Jason Young - Daygame for the Common Man: How to Approach an Attractive Woman, Get Her Contact Info, Take Her on a Date, and Have Sex with Her – without Dealing with the Club Scene

Daygame for the Common Man

How to Approach an Attractive Woman, Get Her Contact Info, and Set Up a Date That Will Go Somewhere Without Dealing with

the Club Scene or Having Any Prior Experience with Game

By Jason Young

If youre reading this, Ill assume youre a man whos into women and would like to have more success with dating women. Ill also assume youre not a creeper, weirdo, rapist, or serial killer.

Now that thats out of the way, here are a couple of paragraphs for the dumbasses who will grossly misinterpret the guidance this book provides.

Dear Dumbass,

Many of the techniques and approaches in this book will require you to step out of your comfort zone, especially when it comes to being more confident and forward when it comes to dealing with women. You need to know that nothing in this book should be construed to mean that its ever okay to physically hurt or threaten any woman, no matter what she does.

Most men arent forward enough with women, so being more forward will set you apart in positive ways. This does not mean its okay to touch a woman who clearly doesnt like for you to touch her. Its never okay to continue making sexual advances toward any woman who clearly does not like for you to do that. Its certainly not okay to force yourself on any woman sexually I dont care how much you think she really wants it.

If things progress with a girl, always check to make sure she is of legal age for sex before you do anything of a sexual nature with her. Furthermore, make sure you understand the laws regarding age of consent before you approach. Im serious on this. Girls will lie about their ages, so make damn sure youre in the clear. Check her I.D. If you think Im joking, I can assure you Im not.

Some women play hard to get -- thats one thing. But if she says No, you stop whatever youre doing. If you fuck this up, dont blame anyone connected with this book we did not advise you to take things too far, and we will not have your back. You are responsible for your actions .

Furthermore, check the laws and ordinances in your area before attempting pickup. Most places in the world havent lost their minds regarding this stuff, but there are some areas in which simply asking for a womans number on the street might get you in hot water (yes, were at that point in history).

Again, I want you to become a ladies man, not some mans lady in Cell Block C. Dont be stupid, dont break the law, and be respectful towards women; theyre wonderful.

The ones that arent are not worth your time.

Jason Young is a regular kind of guy who was born and raised in New York and attended university in London. Following his studies, he returned to New York, where he worked in a number of companies, until he found his dream job working in real estate.

When he was in his early twenties, Jason suddenly realized that he found it difficult to approach and talk to women during the daytime. No matter what he tried, and no matter how attracted he was to them, he simply couldnt find the words to break the ice.

Determined that this crisis in confidence would not deter him, Jason worked hard at breaking down the barriers he was encountering, until he had developed a foolproof system that cut away the awkwardness he felt and made him more outgoing and self-assured.

Now in his 30s, he has written a dating book which aims to help other men who have experienced the same problem. Mainly aimed at those who are in their 20s and 30s, it helps them to build confidence, know the right things to say and effortlessly talk to women no matter what the circumstances are.

When he isnt working or chatting to women, Jason loves spending time outdoors. He enjoys the beach when the weather is good and hiking in mountain ranges, as well as just hanging out with friends in a bar or restaurant, observing the body language which fascinates him so much.

Jason also devotes some of his free time to helping out at an animal shelter and his hopes for the future are that he will be able to travel more and meet as many interesting people as he can.

Listen to me.

It doesnt matter how much money you have. It doesnt matter what your background is. It doesnt matter if you havent slept with a woman in six months (or more).

Fill in your own excuse(s) in the blank ________________.

Now, understand that those excuses dont really matter .

Rich, Famous, Ripped -- and Lonely

Most men think they have to be rich, famous, or incredibly handsome to get women, especially women they consider to be agonizingly beautiful. If it were that simple, how do you account for the rich guys who resort to hiring escorts (if they have the money to throw around, go for it. Im not knocking them)? What about the tall, ripped, Adonis-looking guys you know that only get laid when a woman throws herself at them (which doesnt happen nearly as often as you might think), or when shes hammered drunk?

The answer is Game. Yes, thats a capital letter because, by God, its that important.

Sure, if you have shoddy game but you happen to be loaded to the gills, it helps. If you have shoddy game, and youre a perfect male specimen, it helps. All of these things help, but the key ingredient is Game.

Dont believe me? Go Google the homeless guys who sleep with different women all the time. Go do it. Its real.

If they can do it, whats your excuse?

All Natural

Think about guys you know.

That guy who never has a steady job, whose life is a constant roller-coaster ride of drama, but who somehow manages to regularly bed attractive women? In every other aspect of life, hes a total loser, except for when it comes to women.

How does this happen?

Either hes naturally gifted when it comes to women, or hes developed strong Game.

Only a small percentage of the male population are natural-born lady-killers. Ive known them, and the entire seduction process truly is effortless for them, so much so that they struggle to explain how they do it. For them, it would be the equivalent of telling a child how to ride a bicycle: You get on, you pedal, and you steer. Its that simple.

But most of us arent full-fledged naturals. Granted, all men possess some degree of natural game. Most Pickup Artist (PUA) books describe us as though we have absolutely zero chance, and we must build our Game from the ground up. Its not that bad; you have aspects of Game that are already working for you (or could) if you knew what to do and consistently did it .

The Joys (and Limitations) of Game

By now, most guys are aware of martial arts. Take Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu for example. No, youre not going to be putting women in rear-naked chokes. The underlying premise of Jiu-Jitsu is to level the playing field, allowing a smaller person to effectively defend himself or herself against someone of equal or greater size and strength.

It works. Im not a particularly big fella, but I can hold my own with most guys. Game functions in much the same way. So youre not a male model with a few million dollars worth of walking-around-money? You can still sleep with (and establish relationships with), attractive women.

Just as Jiu-Jitsu has limitations, so does Game. If youre a strapping buck of 115 lbs., and 5 4 tall, you probably shouldnt tangle with someone who weighs three times as much as you and stands a foot taller than you. There are some things you wont be able to do, even with the best technique in the world. Thats why weight classes were invented.

Game opens a world of options for you, but it isnt the magic bullet. You will not be able to get any woman you want. Certain types of women will go gaga over you, while certain types will always be repulsed by you. No matter your level of experience, remember this: women flake . Solid Game may turn a flake into a non-flake, but women will flake on you. All the Game in the world wont change this. Dont get angry when it happens, and dont take it personally; its inherent in womens nature.