The US Navy SEAL Trident appears on the front cover and title page of this book with the permission of the Department of the Navy. Although the Department of the Navy has reviewed this book for security purposes, all views presented are those of the author and do not necessarily represent the views of the Department of the Navy, the Department of Defense, the United States Government, or any components thereof.
This book is dedicated to my wife and kids.
Their love brought me home.
This book is also dedicated to the warriors, those men and women who are willing to go beyond the city walls and slay dragons... who are willing to go into the lions den again and again... and who sometimes dont come back out. Specifically, it is for my Naval Special Warfare brothers who answered the call after 9/11 and never made it back home.
Ensign (SEAL) Jerry Buck PopeYemen2002
HMC (SEAL) Matthew J. BourgeoisAfghanistan2002
ABH1 (SEAL) Neil C. RobertsAfghanistan2002
CDR (SEAL) Peter G. OswaldEl Salvador2002
PH1 (SEAL) David M. TapperAfghanistan2003
IT2 (SEAL) Mario MaestasTraining2003
IC1 (SEAL) Thomas E. RetzerAfghanistan2003
BM1 (SEAL) Brian OuelletteAfghanistan2004
BM1 (SWCC) Robert P. VetterTraining2004
HMCS (SEAL) Theodore D. FitzhenryTraining2004
LT (SEAL) Michael P. MurphyAfghanistan2005
GM2 (SEAL) Danny P. DietzAfghanistan2005
STG2 (SEAL) Matthew G. AxelsonAfghanistan2005
ITCS (SEAL) Daniel R. HealyAfghanistan2005
QM2 (SEAL) James SuhAfghanistan2005
MM2 (SEAL) Shane PattonAfghanistan2005
LCDR (SEAL) Erik S. KristensenAfghanistan2005
LT (SEAL) Michael M. McGreevy Jr.Afghanistan2005
FCC (SEAL) Jacques J. FontanAfghanistan2005
HM1 (SEAL) Jeffrey S. TaylorAfghanistan2005
ET1 (SEAL) Jeffrey A. LucasAfghanistan2005
AO2 (SEAL) Marc A. LeeIraq2006
MA2 (SEAL) Michael A. MonsoorIraq2006
SN Freddie PorterTraining2007
SO2 Joseph C. SchwedlerIraq2007
SO1 Jason D. LewisIraq2007
MC1 Robert R. McRillIraq2007
CTT1 Steven P. DaughertyIraq2007
SOC Mark T. CarterIraq2007
SOC Jason R. FreiwaldAfghanistan2008
SOCS John W. MarcumAfghanistan2008
SO1 Joshua T. HarrisAfghanistan2008
SOCS Thomas J. ValentineTraining2008
SOC Lance M. VaccaroTraining2008
SO2 Shapoor Alex GhaneTraining2008
EOD1 Luis SouffrontIraq2008
SOC Michael KochIraq2008
SOC Nathan HardyIraq2008
PR1 Andrew J. LightnerTraining2009
SOC Eric F. ShellenbergerTraining2009
SO2 Ryan JobWounded Iraq 2006United States2009
EOD2 Tyler J. TrahanIraq2009
LT Brendan J. LooneyAfghanistan2010
CTRCS David B. McClendonAfghanistan2010
SO2 Adam O. SmithAfghanistan2010
SO3 Denis C. MirandaAfghanistan2010
SOC Adam BrownAfghanistan2010
SO1 Tyler StimsonUnited States2010
SO2 Ronald WoodleTraining2010
SOC Collin ThomasAfghanistan2010
SO1 Caleb A. NelsonAfghanistan2011
LCDR (SEAL) Jonas KelsallAfghanistan2011
SOCM Louis LanglaisAfghanistan2011
SOCS Thomas RatzlaffAfghanistan2011
SOCS Robert ReevesAfghanistan2011
SOCS Heath RobinsonAfghanistan2011
EODCS Kraig VickersAfghanistan2011
SOC Brian BillAfghanistan2011
SO1 Aaron VaughnAfghanistan2011
SO1 Christopher CampbellAfghanistan2011
SO1 Darrik BensonAfghanistan2011
IT1 Jared DayAfghanistan2011
SO1 Jason WorkmanAfghanistan2011
SO1 Jesse PittmanAfghanistan2011
MA1 John DouangdaraAfghanistan2011
SOC John FaasAfghanistan2011
SO1 Jon TumilsonAfghanistan2011
SOC Kevin HoustonAfghanistan2011
SOC Matthew MasonAfghanistan2011
CTR1 Michael StrangeAfghanistan2011
EODC Nicholas NullAfghanistan2011
SO2 Nicholas SpeharAfghanistan2011
SOC Stephen MillsAfghanistan2011
LT Thomas C. FoukeTraining2012
