Martie Haselton - Hormonal: The Hidden Intelligence of Hormones -- How They Drive Desire, Shape Relationships, Influence Our Choices, and Make Us Wiser

I HAVE HAD THE great fortune of finding a scientists dream: a fascinating, socially relevant topic that was underexplored but rich in the empirical goods it delivered, once I started doing research.

At the time I began my work on womens hormone cycles, the broad consensus in science was that humans were vastly different from other species and that hormone cycles didnt have much to do with patterns of human sexual behavior. Everyone thought that humans had been emancipated from hormonal control, whereas our nonhuman cousins were still seized by it. Part of that thinking was based on a genuine recognition that humans had unusual attributes, including this one: Humans will have sex at nearly any timewhen at peak fertility near ovulation, but also at other times in the cycle, and even when conception is impossible, for example, when a woman is pregnant, newly postpartum and breastfeeding, and in the postreproductive years following menopause. This sort of extended sexuality runs in stark contrast to patterns in other mammals.

I certainly recognized that women were different. Were not automatons who experience an estrogen surge and then follow a behavioral urgeas in having sex (or competing with a rival). But my training as an evolutionary theorist led me to consider that hormones might affect women too, guiding their sexual and social decisions. Hormones control reproduction, the powerful engine of natural selection. It therefore seemed astonishingly unlikely that hormones would not guide our behavior in some way.

The first studies from my lab found that women at peak fertility seemed to place a premium on sexiness in male partners. They also felt more attractive and wanted to go out to clubs and parties where they might meet men. They even showed up at the lab wearing dressier and sometimes more revealing clothing. It appeared that ovulation might be triggering mate shopping.

Although I initially viewed this research as a side project, these findings were too tantalizing in their implications for me to pass upI had to pursue them further. What other under-the-radar secrets of female desire might I discover if I kept looking? And so I did, with the help of dozens of students and many cherished colleagues.

I am writing this book to share the story of our fascinating findings. It turns out that we are hormonally intelligent. Our hormones affect everything from our mating desires (.

I am also writing this book as a call to action for more information on our female brains and bodies. In spite of all that we do know, research was stunted for decades by the notion that men could be considered the default sex for biomedical information (If it worked for men, why wouldnt it work for women too?). Women, the thinking went, were just too messy with all those hormone cycles. Why bother?

I believe we know far too little about womens hormones and their behavior, and we must know more so that we can make the best decisions at every phase of life. What are the consequences of suppressing our hormone cyclesor even eliminating menstrual periods altogetherby using the pill? Whats the truth about getting pregnant as we move into our third, fourth, and even fifth decades? Can we find a magic bullet for female desire, the way Viagra helped men with their bedroom troubles? Should we consider taking hormone supplements later in life? I address all these questions in the book, but we still do not have complete answers, to the detriment of both women and men.

I also want to offer a different perspective on women and hormones. Outside of academic circles, for decades women have been derided for being hormonaleven too hormonal to be president. (For the rest of my days, I will never forget bringing my young daughter with me as I cast my vote on November 8, 2016, confident that she was witnessing history with the election of the first female presidentouch.) One would think these chauvinistic views are antiquated, but I have seen them come to the fore again and again, as I detail in .

Theres a double standard in our views on hormone cycles in men and women. Gloria Steinem highlighted it in an essay from the late eighties called If Men Could Menstruate.

Some believe that any biological explanation for a womans behavior will keep her from achieving. The thinking is that differences between women and men, if they have any hint of a biological foundation, will doom women to girlish stereotypes, confine them to a maternal role, and smash them up against the glass ceiling if they try to achieve professionally. The implication for researchers is that we should keep information about womens hormones and their behavior on the down low. Its best not to stir up these stereotypes.

I think the opposite is true. We do not help women by suppressing information or failing to do the research that could inform the important hormonal questions we need answers to. And what weve learned about women and hormones isin my viewempowering. Its not a simple story about going hormonal on those last few days of the cycle and losing our rational faculties. Its the story of how our hormones guide us through uniquely female life experiencesfrom feeling desire and pleasure to choosing a mate, having a child (if we would like to), raising a child, and transitioning to our postreproductive years. These experiences are crucial to our understanding of what it means to be human. They also unite us with our mammalian cousins and even the colossal lizards that once roamed the earth. To be sure, we do things in our own exclusively human way, and I will explain why in