Avery Hayden - Irresistible: How To Attract Women With Ease

Avery Hayden

Irresistible

Copyright Avery Hayden, 2018

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Youve been lied to. We all have.

Throughout our lives, we have been told that to succeed with women you need three things: looks, money, and status.

Our society taught us this. Our parents taught us this. Our entire upbringing taught us that our ability to attract women is out of our hands.

Supposedly, if you want to date beautiful women, your best bet is to become a famous actor or, at least, get rich.

Dont get me wrong, being high-status, rich, and good-looking will all help you attract the attention of women.

But theres another way. Theres a way to attract women with not the size of your wallet, but the power of your personality.

Why does society lie to us about what it takes to succeed with women?

Its not some global conspiracy, no one is intentionally deceiving us.

Were lied to because its easier to think that success with women is determined by factors outside of our control like money and status.

Its so much easier for a man to think, Well, Im not good-looking, so theres no point in going out and approaching beautiful women, then it is to think, Okay, if I go approach attractive women on a regular basis, I can learn from what works and what doesnt to figure out how to come across as confident and attractive.

Youve been taught that if you want to succeed with women, you need to be famous or unusually good-looking, because its much easier to think that success with women is something outside of your immediate control than it is to take responsibility for the quality of your dating life. Thats why the whole world thinks you cant just go up to a girl and win her over with your personality.

You can attract even the most beautiful women with ease. But the first step is to decide for yourself that it is possible, despite what the world has told you.

What could possibly be more attractive to women than an impressive salary or a perfect jawline?

Your behavior.

Women are literally wired to respond to certain behaviors with sexual arousal.

The human brain developed over the course of millions of years. The brain of a modern woman is barely different from the brain of a cavewoman 100,000 years ago.

100,000 years ago there were no Rolex watches or Lamborghinis, women couldnt determine whether a man was attractive based on the stuff he possessed. No, they had to determine whether a man was attractive based on how he behaved.

The male brain evolved to be sensitive to a womans physical appearance because a man can sleep with a new woman every 15 minutes without risking anything.

The female brain evolved to be ultra-sensitive to a mans behavior, because if a woman had sex with the wrong guy, shed be risking a 9 month pregnancy and a child. The child of a socially weak or incompetent man would be far less likely to make it in the world than the child of a confident, assertive man.

Because of this, women evolved to rely less on visual cues that indicate a man is attractive, and more on the behavioral cues that indicate a man is attractive.

Thats why the female brain is designed to respond to confidence more than anything else.

If you approach a woman with genuine confidence, she wont be able to help but be attracted to you. She will feel in her bones that you are an alpha-male, and that shed be lucky to date you.

This confidence cannot be faked. You must develop it by interacting with women in the real world. This book will guide you through the process of becoming deeply self-confident and naturally attractive to women.

Follow the steps laid out for you in Irresistible, and you will be able to attract women with ease.

Welcome to Irresistible. You are reading this book because want to attract and date the highest quality women.

Depending on your starting point, this may sound like a fantasy reserved for famous, rich, model-looking guys.

Just 7 years ago, thats what I would have thought. I was 19 and still hadnt even kissed a girl. To make matters worse, I was diagnosed with social anxiety - it was so bad that simply going to a public place would give me a panic attack.

My social skills were sub-par: I was the least confident person I knew. But I was desperate to change. I was willing to do anything to become attractive to women.

My only guidance came in the form of books like The Game and The Mystery Method , and while these books inspired me to take action, they actually lead me to become even less attractive to women.

I thought the techniques in these books would make women like me. I thought I could make up for my lack of self-confidence by insulting a girl with a well timed neg. I thought I could capture a girls imagination with an opinion opener, and impress her with DHV storytelling.

None of those techniques worked. If anything, they repelled women more than they attracted them. This is because what you say to women isnt nearly as important as who you are . No matter what I said, I was still a deeply insecure guy who was trying to compensate for that insecurity with tricks and techniques.

It took me years of trial and error, but I eventually became the attractive man I had always dreamed of being. Today, I can walk up to a beautiful woman, create instant attraction, and start a sexual relationship with her if I want to.

And you can become that guy, too. In fact, if you follow the advice in this book, you can do it in significantly less time than it took me. You wont need to make many of the mistakes I made - because this book will teach you how to make rapid progress towards your goals.

Why do most guys fail to get the dating life they want? Is it because theyre not good looking or rich enough? No. (Ill explain why soon.)

Most guys are bad with women not because of something they lack, but because of something they dont see . These men have whats known as a blind spot.

A blind spot is something that prevents you from getting the results you want - without your conscious awareness.

Lets look at an example of what a blind spot looks like:

Imagine you want to build 20 pounds of muscle. You find a workout plan that promises to increase your muscle mass. Then you buy a gym membership and start lifting weights 5 times a week.

You follow this plan religiously. Weeks go by, then months. You expect that when you look in the mirror, the scrawny guy you once were will be replaced with the body of an Adonis.

To your chagrin, this doesnt happen. Even after 6 months of training, youve barely gained any muscle.

So, you double down and work out with even more frequency and intensity.

Another six months go by, and still, its a scrawny guy looking back at you in the mirror.

What happened in this scenario?

The man in the above example had a blind spot. Its true that lifting weights will help you build muscle. But only if your diet facilitates muscle growth. This man lifted weights regularly, but he didnt change his diet. He wasnt eating enough food to put on muscle.

He was scrawny in the first place because he was eating less calories than his body could use. Adding exercise to his daily routine wasnt enough to build muscle, he also needed to change his diet.