SO1 Patrick D. FeeksAfghanistan2012
SO1 David J. WarsenAfghanistan2012
GM2 Dion R. RobertsAfghanistan2012
SO1 Mathew G. KantorAfghanistan2012
SO1 Kevin R. EbbertAfghanistan2012
SO1 Nicolas D. ChecqueAfghanistan2012
CDR (SEAL) Job PriceAfghanistan2012
SO1 Matthew LeathersTraining2013
CTTC Christian M. PikeAfghanistan2013
SOC Chris KyleUnited States2013
SOC Brett ShadleTraining2013
SO3 Jonathan H. KaloustTraining2013
The mark of a man is not found in his past,
but how he overcomes adversity and builds his future.
Quitting is not an option.
Regardless of the overwhelming odds or obstacles in your path,
you always have an opportunity to overcome.
It is your attitude that will determine the outcome.
JCR
CONTENTS
I FIRST MET LIEUTENANT JAY REDMAN at Bethesda Naval Hospital where he was recuperating from his many wounds. He had posted a sign on his door that, for me, spoke for so many of our wounded in its message of courage, resolve, and optimism. I was deeply moved and later would welcome Jay and his family to my office. As the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan raged on, he and his story would continue to inspire me.
This book is about Lieutenant Redmans journey serving his country. It is an admirably honest account of a young man going through the toughest physical training imaginable only to discover along the way that physical toughness, tactical proficiency, and bravado are not the principal attributes of a successful warrior leader; that even more important on the battlefield are self-discipline, character, and the ability to earn the trust and confidence of ones comrades, superiors, and subordinates. And embracing personal accountability and responsibility for ones actions. This book is about that journey of discovery before and after Jays near-fatal wounding, a journey that ended in success due in large part, as he writes, to the steadfast support and love of his equally courageous and resolute wife.
His story of healing, like combat, is the story of a team: his wife and family, doctors and nurses, his friends and fellow warriors, all of whom helped restore him. In this story, he is representative of all who have been wounded in these wars and their long road to recovery. This, too, is a story of courage and heroism.
One of my senior military assistants, Vice Admiral Joe Kernan, is a SEAL and commanded SEALs in combat, and eventually commanded all SEALs. We talked a lot about Jay Redman, and Joe once told me that the quality most needed to become a SEAL was not physical but mental toughness. This was driven home for me one Friday morning in Coronado, California, when I stood in front of a wet, cold, and exhausted SEAL training class and informed them their Hell Week was over. It was clear that only their minds were keeping them on their feet after six days of near continuous, exhausting physical exertion. But I believe Redmans mental toughness went beyond even this and is reflected in his candor describing his flaws and deficiencies, and his humble account of the people and circumstances that helped him overcome them.
There already are many books on the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. There will be more, including by those who experienced the fire of combat. This story, though, is not just about a SEAL on the Iraqi battlefield, but a SEAL at war with himself, and his ultimate victory. I believe his story will inspire the reader, just as it did me.
Robert M. Gates
SECRETARY OF DEFENSE, 20062011