Jackie Viramontez - I Cant Believe I Dated Him: The Art of Knowing When to Break Up, When to Stay Single & When Youve Met the One

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I Cant Believe I Dated Him

In this day and age women dont really need men. We have our own careers, we can wield a hammer, and join self-protection classes to take care of ourselves but many women still want companionship and the connection of deep intimacy with one special man. The dating and searching for this special soulmate has been fraught with all sorts of problems because of our stinkin thinkin conditioning by our parents, our culture, and the times we live in. In I Cant Believe I Dated Him , author Jackie Viramontez expertly and compassionately guides you to do more inner searching for emotional patterns and behaviours so that the wrong men stop appearing at your doorsteps. I highly recommend this book for single or married women looking for a step- by- step approach to turn relationship pains into opportunities for self-discovery and a chance for lasting joy.

Alina Frank , EFT Tapping Trainer and Bestselling Author of How to Want Sex Again

Jackie Viramontez brilliantly shares her wisdom, wit and science to provide you with practical solutions that will propel you into the relationship you deserve with a special partner, and with yourself! The simple process teaches you to use your emotions as a guidance system to transform your relationships in hours rather than decades, or a lifetime. Women of every stage of life need to read I Cant Believe I Dated Him!

Dale Paula Teplitz , M.A., EFT Tapping Expert, Trainer and Mentor

Brilliant! Jackie is spot on in I Cant Believe I Dated Him ! Relationships whether pre or post marriage are all about what we learned emotionally earlier in life. Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT tapping) are the tool to undo all those hard-wired, neurochemical lessons, allowing us to move forward to become who we are meant to be and to find that soulmate God has waiting for us.

How do I know this? God, using the techniques laid out in this book, saved our marriage. Six years ago, before learning Emotional Freedom Techniques, my marriage was dead; divorce was imminent. No amount of counseling worked. We wanted the relationship saved, but it was doomed. We fought daily. Later, after learning EFT, we realized our marriage wasnt about either of us; it was about relational childhood lessons we needed to upgrade.

EFT is the great eraser. Learn to tap, release the underlying emotions pinning you to habits that dont support dating and marriage, and watch both of you grow, learning to live and love beyond anything you ever imagined!

Sherrie Rice Smith, R.N. , Author of EFT for Christians, EFT Trainer and Instructor

Beautiful, reassuring, and vulnerable, I Cant Believe I Dated Him unfolds with the deeper truth of what it means to be in relationship: discovering ourselves through the mirror of others and having the courage to approach what we learn as an opportunity for transformation. This amazing book should be required reading for everyone: single, dating, or married.

Sue Rasmussen , Bestselling Author of My Desk Is Driving Me Crazy and Life Coach

Whether you are in a relationship or not, this book is an absolute must read. Reading this transformed my taken-for-granted ideas about emotions like anxiety, insecurity and anger. Instead of getting rid of negative emotions, this book inspires eye-opening, if not life-changing, revelations about what emotions really are. This is the first book Ive seen that objectively brings to light the fact that emotions (like any other brain signal) have an evolutionary purpose. By taking a step back to view emotions objectively for the first time, this book opens up a whole new way of experiencing every human thought and interaction. As an educator, I would also strongly recommend this book to adolescents and anyone who works with kids. Even the most well-adjusted, respected, successful people unquestioningly accept that emotions affect behavior. This book lays out a simple step-by-step plan to erase that reality. For anyone in a relationship with a boyfriend, friend, coworker or boss, I do not know a single person who would not enjoy their life (and themselves) more after reading this book.

Lauren Martin, M.D. Educator and Non Profit Founder

When I started reading I Cant Believe I Dated Him , I thought it must be some sort of prank and someone had obviously unearthed my dating life to build each chapter. It was a relief to be wrong and to know that Im not alone in this journey. The powerful insight in these pages undid me and put me back together in a way Ive needed for a long time. Ive carried a lot of shame about my choices in men, but this book helped to acknowledge, heal, and transform the root of it all.

Danielle Bennett, M.D. Poet, Communicator and Educator

Jackies book addresses the trifecta of relationship mastery: Empowerment, Emotions, and Energy. Through clear explanations about negative emotions that arise from old belief systems, women who feel trapped in old patterns can begin to see a light at the end of a despairing tunnel. But Jackie doesnt just stop raising conscious awareness, she also provides the energy tools for transforming those old patterns into new relationship potentials. Its empowering to know that I can let go of what doesnt serve me now and anything that might come up in the future. No more holding back or failing in relationships!

Gia Combs-Ramirez , Author of The Way of Transformation: Discovering the Divine Map to Unlock your Highest Potential and Transformational Healer at New Science of Energy Healing

THE ART OF KNOWING WHEN TO BREAK UP,
WHEN TO STAY SINGLE & WHEN YOUVE MET

THE ONE

Jackie Viramontez

NEW YORK

NASHVILLE MELBOURNE VANCOUVER

I Cant Believe I Dated Him

The Art Of Knowing When To Break Up,
When To Stay Single & When Youve Met THE ONE

2017 Jackie Viramontez

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ISBN 978-1-68350-280-7 paperback ISBN 978-1-68350-281-4 eBook ISBN 978-1-68350-282-1 hardcover Library of Congress Control Number: 2016916535 Interior Design: Bonnie Bushman Cover Design: Heidi Miller Editing: Cynthia Kane Authors photo courtesy of Jake Viramontez

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