Steve Chandler - The Hands-Off Manager: How to Mentor People and Allow Them to Be Successful

THE HANDS - OFF MANAGER

How to Mentor People
and Allow Them
to Be Successful

STEVEN CHANDLER
best-selling author of 100 Ways to Motivate Others
and DUANE BLACK

Copyright 2012 by Steve Chandler and Duane Black

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THE HANDS-OFF MANAGER
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Chandler, Steve, 1944

The hands-off manager : how to mentor people and allow them to be successful / by Steve Chandler and Duane Black.

p. cm.

Reprint. Originally published in hardback in 2007.

Includes index.

ISBN 978-1-60163-223-4 -- ISBN 978-1-60163-592-1 (ebook) 1. Mentoring in business. 2. Employees--Coaching of. 3. Goal setting in personnel management. 4. Employee motivation. 5. Autonomy (Psychology) I. Black, Duane, 1952- II. Title.

HF5385.C465 2012

658.3124--dc23

2011045931

To George Addair

So much of what we call management consists of
making it difficult for people to work.

Peter Drucker

I acknowledge Byron Katie for putting me through school and opening up the kindness of the universe that Einstein was puzzling over. Katies nine-day school was the most transformative experience of my adult life, and I recommend that anyone wondering how to live in peace and harmony check it out at www.thework.com .

I acknowledge Duane Black for providing in himself the ultimate role model for successful hands-off management and the full philosophy contained in this book. I also acknowledge him for applying this system so successfully at SunCor and getting the results year after year that verify every concept in this book.

I also acknowledge my wife and hands-on manager, Kathy, for professional and personal rescuing beyond ones wildest expectations. I want to thank Fred Knipe, Steve Hardison, Terry Hill, Lindsay Brady, Michael Bassoff, Ken Wilber, Leonard Cohen, George Martin, Jessica Chandler, Stephanie Chandler, Mar Chandler, and Bobby Chandler, too.

I have been fortunate to have many people in my life who have made a contribution, but George Addair has likely been the biggest influence on me of anyone I have ever known.

I would also like to acknowledge my friend and coworker Jim Adair, who has been an incredible friend and sounding board for ideas for nearly 30 years. We have worked together for so long that we have become like brothers. Another great friend and discussion partner of many years has been Bill Woodward. Then there are my favorite authorsJim Carey, Neale Donald Walsch, David Hawkins, and Steve Chandler.

I must also acknowledge my wife and family. They are the ones who love you unconditionally and know you best. They can most easily push the buttons that help show you what judgments remain inside that you still have the opportunity to forgive, release, and let go of.

Duane Black acknowledges that the philosophies, opinions, and management techniques described in this book are his own, and do not necessarily reflect those of SunCor Development Company, its subsidiary or parent corporations, or its leadership team.

The secret of happiness lies in the ancient saying: Become what you are.

Alan Watts

In my many years as a corporate trainer and personal success coach I have never met a leader as quietly powerful and effective as Duane Black.

The company he works for, SunCor Development, was always extremely successful in creating beautiful, aesthetically stunning housing communities throughout the southwestern United States, and the more I got to know Duane, the more I saw why.

Duane had a way of managing people that was both gentle and impactful. He had a way of inspiring and nurturing success in a totally hands-off, nonjudgmental way. It was amazing to see. Even though he almost never micromanaged anyone, success flourished all around him.

Whenever he would invite me to come in and conduct a workshop for his key leaders, or go to a remote development to work with a sales and administrative team, I would be the one who came away having learned something. I always learned more than I taught.

Duanes practice of enlightened, hands-off management was so fascinating that I would jump at the chance to spend extra time with him. Once he flew me in his Beechcraft Bonanza, a single-engine airplane, to one of his developments in southern Utah. We were talking all the way about his theories of allowing success and seeing the greatness in his people.

And the best thing about Duanes theories is that they arent just theories. They are practices. And they work. Over and over. They work in Utah, they work in Arizona, they work in New Mexico, and they will work anywhere for you.

How do I know they will work for you? Because over the years I have integrated many of them into my own work and teaching. I have taught other leaders and managers Duanes way, and other leaders have benefited and experienced increased productivity when they used these practices and ideas.

They work.

Some of his practices found their way into some of my recent books; some were only hinted at. But now they are all here for you, laid out in ways you can use right away for management and leadership. And the beauty of Duanes practices is that they can be applied to any form of leadership, at home or on the job, in the community or in the workplace.

I spent the better part of a year visiting with Duane at his home on early Sunday mornings, tape-recording his thoughts, discussing his concepts, and listening to his experiences. He and I worked from an outline he had meticulously prepared about his leadership principles and why they function as they do. This book is really his book, and I am very grateful to be along for the ride.

Duane is the one who is there on the job every day as chief operating officer of SunCor, overseeing and managing large numbers of people and projects. SunCor has grown and thrived over the years, and these methods have led the way.

Steve Chandler

Duane Black lets his people know the deepest truth he knows: All you need to be successful is already in you.

Steve Chandler

Steve Chandler is generous in his praise and passing along the credit to me for the success of the community development and homebuilding division at SunCor. But he has actually played a greater role in our success than he is taking credit for.

I attended seminars he taught many years ago that helped me form much of my hands-off philosophy and style. His ability to take my concepts and put them into words that bring them to life in numerous seminars and speaking engagements at our company has contributed greatly to our success.