
DOUBLE-SPEAK
LISTENING
PARENTING
SELF-CENTEREDNESS
GOD DOES FOR US WHAT WE CANNOT DO FOR OURSELVES
NOURISHING DREAMS AND VISIONS
UNIQUENESS
WAITING
ANGER
CRITICISMPOSITIVISM
LETTING GO, HOLDING ON
MISTAKES
RESENTMENTS
PRACTICAL REGROUNDING
FAULTS
ACCEPTANCE
ANGER
DEALING WITH CRITICISM AND SELF-DOUBT
HOPE
ACCEPTING IMPERFECTIONS
SELF-UNDERSTANDING
WORRY
MENTORSHUMILITY
LISTENING TO OURSELVES
DIVERSITY
PRAYER
MIRACLES
BOASTING
RESPECT FOR LIVING THINGS
WATER
GARDENING
LISTENING
CHILDREN
WORKING FUN
LOST PERSPECTIVES
CHANGE
RUNAWAY MINDS
EMPTINESSRELATIONSHIPS
HANDING IT OVER
CONTROL
ADVENTURE
WHATS IMPORTANT
STUBBORNNESS
FINANCES
WONDER
BEING CLEVER
FAMILIES
THINKING
OFF BALANCE
THE OBVIOUS
DEFINITIONS AND PRACTICAL
LISTENING AND TALKING
FEELING OUT OF PLACE
HOPE
UPS AND DOWNS
PREJUDICES
SMALL ACTS WITH GREAT LOVE
ORDINARINESS
LISTENING
DIARIES
SEEING GODPRAYER
CURIOSITYBOREDOM
DECISIONS
FLATTERY
CHEERFULNESS
RAISING CHILDREN
PEACEFUL SLEEP
LEARNING FROM ADVERSITY
EXERCISE
FEELINGS
FEELING GOOD
FAREWELLS
QUICK FIXES
GOD
USEFUL LIVING
FRANTICCHOICESOVERREACTING
HUMOR AS A BALANCER
WHAT IS REAL
ATTITUDES
POSITIVES
THE EARTH
TALKING
FREEDOMRESPONSIBILITY
SINGING YOUR SONG
LEARNING AND TEACHERS
WRITING
PATTERNS OF LIFE
WOUNDSCOURAGE
TOURISTS
RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR MOUTHS
DIFFERENCES AND SAMENESS
DOING RIGHT
GUILT
CHILDREN AND MEMORIES
BALANCING ACTS AND LIVING IN BALANCE
GREAT HEARTS
THE EARTHMATERIALISM
POLITENESS SLIPPAGE
DREAMS
WHAT WE WANT
BEING STILL
PROBLEMS
EXPLORING OUR INNER WONDERS
SOLITUDE
PERSEVERANCE
SELFISHNESS
A LIFE OF VALUE
SELF-CENTEREDNESS
COOPERATION
IMAGINATION AND HUMOR
THE HEALING POWER OF THE EARTH
INDIFFERENCE
DONT SWEAT IT
CONTEXT, PARTICIPATION, CARING, AND RESPONSIBILITY
THE LONELINESS OF WITHDRAWAL
HIDING OUR POWER
GRATITUDE
HOUSEWORK
SELF-RELIANCE
CHILD-REARING
WONDER
CHILDRENLEARNING
LONELINESS
PRAYER
FRIENDSHIP
HEALTH
DELVING DEEP
EXPANDING OUR HORIZONS
VICES
RESPONSIBILITY
ACTION
A NEW DAY
CHAOS
WORK
FEELING CRAZY
IMAGE MANAGEMENT
UNFAIRNESS
ACHIEVEMENT
SMILING
INTERRUPTING OTHERS
ADVICE
SELF-IMPROVEMENT
TAKING THINGS AS THEY COME
BODYCARE
RANDOM KINDNESS, SENSELESS BEAUTY
WORRY
SKILLS FOR LIVING
INTIMACY
QUARRELS
SLEEP
LIVING IN THE PRESENT
OLD FRIENDS AND LOVERS
A SEPARATE WORKSPACE
THE CHILDHOOD-ADULTHOOD PROCESS
ILLUSIONS OF COMPETENCY
LEAVING VICTIM
TURNING TO (NOT ON) OTHERS
HUMILITY
EVERYDAYNESS
GIVING OURSELVES AWAY
LAUGHING AT ONESELF
FREEDOM
BEING FOOLED
CRYING
HEALTH
FEAR
SPIRIT LAKE
AUTUMN
COMPLETING OUR LISTS
SINGING AND DANCING
WORK
SERIOUSNESS
OUR HEADS
TRUTH
LEGACIES
RIGHT ACTION
UNDERSTANDING WITH YOUR HEART
DEEPER LEARNING
IMAGINATIONS
THE NEWS MEDIA
BEING OF SERVICE
STANDING OUT
WORRY AND CONTROL
PREPAREDNESS
KINDNESS
CHILDREN
OVEREXTENDING
INTERDEPENDENCE
ENTHUSIASM
LOVING DREAMS
GIFTS
QUIET TIME
CHEERFULNESS
MINDING OUR OWN BUSINESS
STRESS
MOODS
SELF-EXPLORATION
PREPARATION
SMILING
COMPARISONS
HOME MAINTENANCE
ANGER
HAVING ENOUGH
THE WEATHER
MARRIAGE
STRESS TOLERANCE
MODELING CHANGE
WHOLENESS
CONDEMNING OTHERS
PRAYER AND DRAMA
PAIN
INTUITION
CELEBRATING COMPLEXITY
MARRIAGE
CHILDREN
TURNING THE SITUATION AROUND
OUR HERITAGE
THE MESSAGE AND THE MESSENGER
OUR LIMITLESSNESS AND OUR LIMITS
REALITY CHECKS
EXPEDIENCY
SATISFACTION
CHORES
BEING GOOD AND BAD
RESTORING BALANCE
YES, NO, NEITHER
ENDINGS
SUPPORT
ENTERING THE HOLY
CONTROL
EXHAUSTION
BLESSINGS
TRUE HOLINESS
FOCUSING ON OURSELVES
LOVING
SPIRITUAL PROCESS
WINTER
AWE
PRAYER
UNUSED MINUTES
GUIDANCE
HAPPINESS
SEEING BEAUTY
ATTITUDES TOWARD CHILDREN
THE FOUR ELEMENTS
LOVE
LOSING OUR SPIRITUALITY
TRUTH
HOLIDAYS
PRAYER
LOVING BEAUTY
SILENCE
PEACE AND BALANCE
ANGELS
EXCUSES
LITTLE THINGS
CHEERFULNESS
PEACE
ORDER AND CHAOS
OUR HOLY INFINITE CENTER
Womens Reality (1981)
Co-Dependence: Misunderstood, Mistreated (1986)
When Society Becomes an Addict (1987)
The Addictive Organization, co-authored with Diane Fassel (1988)
Escape from Intimacy (1989)
Meditations for Women Who Do Too Much (1990)
Laugh!, I Thought Id Die (if I Didnt) (1990)
Beyond Therapy, Beyond Science (1992)
Native Wisdom for White Minds (1995)