Dominic Mann - Attract Women: Unlock Her Legs: How to Effortlessly Attract Women and Become the Man Women Unlock Their Legs For (Dating Advice for Men to Attract Women)

Unlock Her Legs: How to Effortlessly Attract Women and Become the Man Women Unlock Their Legs For

By Dominic Mann

Table of Contents

Unlock Her Legs: How to Effortlessly Attract Women and Become the Man Women Unlock Their Legs For

Table of Contents

Introduction

PART I: YOU

1. The one thing that repels all women

The less f*cks you give, the more f*cks you get

Its all about the sub-communication

Neediness in summary

Key ideas

2. The evolution of attraction

A cavewomans attraction

Why women love jerks

How to get laid like a bad boy

3. The power of preselection

How to use preselection to unlock her legs

Be the prize

Key ideas

4. Pursue a mission

Zero neediness

The ambitious bad boy

5. Her respect and attraction go hand in hand

The two types of respect

It all comes down to investment

Investment equals attraction

6. How to create intense sexual tension

Why flirt?

Push-pull

Chase framing

Key ideas

7. Physically escalating your way to the bedroom

Always be escalating

How to move in for the kiss

How to seal the deal

The final escalation

Introduction

So youre having trouble with the ladies.

Well, fear not, my friend. Help is on the way.

Now, there are several potential reasons for your stint of involuntary celibacy.

First, and perhaps most likely, youve taken to heart the belief that if only you were nice enough and could show women what a great guy you are, theyd be all over you. I mean, youre such a nice guy! What woman wouldnt want you?

Second, perhaps youre quite the sexy beast and catch women eying you but it seems that as soon as you open your mouth women seem to lose interest.

The third and not uncommon possibility is that youve studied pickup techniques and understand how it should all work in theory, but you seem to be missing something. You cant seem to get to the core of female attraction. Youre missing the fundamentals that make women go weak at the knees and, well unlock their legs.

Fourth, perhaps you get it on just fine with the ladies but you find yourself struggling to make anything come of it. Everything goes great and then all of a sudden you feel like youve hit a ceiling. You cant seem to (or you dont know how to) progress all the way to the bedroom.

If any of these possibilities sound remotely like you, youll be pleased to know that this book is divided into two closely interconnected parts:

Part I will turn you into the kind of guy that women are biologically hardwired to unlock their legs for. (Hint: Its not being the nicest guy ever. Far from it)

Part II will turn you into a neo-Casanova, creating near-tangible sexual tension with masterful flirting and physically escalating your way to the bedroom.

Put simply, in Part I youll become the type of guy she unlocks her legs for, and then in Part II youll learn the specifics of how to unlock her legs.

So without further ado, lets dive right in and turn you into a woman-slayer. The James Bond of James Bonds. Sans the 007 status. Perhaps 0069?

PART I: YOU

Becoming the man shes biologically hardwired to unlock her legs for.

1. The one thing that repels all women

Theres one thing that repels all women.

And yet most guys are the embodiment of this trait.

What is it, you ask?

Well, Ill just give it away

Here it is: Neediness.

But Im not needy! you cry out.

Yes, my friend, you almost certainly are.

You see, neediness isnt just the obvious things, such as being obsessive, going through her texts, calling her 69 times a day, and getting super jealous every second shes not with you.

Being needy comes through, even in the small things. It comes throughalbeit subtly, at timesin the way you talk to her, treat her, act around her, and so on.

But the most clear sign of a needy man, by far, is the overall relationship dynamics. (Note: Although Im using the word relationship, this can apply to meeting a woman for the first time, dating, being in a long-term relationship, etc.)

Now, you ask. What do you mean by relationship dynamics?

Good question, my friend.

Now, a word of warning: This is going to sound very Machiavellian. But I want you to bear with me.

You see, it comes down to this: How much effort are you putting into the relationship/woman?

In other words, how invested are you in her and the relationship?

THE LESS F*CKS YOU GIVE, THE MORE F*CKS YOU GET

A surefire sign of a needy man is a man who invests a lot of time, energy, effort (and even money) into a woman while getting very little (if anything) in return.

The more you invest in a woman, the less attracted to you she is. Its really that simple.

For you analytical types: The amount of time/energy/effort/emotion/money a man invests in a woman is negatively correlated to her attraction. (Except, of course, for the fact that he needs to invest a little bit to get her number, set up a date, flirt a bit, etc.)

Anyhow

Here is an approximate graph:

Figure 1. The more invested in her you are, the less attractive you are in her eyes.

In case youd like some reference points:

Figure 2. The less f*cks you give, the more f*cks you get.

I know this is completely contrary to all that feel-good emotional bullcr*p society pumps into you about how you just need to show her what a nice guy you are.

I know youve been taught that the way to get a babe is to wine and dine her for months and buy her flowers and chocolates and take her for rides in your fancy car. That if only you could be nicer to her than every other guy shes met, then shell want to sleep with you.

But its all a lie.

Its not what women are biologically hardwired to find attractive.

At best, this sort of needy behavior will land you in the friend zone, at worst, shell find you sexually repulsive. Either way, you lose.

The ironic truth is that the neediest get the least. Needy men get what others give them, not what they want.

Men who have zero neediness, on the other hand, get exactly (and often more than) what they want. Women find them irresistible.

But why?

Why are women instinctively (yes, instinctively ) attracted to guys who have zero neediness? Why are they instinctively attracted to men who have options? Who feel like they dont need to prove anything?

Well explore the evolutionary reasons for this in the next chapter, but before we move on, lets examine neediness on a deeper level

ITS ALL ABOUT THE SUB-COMMUNICATION

Mindset is everything. Its not so much about the needy behavior itself, but about where it is that the behavior comes from. Its about what your behavior implies about you as a manthe sub-communication.

For example, buying a woman you barely know a drink at a bar or bragging to her about your job is obviously coming from a place of perceived inadequacy. You feel youre not good enough for her on your own, or you feel inferior to her or intimidated by her beauty, and so you attempt to compensate.

Meanwhile, the guy whos playfully teasing a woman about something or another is, through his actions, implying the exact opposite. He has zero neediness. In fact, he might be testing her to see if shes good enough for him . Hes the catch, and shes just another chick chasing after him (at least this is his mindset).