David A. Carbonell - Outsmart Your Anxious Brain: Ten Simple Ways to Beat the Worry Trick

Do you have challenges with anxiety, worry, panic, or phobias? Here is an easy shortcut for making progress:

1. Order David Carbonells new book, Outsmart Your Anxious Brain .
2. Start reading it, a few pages at a time. Carbonell writes with humor and compassion. I challenge you to read his book without smiling!
3. Highlight, circle, or use Post-its to mark the paragraphs that are especially helpful to you.
4. Make a habit of rereading the sections that you marked. You now have an ongoing resource for your progress!

   Neal Sideman , self-help advocate, member of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA), and cochair of the ADAA Public Education Committee

Another gem of a book from David Carbonell. He writes with such wisdom and clarity, using delightful and memorable metaphors to help you outsmart your anxiety. He presents ten simple yet profound ways to get your life back. I highly recommend this book!

Jennifer Shannon, LMFT , author of Dont Feed the Monkey Mind

Whether you have social anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), panic attacks, or another form of anxiety, David Carbonell effortlessly explains the common culprit in all anxiety disorders in this essential read. Sprinkled with good humor, practical analogies, and real-life examples, he offers strategic tips that challenge your worries and change your anxious mind-set. A must-read based on empirical evidence for anyone looking to outsmart the anxiety tornado from wrecking your mental wellness.

Jenny C. Yip, PsyD, ABPP , founder and clinical psychologist at the Renewed Freedom Center for Rapid Anxiety Relief in Los Angeles, CA; and author of Productive, Successful YOU!

David Carbonell has spent decades figuring out exactly how to explain complex and subtle concepts in just a few words, and this book is a prime example. Deceptively easygoing, it turns upside down every instinctive response to anxiety in the mind or body, and convinces the reader to behave counterintuitively. He articulates basic principles we so often overlook, such as that the rules for achieving goals in external reality and internal experience are not the same. Or that face your fears does not mean confrontation, it means working with instead of against. This is a must-read!

Sally Winston, PsyD , coauthor (with Martin Seif) of Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts and Needing to Know for Sure

This book will change lives. No one else explains worry and prescribes a clear path to lessen it like David Carbonell. His short, simple, and humorous book will help you understand how worry tricks you, while his writings give you powerful, specific techniques to reclaim your life from the anxiety that has been holding you back.

Marilee Feldman, LCPC, CADC , founder and clinical director of Life Counseling Institute in Willowbrook, IL

This wonderful book gives the reader practical tips to move past anxiety and worry. David Carbonell offers sage advice on how to do things you are afraid of so that you become less afraid, rather than waiting to be less afraid so that you can do the things that are most important to you.

Debra Kissen, PhD, MHSA , CEO of Light On Anxiety CBT Treatment Center

David Carbonells sequel to The Worry Trick applies his practical advice not only to chronic worriers, but also to sufferers of panic, OCD, social anxiety, and phobias. With his witty, clear, and casual voiceand his memorable metaphors and exerciseshe helps readers to stop treating discomfort like danger. I will enthusiastically recommend this book to my anxious patients (and friends!).

David J. Kosins, PhD , psychologist in private practice in Seattle, WA, clinical instructor in the University of Washingtons departments of psychology and psychiatry; and founding fellow and certified trainer/consultant at the Academy of Cognitive Therapy

As someone who has a history of anxiety and phobias, and as someone who is a social worker and has been director of an anxiety and phobia program for over twenty years, I will wholeheartedly recommend David Carbonells new book to my colleagues and clients. Carbonell has an exceptional gift for presenting practical, therapeutic instruction and education with a sense of humor and a compassionate heart.

Judy Chessa, LMSW , coordinator of the anxiety and phobia program at St. Vincents Hospital Behavioral Health Services in White Plains, NY

David Carbonells new book, Outsmart Your Anxious Brain , is just what the doctor ordered. David has distilled much of the recent literature on how best to manage anxiety into an accessible and very readable book. David has done an excellent job of combining the wisdom he has gained from over thirty years experience treating anxiety disorders with recent findings in the research literature to create a very practical book that is full of clinical insights and specific, concrete tools to better understand and manage anxiety. I especially like how David provides exercises to try, and then gives examples of how some of the clients in his practice have used and benefited from those exact exercises. If you or someone you care about suffers from anxietybuy, read, and use this book! Im eagerly awaiting the publication of this book so I can recommend it to my clients.

Robert W. McLellarn, PhD , founder and director of Anxiety and Panic Treatment Center, LLC in Portland, OR; with over thirty years of experience treating anxiety disorders

David is back with his signature style of warmth and humor to help readers work with anxiety moment by moment. From years of treating anxious people like you and me, he has come to see that avoidance behaviors are the problem, not anxiety. Want to know the secret to recovering faster? Look at what anxiety is telling you to do and do the opposite.

Take it chapter by chapter, grab a pencil to write in the margins, and then get out there and take back your life. Its been waiting for you!

Kristin E. Cummings, LCSW , resident superhero at www.theanxietygirl.net

Publishers Note

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In consideration of evolving American English usage standards, and reflecting a commitment to equity for all genders, they/them is used in this book to denote singular persons.

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Copyright 2020 by David A. Carbonell

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Contents

Foreword

Got worries? Read this book. Do you have loved ones with worries? Have them read this book. Are you a professional who treats worried clients? Then you should definitely read this book, and give copies to your clients. They will thank you for it.

Did you know that worry plays tricks, and thats why its so hard to get rid of it? In this wonderful new book, Dr. Dave Carbonell explains the worry trick to you in simple, clear, concise language that will stick in your head and come to your mind when you need it. And then he explains how to beat that trick: the principles that will guide your recovery and the specific actions that will make it come about.