M Gordon - How To Get Over A Crush: Getting Over Someone Youve Never Dated

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Chapter One - Getting Over Someone You've Never Dated ?

Reasons Why You Can't Be With Your Crush ?

It Isn't Mutual ?

It's Just Physical ?

When Married Or In A Relationship ?

They Seem Out Of Your League ?

You Don't Have The Confidence To Talk To Them ?

They Are Not Good For You ?

Family Or Friends Wouldn't Approve ?

Crush On A Friend ?

They Are A Celebrity ?

They Ghosted You ?

Chapter Two - Reasons You Like Them ?

Projection ?

Validation & Gap FIlling ?

The Challenge ?

Admiration ?

You Enjoy A Good Fantasy ?

Excitement ?

Contrast ?

Social Effing Media ?

F&%k Knows! ?

Chapter Three - How To Stop Thinking About Someone ?

Keeping Yourself Busy ?

Pattern Interrupt - Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone ?

Are You Being Used For Attention? ?

Language & Self Talk ?

No Time Limit - Let Things Process ?

Journal It ?

Affirmations Vs Self Torture ?

How To Get Over A Crush You See Every Day ?

The Jerk & Silly Scenarios ?

Alternative Meanings - Change Your Picture ?

Growing Into Who Or How You Want To Be ?

Projecting Something New - Looking Forward To The Future ?

There's More Than One Person For You ?

Claiming Your Power & Mapping Your New Picture ?

Chapter Four - How To Be Confident ?

Using Your Experiences - Making Lemonade ?

Find Your Joy & Your People ?

Recognizing Your Strengths ?

Attracting Mr or Miss Right ?

Chapter Five - Conclusion ?

Final Words ?

Its difficult to get past a crush when you are holding on to something that youre not exactly sure of.

Its also hard to leave something or someone behind when you havent had any closure.

Whether your crush is at school, or if they are your boss, someone you work with, or just someone you like in your community, liking someone you can't or shouldnt have can take up a huge amount of mental and emotional energy.

Initially, it can be nice to feel butterflies and warm fuzzy feelings about someone; but if that feeling becomes something that you lose command over, it can start to get tricky. If it continues, at some point, you may get to a stage where you realize youre too invested, and that your crush has more of a grip on you than you like. This can be quite difficult for your self-esteem and you may even feel a sense of rejection or embarrassment.

You may feel ashamed that you have a crush, and you may not want anyone to know that you feel this way, especially not the person that you have the crush on. Maybe you'd love to confess your feelings to the subject of your crush, but you're too shy or too scared to tell them because you think that they may not feel the same way. Or perhaps youre concerned that doing so might change the relationship in a way you dont like if they treat you differently.

When you don't feel in control, it can be scary.

This book will help you address all of these thoughts and emotions. It will also serve to help you regain control and self-confidence so you can move out of a place where you feel trapped. Regain the confidence to attract a person that is available and has mutual attributes in common with you.

We are going to cover what your crush is actually about. Establishing whats really going on to help you to overcome doubt or wishful thinking.

When you get clarity on what you REALLY want and need, it is much easier to make a new start.

This book will help you understand the psychology of what is happening to you, why you really feel what you feel, and how to break free of a crush.

Become more confident, feel more attractive and get yourself into the frame of mind where you can create the life you desire.

So lets get started.

Mia

THE PAGES IN the following chapter will address some of the common reasons why a crush cant become a relationship.

We will cover obstacles for pursuing a crush, and justifications (whether moral or practical) for avoiding a scenario where you are stuck in a holding pattern you cannot escape from.

So grab a pen and paper, feel free to write notes in this book or in a journal.

It can be fascinating, satisfying even, looking back on your scribblings later on to see how youve grown at a future date.

So here goes