Justin Stenstrom - Approaching Women: A step-by-step guide to getting more dates

Approaching Women

A step-by-step guide to getting more dates

JUSTIN STENSTROM

Copyright 2015 Justin Stenstrom

All rights reserved.

ISBN-10: 1494743027

ISBN-13: 978-1494743024

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DEDICATION

I dedicate this book to my godmother Fufe, the most special human being on the planet. She's been like a second mother to me and helped me through the darkest points in my life. She's loved me unconditionally in life and has given so much happiness and joy. In return I can do nothing but thank God every day for giving me such a special person to enjoy life with. I love you Fufe!

CONTENTS

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

First, I want to thank my girlfriend Sarah for all of her love and support. She's beautiful inside and out, and lights up every room she enters with her sweet charm. Not a day goes by where she doesnt make me laugh and not a moment goes by where she doesn't have my back completely. She's my biggest critic, but also my truest fan! I love her for all her help and more importantly for all her love.

Secondly, Id like to acknowledge my best friend Shawn. Shawn's been through the worst of itback when I was young, shy, anxious, and even depressed, and he's been through the bestwhere I'm at now in my life. And through it all, Shawn's always been a great friend to me. There's not too many people in life who always have your best interest and love you like family, but Shawn's that guy. His support and friendship has definitely been a critical part of my personal and professional success. Thank you Scal!

Finally, I'd like to thank my awesome editor Steve T. and my amazing proofreader, Marinda W. for helping me perfect the following chapters. These two are awesome at what they do! Thanks guys.

"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself."

- Franklin Delano Roosevelt

Is This Book Right For You?

Let me first say that I am not the best at approaching women. In fact I am not even great at approaching women. And to top it off, I really dont enjoy approaching women all the time, like some dating coaches and pick-up artists do.

You see, Im just a regular, average guy. Im not super outgoing or exceptionally charismatic (Im definitely an introvert, as you may know by now). Im actually quite mellow and down-to-earth, like most other men. In fact, Ive found that its really quite rare to find guys (or even girls) who are incredibly outgoing. Most people, are actually more like me.

This of course means you probably are as well.

If youre not, I do apologize, but perhaps my teachings won't resonate as much with you. Not to say you wont learn anything, but to be quite honest, my approach in teaching men and women the intricacies of dating is geared mostly toward this group of people. I help mostly average people, with personalities similar to mine. There are other great coaches who are more outgoing, loud, charismatic, and extroverted, but that's not me, or my style.

I dont enjoy loud places. Im not a big fan of being the center of attention. I dont like wasting my time and going to places and doing activities that I dont enjoy. I do love hanging out with friends and going to the bar occasionally, but Im not a huge fan of meeting women there. This has never been my style. Instead, I love my peace and quiet. I love chatting with friends over dinner or hanging with a beautiful woman at the movies, and even reading a great book. This is my life, and I choose to do things that make me happy.

You can call me a nerd and it doesnt bother me.

I love being an intellectual and learning all sorts of new things. Among other interests, I love history, science, and technology. Whatever random topic piques my interest at any given time becomes a subject I love and want to learn everything about. Its great, because I truly feel like this is one of the most important functions of humans: To live and learn about as many things as possible in life.

With that said, now that you know a bit more about me, I would like to tell you , the reader, exactly who this book will benefit and why.

This book will help all people looking to improve their dating lives. Its for the average guy who doesnt like approaching women and doesnt know what to say when he finally does. Its for all those lonely guys (like my old former self) who need to get their asses in dating shape and find a woman.

This book will help the guys who need the most help: great guys, who just dont know where to start when it comes to finding a great woman. There are so many great women out there, and Im sure you see them all the time when you go out and about in your city or town. But up until now you probably had no idea what to do. If this is you, then this book will help you.

Trust me, this book will tell you exactly how to get your dating life in check and start meeting and dating women right away!

Its not a magic pill, and you wont be sleeping with thousands of women after reading this. You wont get laid just from reading this, so dont think that either. It takes a lot of work and a lot of effort to actually get to that point. But if you feel like you can take the time and actually implement some of the teachings in here, then I guarantee you will be successful with women. I promise that your dating life will be greatly improved and you will be meeting a lot more women if you put what I have to say into practice.

I cant do anything for you other than tell you what Ive seen work: with some of the best dating coaches in the world (who have taught me), with students of mine (that Ive coached personally), and with me (once I decided to change my life and get this area down pat).

Like I said, Im not really outgoing and I dont have a naturally charismatic personality, but Ive learned over the years that this can be developed. You dont have to always be introverted and quiet for 24 hours every day, even if this is your type of personality. No, you can actually learn to become quite extroverted and outgoing when you have to be. Its a skill, like anything else, and one you can learn and harness whenever you need to.

Ive learned how to turn on a sort of switch when I talk to women, and I become outgoing and charismatic in that short period of time when I communicate with them. I allow myself (even though I may not be 100 percent, naturally comfortable doing this) to open up and be a certain way. And this way happens to be a way that women love, and this is what I will teach you.

I used to be very lonely and depressed. I had no friends, sat at home all the time, and never had any girlfriends. I was introverted and I let this take hold of my life. I knew I liked my time alone, but I wanted to spend some of my time with others. I didnt want to always be alone, and this made me feel so lonely and unhappy.

If this sounds like you, I know exactly how you feel. It can be so tough to take that first step and actually make a change. Sometimes it takes something major to give you that initial push (as in my case, when I was dumped by a girl I really liked) and to give you a tough wake-up call. But why wait?