Praise for Christopher Phillips and
SOCRATES in Love
When I read the words Where Is the Love? in the introduction to this book, I immediately heard the singing voices of Roberta Flack and Donny Hathaway. That kept me going, despite my fear of being confused once more by Socrates. I discovered an important mosaic of ancient tales and current opinions, and that Socrates in Love breathed compassion, curiosity, and intrigue into the dusty world of empirical philosophy. And I can still hear the song.
Bob Kerrey, president, The New School
Its clear that Phillips is on to something. [ Socrates in Love ]is a response to our greatest societal need: the need to connect with one another in meaningful discourse and to find, in that process, our common humanity. For this, Phillips should be applauded.
Portfolio Weekly
[We] are left hoping that Phillips, by returning to the methods of the first Western philosopher, has created a template for philosophical exploration that many others will emulate.
Christian Science Monitor
Socrates Caf beautifullytells you how and why the questioning style of Socrates works with children and adults.
Washington Post
Christopher Phillips has the genius to raise the dead philosophers society to life. [ Socrates in Love ] is a pleasure to read and touches on the crucial issues of love that inspired Plato. Whoever hasnt read Plato is probably dead to his soul, and whoever hasnt read Phillips probably doesnt know how alive Plato is.
Thomas Moore, author of Care of the Soul and Dark Nights of the Soul
[ Socrates Caf is] a bracing, rollicking read about the spark that ignites when people start asking meaningful questions.
O, The Oprah Magazine
Here is ancient wisdom in all its complexity brought vividly to liferendered accessible to readers today. Here is a traveling, inquiring teacher become a wonderfully engaging writer, whose reflecting mind becomes a companion for us needy readers.
Robert Coles, Harvard University
These timely seminars provide many welcome insights into the controversial problems of our daily lives and induce further reflection about who we are and where we are going.
San Antonio Express News
Like a Johnny Appleseed with a masters degree, Phillips has gallivanted back and forth across America, to cafes and coffee shops, senior centers, assisted-living complexes, prisons, libraries, day-care centers, elementary and high schools, and churches, forming lasting communities of inquiry.
Utne Reader
I am excited about Christopher Phillipss effort to bring philosophy out of the ivory tower and back into the lives of ordinary people, where it belongs.
Rabbi Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People
Phillips presentation is skillful in his ability to weave threads of references to Socrates society and his own opinions into the fabric of each question. He is artful in his choices of which cultures best illustrate an original perspective on the question at hand.
Charlotte Observer
A modern-day Socrateswhos chosen the world, not just the agora, for his stage[with] a model discourse that elevates working lives and reduces intellectualisms pretensions.
Richmond Times-Dispatch (Virginia)
[Phillips] winningly showcases a tantalizing method for getting philosophy to thrive more widely.
Publishers Weekly
Socrates Caf is a testament to Phillipss conviction that Americans are hungry to start probing questions the way Socrates did more than two millennia ago in Athens.
Arizona Republic
Highly accessible. Alive with the passions of ordinary people from a dozen cultures, these colloquies dramatize the universality of Socrates deeply humanizing concerns. Readers will applaud Phillips for once again making philosophy a living enterprise beyond the lecture hall and the faculty lounge.
Booklist
ALSO BY CHRISTOPHER PHILLIPS
Socrates Caf
Six Questions of Socrates
The Philosophers Club (childrens book)
Ceci Anns Day of Why (childrens book)
SOCRATES in Love
Philosophy for a Die-Hard Romantic
CHRISTOPHER PHILLIPS
W. W. NORTON & COMPANY
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Disclaimer: To guard participants privacy, names have been changed; occupations and other biographical information, and the specific locales at which dialogues occurred, have at times been changed. Sometimes, participants portrayed in this book are composites of those who took part in actual dialogues, and some dialogues are composites.
Copyright 2007 by Christopher Phillips
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Phillips, Christopher, 1959 July 15
Socrates in love: philosophy for a passionate heart / Christopher Phillips. 1st ed.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN: 978-0-393-33067-0
1. Love. 2. Philosophy. 3. Socrates. I. Title.
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INTRODUCTION
Where Is the Love?
Im embarrassed to report that not only do I know both of them, but theyre two of my favorite dance partners, Alexandros, eighty-one, says to me. The people in question are two older women engaged in a heated exchange. One is taking part in an abortion rights rally organized after President George W. Bush made his first appointment to the United States Supreme Court; the other is front and center in a counterprotest. Finally, the pro-abortion protester tells her foil in no uncertain terms that she is full of you-know-what. In reply, her anti-abortion counterpart directs a gesture her way that is understood the world over as the furthest thing from complimentary.
Alexandros shakes his head and sighs. Theres such an invisible wall between people today. This scene brings to mind the Simon and Garfunkel song: People hearing without listening. He then says, The not-so-funny thing is that on my date with one of those ladies the other night, she bemoaned that young people no longer practice the values we old folks hold dear. Thank heavens they dont!
Alexandros gazes at the bronze sculpture of Socrates, a rare full-length representation of the fifth century B.C. Greek philosopher, and says to the statue, or no one in particular, Where is the love?
He and I are seated on a bench in Athens Square Park in the New York City neighborhood of Astoria, in the northwest part of the borough of Queens. Even on this sultry midsummer afternoon, no one is deterred from gathering at the park, whether its to partake in their democratic freedom of assembly and expression, to be alone, or to enjoy the ample space for family outings and other benign social gatherings. When I first came to Astoria as a child to visit relatives, Greek was the predominant language spoken, even more so than English, and the borough is still home to more Greeks than any other community in the United States. But now Im also treated to nearly 150 other languages in this vibrant fifty-eight-neighborhood borough, the most culturally diverse area in the United States.